feeling so high like a firework, pop pop pop pop
a dangerous duo
wlw moodboard: yoonji and her gf
a/n: yoonji makes me swoon
in therapy my therapist and i were talking about my own feelings of self worth in relationships. and she asked me to say qualities about myself that someone else would be attracted to, on a romantic and platonic level. so i named some things like compassionate, empathetic, etc. and she said “you named things that you can give someone. ways you can serve, rather than ways that you are” and y'all..my mind was blown that’s gonna stick with me forever like she then proceed to tell me actual innate qualities about myself that she liked and thought anyone else would like as well and i hadn’t even considered those because like she said i was focused on things i could do outwardly to attract and maintain connections rather than who i was as a person..goddamn!!! thats tea!!!
With this in mind, this also makes me think of the ways people describe us. When people say the reasons that they love/like you or describe you as a person, are they only naming ways that you serve them? Are they equating your worth with how much you do for them?
ex. “You’re such a good listener. You’re so generous, you’re so compassionate. You’re always there for me. You always hold me down. You’re reliable”
vs.
“You’re so funny! You’re very vibrant. You’re creative, passionate, and intelligent. You’re optimistic. You’re so talented at ____” , etc. I think that’s very telling.
This FUCKED relationships up too because once this hit me, I realized people can just be in love with the way you make them feel instead of who you actually are. ALWAYS pay attention to the last little “vs” but there because it IS super telling
hi :) i am new to your blog so i am sorry if that was asked before, but i would like to know what your favorite bts songs are? also: i am still not over rms playlist! its soooooo good! i cant stop listening to it!!
Mood :( I literally love it so much!! Okay so I’ll just name my top favs.
We On
Coffee
Tomorrow
Rain
Love is Not Over
Whalien 52
Blood Sweat and Tears
Reflection
Spring Day
Serendipity
The Truth Untold
Paradise
rb if you’re a bi bitch who loves carbs
if you see this post you’re legally obligated to reply to it with your current favorite song
I hope you have a nice day 💕💕
Thank you so much anon :(💕
By My Side KookV | Do not edit
y’all know that part in call call call where jeonghan stops your heart
i missed you ): i hope that you’re doing better and that you’ve had lots of time to rest up! 💕
Ah I have!! Thank you so much anon.❤️ I am doing better these days I’m a lot happier.
Guess who’s back bitches?? Lol ik no one missed me on here