wiithprydea asked:

✮ Have you managed to stay away from drama? ☯ Have you ever tried to bring peace to a situation? ☀ What's your rp pet peeve? ❀ What has made you completely lose your chill? ✖ How has Tumblr RP changed since you started?♒ Thoughts on the fandom you're currently rping in?

since i made it a part of my rules to not get involved in drama ---- yes. before that, not so much. i’m very VOCAL about my opinions and i like to make sure people understand my point of view, if it’s something i find important. i’m never one to shove my opinion down others’ throats, i just want there to be an understanding between me and my friends. this ... sometimes leads to some problems when people heavily disagree with me. i’ve long since adopted this practice of INGORING drama and just kind of keeping to myself.

yeah i have, and sometimes it works but the majority of time people don’t want to HEAR reason in the heat of an argument. this goes with my whole anti-drama thing as well, i’ve long since just tried to ignore such things ... save me the bother. i’m better off for it.

couple of things! you can check out my response to this question on @rckoon for one example, but another (albeit shorter) example is when people are so INTOLERANT of differing opinions. an example of a good response was when me and a friend were talking about the brexit situation. my friend and i had different opinions, and we voiced how we felt about it ---- and while no opinions were changed during the discussion, we still talk and stuff. the friendship didn’t waver from a differing opinion. instead of blatant intolerance, just try to accept that the point of view is different and that your opinion, no matter how justified, is not the be-all-end-all.

it’s WAY more flashy. lots of AESTHETIC choices and people care more about how they look. which isn’t a bad thing, i think it’s an improvement and i really enjoy how its developed.

ben 10 fandom is SMALL AS FUCK but it’s nice. considering it’s a part of the whole cartoon network ‘genre’ of rp, i’ve found plenty of friends here from other sub-fandoms of the cartoon network universes, and they’re all really interesting and really chill.

smartlittlewitch-deactivated201 asked:

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DRAMA. when some people get up in someone else’s business, or sends their clique after other people cuz they had a DISAGREEMENT. i’ve experienced this numerous times and each time it was cuz i disagreed with one of these people who, at the time, were my friends. apparently i have to agree with them on EVERYTHING or we can’t be friends. the moment i think something different, suddenly there’s anon hate in my askbox that, let’s be real, is never subtle. keep your clique around you, make them your safe space from DIFFERENT OPINIONS, and continue being your intolerant little self. i’m sure putting others down really does you good.

campluck asked:

Sun symbol

i’m gonna assume it’s this one you meant, there was one other that looked kinda like a sun. i have a few pet peeves, and since i’ve gotten TWO of these already. so one of my pet peeves, which is a style choice ---- any icons that are BELOW 80x80 in size or above 150x150 in size. it’s a style choice and a personal choice, of course ---- but it’s either too small to see or TOO BIG and too distracting. i don’t understand those choices, and while i can deal with the BIG ones i find it incredibly hard to deal with the small ones. like i’m half blind, squinting doesn’t do much to help. i mean you do you, but ... why?