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My friend told me a story he hadn’t told anyone for years. When he used to tell it years ago people would laugh and say, ‘Who’d believe that? How can that be true? That’s daft.’ So he didn’t tell it again for ages. But for some reason, last night, he knew it would be just the kind of story I would love.   When he was a kid, he said, they didn’t use the word autism, they just said ‘shy’, or ‘isn’t very good at being around strangers or lots of people.’ But that’s what he was, and is, and he doesn’t mind telling anyone. It’s just a matter of fact with him, and sometimes it makes him sound a little and act different, but that’s okay.   Anyway, when he was a kid it was the middle of the 1980s and they were still saying ‘shy’ or ‘withdrawn’ rather than ‘autistic’. He went to London with his mother to see a special screening of a new film he really loved. He must have won a competition or something, I think. Some of the details he can’t quite remember, but he thinks it must have been London they went to, and the film…! Well, the film is one of my all-time favourites, too. It’s a dark, mysterious fantasy movie. Every single frame is crammed with puppets and goblins. There are silly songs and a goblin king who wears clingy silver tights and who kidnaps a baby and this is what kickstarts the whole adventure.   It was ‘Labyrinth’, of course, and the star was David Bowie, and he was there to meet the children who had come to see this special screening.   ‘I met David Bowie once,’ was the thing that my friend said, that caught my attention.   ‘You did? When was this?’ I was amazed, and surprised, too, at the casual way he brought this revelation out. Almost anyone else I know would have told the tale a million times already.   He seemed surprised I would want to know, and he told me the whole thing, all out of order, and I eked the details out of him.   He told the story as if it was he’d been on an adventure back then, and he wasn’t quite allowed to tell the story. Like there was a pact, or a magic spell surrounding it. As if something profound and peculiar would occur if he broke the confidence.   It was thirty years ago and all us kids who’d loved Labyrinth then, and who still love it now, are all middle-aged. Saddest of all, the Goblin King is dead. Does the magic still exist?   I asked him what happened on his adventure.   ‘I was withdrawn, more withdrawn than the other kids. We all got a signed poster. Because I was so shy, they put me in a separate room, to one side, and so I got to meet him alone. He’d heard I was shy and it was his idea. He spent thirty minutes with me.   ‘He gave me this mask. This one. Look.   ‘He said: ‘This is an invisible mask, you see?   ‘He took it off his own face and looked around like he was scared and uncomfortable all of a sudden. He passed me his invisible mask. ‘Put it on,’ he told me. ‘It’s magic.’   ‘And so I did.   ‘Then he told me, ‘I always feel afraid, just the same as you. But I wear this mask every single day. And it doesn’t take the fear away, but it makes it feel a bit better. I feel brave enough then to face the whole world and all the people. And now you will, too.   ‘I sat there in his magic mask, looking through the eyes at David Bowie and it was true, I did feel better.   ‘Then I watched as he made another magic mask. He spun it out of thin air, out of nothing at all. He finished it and smiled and then he put it on. And he looked so relieved and pleased. He smiled at me.   ‘'Now we’ve both got invisible masks. We can both see through them perfectly well and no one would know we’re even wearing them,’ he said.   ‘So, I felt incredibly comfortable. It was the first time I felt safe in my whole life.   ‘It was magic. He was a wizard. He was a goblin king, grinning at me.   ‘I still keep the mask, of course. This is it, now. Look.’   I kept asking my friend questions, amazed by his story. I loved it and wanted all the details. How many other kids? Did they have puppets from the film there, as well? What was David Bowie wearing? I imagined him in his lilac suit from Live Aid. Or maybe he was dressed as the Goblin King in lacy ruffles and cobwebs and glitter.   What was the last thing he said to you, when you had to say goodbye?   ‘David Bowie said, ‘I’m always afraid as well. But this is how you can feel brave in the world.’ And then it was over. I’ve never forgotten it. And years later I cried when I heard he had passed.’   My friend was surprised I was delighted by this tale.   ‘The normal reaction is: that’s just a stupid story. Fancy believing in an invisible mask.’   But I do. I really believe in it.   And it’s the best story I’ve heard all year.

