pre-sex prep 👅
-do a hot oil treatment so your hair will be soft. mix equal parts of olive and avocado oil and warm it up in the microwave for about 30 seconds (check on it every 10 seconds though, you don’t want it to get too hot and burn you) put this on your hair and cover it with a shower cap (i use ones from the dollar store)
-run a bath, and add about a cup of milk (you can use regular,powdered, or almond) and oatmeal or oat flour. this will soften the hell out your skin. sit in here for about 30 minutes. then drain the tub and run a shower.
-use a good smelling conditioner. use whatever shampoo you want, but make sure your conditioner smells delicious,bc your hair will smell so good.
-never put soap in your vagina. like ever. use an unscented soap on the outer lips, and use water for everything else.
-use some exfoliating gloves, and focus on any rough patches of skin you have. especially exfoliate where ever you plan on shaving.
-if you’re going to shave, use a cheap dollar store conditioner or olive oil. after you’re done shaving,use cold water on any places you’ve shaved.
-once you’re out the shower, use shea butter or some other thick unscented lotion, and then scented lotion on top of that. this way your skin will be soft AND smell good.
-if you plan on makeup,make sure your mascara is waterproof,that your lipstick wont budge (try beauty bakerie’s lipsticks!) and try smokier, more sultry eye shadow, and for the love of everything use a damn setting spray!
-i find that ponytails r good for really rough sex bc your hair doesn’t get everywhere and it can also be pulled easily ;) but having your hair down is good for rly sensual sex.
-avoid super strong perfumes. instead put a scented oil in between your thighs and behind your ear. you can find scented fragrance oil on amazon. (you can dilute it in some coconut oil if it isn’t already pre-diluted) vanilla,rose,jasmine and lavender are all good options.
-be sure to drink lots of water and/or cranberry juice beforehand if u plan on receiving oral sex. avoid fish,garlic,red meat,dairy and anything else smelly.
-getting rawed is great but if u and ur partner haven’t been tested wear protection pls. bring your own protection always, be safe.
-look at my overnight hoe bag essentials list if you plan on staying at their house overnight!