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The show's over

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22|NYC|She/Her. Lesbian. Writing blog: Udg10-writes. simblr: udg10cc
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that post going around where op is like "I love having sex with my friends, a fine and normal thing to do" and the notes are filled with people going absolutely fucking nuclear melting into goo screaming about how "hookup culture" is disgusting... genuinely what's going on there

the replies do have some "what is this liberal degeneracy" (lmao) but it seems to be predominantly other queer people making what they clearly think are very enlightened leftist arguments about how sexualizing your friends is wrong and how they, personally, would never have sex with a friend and man it's exhausting. we are never getting free of anything if you can't even get a grip on you knee jerk disgust towards other people's completely harmless sexual practices.

I've seen a lot of sentiment across both the original post and now mine that boils down to people expressing support for having sex with friends in the ground that it's superior to having sex with someone you just met and have no pre-existing connection with and nope. uh uh. if that's your personal preference rock on but "better for you" is not the same as "better objectively." fucking a friend and fucking someone you barely know are both morally neutral acts. we can't support boning your friends in the grounds that it's better than xyz other types of sex that it's okay to dunk on; you should be supporting both on the grounds that other people's bodily autonomy and sexual choices are really none of your business.

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Frank Paton - Witness my Act and Deed (1882)

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wizardshark

Absolutely fucking dying over the name of this painting. We've had cats figured out since day fucking one

Some ancient Egyptian saw a cat knocking over canopic jars or something and said "this creature is a little bastard, I love it," and we've basically agreed ever since.

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