Paul Magrs (via yourfluffiestnightmare)

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Let’s talk Ginny Weasley, folks

Someday I’m going to write a real fic about this but I have some VERY IMPORTANT post-HPB Ginny headcanons that I felt a sudden strong urge to write down. QUEER GINNY QUIDDITCH PLAYER:

  • Ginny and Harry move in together as soon as they graduate. They’ve waited long enough, and they’ve been through more than most adults, so they’re ready, right?
  • Wrong. Now that Harry is not actively trying to stop the most evil wizard of all time it becomes clear that he is really not okay. He has, understandably, suffered a serious amount of trauma and between the nightmares and the flashbacks and the panic attacks there’s not much room for learning how to share a life with somebody else.
  • And there’s not much room for Ginny’s own trauma, or her grief over losing Fred—not because Harry isn’t trying to support her, but because he has a hard time just taking care of himself, and Ginny is her mother’s daughter, after all, and doesn’t know how to be there for Harry without making endless cups of tea and soothing him through two a.m. fits of sobbing and generally pushing down her own needs and sometimes she stares at the ceiling in the dark and feels like the walls are closing in.
  • The first time a Quidditch scout tries to recruit her she says no. And the second time, and the third. But then this woman who looks like she could legitimately take down a hippogriff offers her a place on the Holyhead Harpies, the all-women’s team Ginny has followed since she was old enough to lisp the word “Quaffle,” and she says yes.
  • “We need a break,” she says to Harry. “You need to go to therapy. I need to go to therapy. I need to be somewhere that won’t remind me every day of what I’ve lost. I love you, but I have to go.” Because tough love, right? She doesn’t tell him her heart is breaking. But she also doesn’t tell him that walking out lifts a weight from her shoulders so heavy she can’t believe she was still standing under it.
  • Her father takes the train with her to Wales and speaks solemnly with the bemused ticket-taker about how the wheels go and when he hugs her goodbye he pulls her close and tells her he’s proud of her for doing what she needs to do.
  • The Harpies practice on a pitch overlooking the Irish Sea. The air is cold and the sky is impossibly blue and when Ginny gets on her broom, the rest of the world disappears.
  • Her teammates are a bunch of incredible women with impressive muscles and asymmetrical haircuts and mouths like sailors and it only takes Ginny a couple of weeks to go from intimidated to infatuated to one of the gang. Home, she thinks one evening as they all sit on a cliff above the sea, watching a meteor shower, and she only feels a little bit guilty that the word is a better fit for here than it ever was for little flat she shared with Harry.
  • Ginny cuts her hair short and is pretty sure she knows what message she’s sending there. Sure enough, it’s not long after that one of her teammates, a statuesque Keeper with a pierced nose and a lethal swing, corners her in a pub bathroom and for the first time in her life Ginny has her hand up a woman’s shirt.
  • It’s good. She likes it. She likes it…a lot.
  • Dating is not really her game right now, which suits her just fine. There are a lot of women interested in foulmouthed red-haired Chasers in and around the Harpies’ sphere so she’s hardly pressed for choice. It’s not the first time she’s developed a reputation, but she prefers the admiring smirks of her teammates to the judgmental whispers that followed her around Hogwarts when she went from dating Michael Corner to Dean Thomas to Harry Potter in the space of a year or so. Nobody calls her names here.
  • It’s been nearly six months before she realizes that none of them know who she is. They were all fighting their own battles in Wales during the war—a tense standoff with a community of giants unfolded in the hills nearby—so they didn’t place her as Harry Potter’s best friend’s sister, or as Harry Potter’s ex-girlfriend. Her teammate nearly spits out her beer when Ginny mentions, casually, the time Harry kissed her for the first time after a victorious Quidditch match.
  • “HARRY FREAKING POTTER,” she squawks, and for a sinking second Ginny thinks the honeymoon is over—she’ll be that girl now, famous and broken—but her teammates just tell her if she ever wants to talk, they’re here, and then go about treating her exactly the same as before (except for the occasional furtive question about Harry’s skills as Seeker. “Did he really swallow the Snitch?” someone asks).
  • Of course Ginny’s still grieving, and she still has days she can’t get out of bed. But she feels like she’s at least moving towards healing. She talks to the team’s psychologist and starts writing to Neville, sometimes, when she needs to reach out to someone else who lived through that terrifying year of the Hogwarts resistance. On the two-year anniversary of Fred’s death she has a Quidditch match, and her whole family comes up to watch, and they go out to dinner afterwards and laugh and cry and reminisce late into the night.
  • She talks to Harry, eventually. He’s moved in with Ron and Hermione and although there are still shadows under his eyes, he’s put on some much-needed weight and he talks about his Auror training like he really cares, like it’s given him a reason to get up in the morning.
  • “I get it now,” he says. “Why you had to leave.”
  • She hugs him goodbye. There’s no spark between them anymore. No trace of that sharp wanting pull she used to feel when she was near him. She thinks that’s probably okay.
  • Back in Holyhead, on the Quidditch pitch, high above the gleaming dark sea, she dips and swerves and darts through the air: sun on the water, the wind at her back.
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boykeats

