So this is an Haylor blog, but this time i want to make a post for what happened in these couple of days cuz i am comfortable enough here.
I was one of the fewest rare people to say how Taylor literally loved Joe more than he ever did.
I was one of the fewest rare people to say how Taylor wrote songs about putting him on a such high pedestal and she was the inferior one and melodramatic one who did only wrong but he never did.
I was one of the fewest rare people, no maybe the only one to say that Lover was not happy at all. That many songs were anxious and not not talking about a secure, confident love. After ending reputation with an amazing song about future, about confidence of their love...
And all for that i was attacked by Taylor fandom especially for the last thing: i was insulted and called little kid(i'm 31 lol) who could not understand Lover cuz i never had an healthy relationship. But there is nothing healthy having a constant fear of your partner go away, having a costant insecurity of being not as much as your partner.
But now.. i'm here blasting, laughing as hell to see these fans changed their mind and saying the same things i used to say since years after You're Losing Me and its writing date, the break up, the Tree Pain story.. I'm watching these fans who once attacked me and insulted me changed their narratives cuz they don't have their own brain to think: they are just projecting Taylor feelings in them: Taylor said she was happy with Joe: oh they are best couple ever! That's true love!!!" Taylor now wants to say that the things were off for a long time before their break up? Yes, they were on and off for these 6 years, he never wanted her to shine and blah blah blah
This fandom literally can't have personal opinions and if you have one that doesn't match with theirs, well they will make you feel bad, but don't worry cuz what goes around comes back around and at the end you will be right.
Thanks for coming for my ted walk
You're not the only one with the negative opinion of their 'relationship.' I went as far as saying I wasn't even sure that Joe even 'liked' Taylor. If you ever saw them together he never looked happy. Of course I was ridiculed for my opinion. So, okay I can shut my mouth for awhile, but it wasn't easy. I knew Taylor was doing the wrong thing by giving up her lifestyle of going out and being carefree. Like you, I didn't care for the Lover album. If she was happy in her relationship that album would have been off the charts successful. Moreso than 1989. Finally, the day came when Taylor announced the breakup. In true form, Swifties unloaded on Joe. The ones that said they would be married with children were now ripping him to shreds. It's been the same way after every guy Taylor's dated. But step back and wait, we're probably going to be doing this again with Travis Kelce. I'm so tired.
All the proof were in the songs. Some swifties and JA fans just like to see what's on the surface and not see and understand that there's more hidden meanings to Taylor's songs about JA (or simply just in general) . I've said it before that lavender haze is about her being on a "haze" and being in denial about JA and their rs. Now people are realizing that.
There are many songs since reputation that never EVER made sense with Joe but most swifties are ignoring it because Taylor announced it in rep sessions that all the songs she was going to write will be about him. Guess they never thought Taylor has the ability to lie. Big reputation, where? Then folklore and evermore came out and people were so adamnant that it's all fiction then ignore other songs such as marjorie, epiphany, mtr, timt, mirrorball, etc. as being about her life and her experiences.
Taylor put JA on a pedastal. Again all proof are in the songs. She was always the one doing the effort (I guess some of it stems from the fact that Taylor feels like he owes Joe because he was the only bf who stayed with her when she's doing something self-destructive and who supported her in her darkest times). I remember saying that Joe never went to any of Taylor's big award shows but Taylor is always present. She would come with him to even the smallest parties because she was supporting him in his career. People were defending him saying that Taylor's the type to not let anyone be on the red carpet with her because it's her work or that they assume JA was just watching from home or that he just hates being in public or that he's busy blah blah blah then we hear Taylor thanking JA on her grammy for folklore and then we suddenly look back to the time in miss americana when Taylor said in her speech for her winning 1989 aoty in grammys where she's thinking no one was there to celebrate with her. He was not there to support her. He was not present. That's just the truth. Y'all remember how important it is for children for their parents to show up in their school events? Guess what? Adults like it when their loved ones show up to support them too.
Agree with all this ^^^
I was one of the few that saw the same thing. He did below the bare minimum and was praised. She put him on that pedestal and what did he really do? He couldn’t even acknowledge her on social media or post pics of her , them… He did nothing to really deserve her or her love, imo. I never saw him as being a supportive bf and I think she was in denial for a long while . She didn’t want to be scrutinized by the public for another rs that just didn’t work out . It wasn’t working for a good while and we can see that now.
Here, here! I was driven away from this fandom because of everyone's obsession with that relationship. In all honesty, when it was good it was mid and when it was bad it was borderline abusive. Thank god it's over.
