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i am always checking other people’s body language. my therapist says this is a normal conditioned response to what i’ve been through, she says - you like to see a problem before it becomes a problem.

i like to see a problem before it is a problem. if i can solve the problem early, then there will never be a problem to exist. if i can’t solve it, i’d like to leave, and if i can’t leave, i don’t know how to handle it. so i watch, and i wait for things that might not happen, and i duck out of parties early, and i don’t let people too close, and i don’t believe you like me, and i say i am happy on my own.

my therapist says - with all this watching, don’t you worry you might misunderstand a signal and end up seeing rejection where there is acceptance? don’t you think you might be giving this a lot of power over your existence? 

with all this watching, she says. when do you get to actually experience?

i think lesbians should be allowed to commit crimes actually

i feel like Katara should get to remain taller than Aang in all adult renditions, unless:

+ he is doing manner legs because he is a polite young man and she would like to squeeze his cheeks

+ she is gently kicking him in the ankles until he does manner legs so she can squeeze his cheeks

+ she is in a tower of water, he’s on a spire of earth, and they’re arguing over who’s taller while the angle makes it increasingly impossible to tell who is. momo is perched on Aang’s head and is squeezing his cheeks anxiously

Katara: Can you describe the person who stabbed you?

Aang, sighing: Well, they weren’t very friendly…

We can have a happy family and solo travels of Aang and Tenzin

Ok Aang dies at 66 and first season Tenzin is 51 and Korra is 16 so Tenzin was 35  when Aang died. So Aang was like 31 when Tenzin was born, and 23 when Bumi was born. 

Age gaps: Tenzin-Bumi: 8 years, Tenzin-Kya: 4-5 year

1. Aang and Katara coparented so for 8 years they travelled with Bumi alone. Then Bumi and Kya. And they probably didn’t stop until much later when Aang was in republic city which makes sense at 30 something when Tenzin was born.

2. You can travel with a baby really smoll baby but you cant actually teach him about airbending culture least do stuff like koy riding or other -you have to be able to stand up stuff- but you can take all your family to those places. So more years of obligatory family time

3. You think that Katara would have missed her kid infancy, also wtf like Aang wouldn’t miss Katara if he went alone with his “favorite child”. 

4. It does make sense for Tenzin to travel alone with Aang (already 10 years old?) but probably because Bumi was already in the army (or whatever word LOK invedted for the army) and Kya was in her solo travels (mmmh ok 15 seems like too young so probably it was first the four of them and then Kya was like time to backpack) 

5. Those 3 years between Kya going backpacking gives us plenty of time of them to travel together and Katara to continue teaching her water bending in different setting while giving Aang and Tenzin alone time to air bend practice.

Srlsly it was unnecessary to create the “Aang was a bad dad plot”

tl;dr: WHY THE FUCK WOULD AANG IGNORE BUMI FOR LIKE 8 YEARS SPECIALLY IF HE IS 23 OK  AND KYA FOR 5 YEARS ITS DOESN’T MAKE SENSE. Also, there is a good analysis abut Aang loving to share his culture even with strangers so doesn’t make sense for him to neglect his kids about that. 

gen z kids don’t give a single fuck and they’re all like 9

Actually, Generation Z began in 1998. So if you’re 19 or younger, you’re gen Z

Actually Actually I’ve read that it began in 95. So as far as 22, I’m sorry for you but you’re gen Z.

18-23 year olds who are in the weird gray area between generations

“My boy Anti” HE REALLY IS SICK.

As soon as I saw it: “…oh dear.”

As soon as Jack said it: *In John Mulany voice* “That’s What I Thought You’d Say, You Ill Garbage Bag!” 

The scene with the muted music just reminds me of twitch streams where @therealjacksepticeye thinks he’s playing music and dancing to it when the audience cannot hear it at all

I’m sorry

Knew Hank was a baller

my name is connor i am the android sent by cyberlife

also, can you imagine Bryan’s reaction, if he’s gonna find out about Jack’s egos, especially about *cough* Anti *cough*

That’s for you Jack, from Bryan with love 😂 Enjoy the loop

We made a meme guys!

You asked for this @therealjacksepticeye

Also this took me like 5 hours and I have like no experience with editing can you tell

Jack: Alexa, tell me a Jacksepticeye quote

Alexa:

Jack: