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hi gay people! decided to check this blog for the first time in a year b/c tumblr sent me an email that this blog turned 2 years old... wild. thank you for the kind messages of love and support in my absence!
honestly looking back at some of my posts... how awfully i worded things, the dumb perspectives i had as an inexperienced young adult, it makes me cringe. 😬 i spoke over a lot of people, interjected into many conversations ESPECIALLY as a white person that i shouldn’t interrupted, and like... i seemed so annoying!!! my 19 year old self PLEAAASE SHUT UPPPPPPPPPP!!!!
im so glad i quit the discourse blog thing. its horrible to be surrounded by so many people engaging with you in bad faith. and even now im still getting awful asks from rad..fems reblogging posts i made years ago... lol. the best advice i can give is to block freaks & make blocklists & engage with people you want to make friends with! don’t engage with idiots who think you’re stupid, it’s just a waste of time. play minecraft, terraria, puyo puyo. save up for a dog. god i want a husky.
and my perspective now is that, like, being against pedophilia, incest, abuse, transphobia, lesbophobia, etc. is just a normal people thing. thats just something you should expect from people online and IRL. the culture has shifted so now we’re listening to victims!! and spreading awareness and information!! and im so glad. it’s usual to find people clowning on freaks instead of defending them, and i love it so much.
other than that ive been working a lot lol. obsessed with terraria on the switch in my free time. still with my girlfriend and im growing out my hair. read both homestuck epilogues-- they sucked and im kinda out of the fandom because... the racism... the homophobia... the bastardization of my favorite characters.... nah. i love and stan she-ra on netflix and watched all of season three last night. Catra redemption arc when!!!!!!!!
hope yall are good! keep being awesome people and don’t be afraid to make friends online with other cool people. love y’all, take care! <3