to any of you who might be interested, because there’s been a tendency for historians and journalists et al refusing to acknowledge 19th century medical pioneer dr. james barry’s identity as a gay trans man, this recent article in the guardian outright names barry as transgender, and the entry on his commemorative statue, which is on england’s register for lgbtq historical sites, not only uses he/him pronouns for barry the whole way through, but also acknowledges that he was likely in a relationship with another man

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kanaya

What was Zeus’s stripper name?

Greece Lightning.

It has been over a year since I’ve made this post now, and I swear every single fucking day I get notifications out the ass with you shits reblogging it. Let it die.

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“Icarus. The original myth had two parts. Daedalus said to his son, ‘I fashioned these wings for you. Two rules. Don’t fly too high, or the sun will melt the wax. But, more important, son, don’t fly too low. Because if you fly too low, the water and the waves will surely weigh down the wings, and you will die.’ We’ve left out the second part of the myth. We don’t say to people anymore, ‘Don’t fly too low.’ All we do from the time they are 4 years old is warn them against hubris. We have created this industrially led structure that says: How dare you.”

– Seth Godin

I will reblog this every single time I see it

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athenaeyes

AESTHETIC : ACADEMIC MURDER

For if the modern mind is whimsical and discursive, the classical mind is narrow, unhesitating, relentless - Donna Tartt
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ftmatty

8 Ways to Naturally Increase T Levels

• Lose Weight • Intense Exercise (Especially Combined with Intermittent Fasting) • Consume pleanty of zinc • Strength Training • Optimizing Vitamin D • Reduse stress • Limit/Eliminate Sugar from diet • Eat Healthy Fats

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The fact that nobody is talking about Secret’s new commercials pisses me off

This makes me so happy ☺️

Yesssss😭 I damn near cried

I LOVE THIS OMFG

YOOOOOOOOOOO THATS AMAZING!!!!!

Can someone help me understand I wanna cry to ..I feel something went over my head

The woman in the bathroom is trans and is scared that if she comes out of the stall the women that walked in will insult or harass her. but when she comes out they compliment her on her dress instead. The add ends with saying “stress tested for women.” It means Secret is including trans women in their definition of women. 

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viragon

I have reblogged this three times now, each one mentioning the fact that Secret not only included a trans woman, but that they /had the other women compliment her dress and treat her with respect/. I will reblog this every time I see it because it’s so important. More companies should involve trans people in their marketing - we do exist. Props to Secret for getting in on this movement. It makes me really happy to see more of the trans community represented in daily television.

Reblog the shit out of this

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