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i am a very mean cat

@themeanestpossiblecat-blog / themeanestpossiblecat-blog.tumblr.com

here are some examples of me being rude to men on the internet
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blog (mostly) archived but please still enjoy it

hello all

i (mostly) archived this blog -- nothing personal, i just have an on and off relationship with online dating for the sake of my personal security, plus, how many ways can i be mean to men anyway

please continue to enjoy posts, love ya, be well, demolish the institution that is manhood, death to amerikkka, take care, etc etc

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💀💀💀 look i’m not asking for much, i just need you to say something interesting in order for me to be interested

These women are just horrible people. Like seriously, what is wrong with you? Why are you so fucking callous?

You were such an unbelievable cunt to this person. He didn’t ask you out, so why would you say you ‘I don’t want to go out with you?’ You preemptively wanted to decline any invitations? Why, instead of thanking him for saying something nice about you, ‘you must get that a lot,’ would you reply back just to inform him of his accuracy. There is no other reason, you just wanted to be a narcissistic bitch. Then you add in ‘I hope you are well.’

Really? LOL You just took a shit on the guy’s head,with a total disregard for his feelings, yet, you hope he is well? Did you even believe that yourself when you wrote it?

You see. This is bitch shit. Shit bitches do. Total bitch behavior. If you’re going to message the guy like a cunt, just own it. Don’t throw in this ‘I hope you are well’ to present yourself as a decent person in touch with humanity (which you are clearly not) or simply to avoid blow-back from the guy (like a coward). Just, why?

First of all, yes, it was probably one of the lamest messages I’ve ever seen sent to a woman. You could have taken a screenshot of his message alone to illustrate that point. Why didn’t you leave it at that?

The rejection, the rudeness, the self praise, it’s all non productive, self serving negative energy. Bitches like you will never pass on the opportunity to be rude to someone. Don’t you think that needs examining? Does being this much of a bitch do positive things for your life, or really make you feel better the way you think it does? Do you really feel justified to act the way you do?

What’s funny is, women like you actually think you are important, a good catch, your opinions are valuable, etc. My question to you is, what woman worth a SHIT actually takes the time to post messages from every loser that messages her, for over a year, just to impress herself and strangers on Tumblr? The type of woman that has low self esteem, and needs some misguided empowerment, that’s who. The type of sad narcissistic bitch who thinks all men are ‘boring,’ yet her only hobby for the last year, ironically, is ragging on ‘boring’ men. Isn’t it sad that instead of actually having fun with men, you have fun at their expense?

She’ll go on about how to send a message, as if her advice on social conduct is worth a shit. A ‘mean cat’ is telling you to be ‘polite and compelling’ to her. Sure…

“i like approaching online dating the same way i’d approach flirting with a stranger at a party. so, comments about their body, monologuing, boring small talk – i’d avoid these in favor of reading their vibe and responding accordingly.”

Really, so you act how you would online, the same way you would act in real life? If a guy came up to you in a bar or at a party and introduced himself, told you that you’re pretty and you ‘must hear that a lot,’ you’d say ‘yeah I do get that alot,’ and ‘I hope you’re ok, but I don’t want to talk to you.’ That’s what you’d say? Bitch, you’d probably lie and say you had a boyfriend. You’re a fucking coward. Follow your own advice. That bitch mentality of entitlement and special treatment is what’s going to keep you working on your blog for another year and a half.

The truth is women like you go online to these dating sites for their intended purposes (like you probably did in April 2016 when you started your cute little site), you get nowhere on them, and then you just make a big joke out it. Stats show most people meet an ideal match online inside like 3 months. Add a year to that and here you are, still lurking.

From some of the other messages I’ve read, seems like you’re already seeing someone? Let me guess, he’s a fuck buddy, or you’re poly? I’m confused as to whether you’re questing for someone to meet your ‘high standards’ and replace your current guy, meet another guy to add your orgies, or you’re just burning off your anger online while your fuck buddy fucks someone else? You sort of have a guy, so don’t really care about getting a new guy, yet you don’t like your current guy, and want a better guy. Something like this?

How many sex partners do you have, and how many do you really need to be satisfied? What is it you’re really looking for online?

You’re just a bored little cunt who is never satisfied, and thinks she deserves more than she has. Nothing more. But hey… ‘I hope you are well.’

THIS IS THE BEST REVIEW I COULD HAVE EVER GOTTEN, THANK YOU SO MUCH

signed, bored little cunt

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god what IS IT with these psuedo intellectual creeps who try to talk as formally as possible m’lady m’lady jeeesus christos on multiple fucking crackers how do you hold a conversation with this kinda dude let alone tell him he fucked up

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HOW TO SEND A GOOD OKCUPID MESSAGE

here is a post i am writing by request, about how to send a good okcupid message. i’m including a message i sent to someone like two years ago  (because i figure i’m gonna talk the talk, i should show y’all that i can walk the walk) which was successful in that it resulted in a coffee date 

the first and foremost “do” of online dating is that your message should be tailored to your audience and to the platform. this is also a good “do” for creating mixed media art. 

i think it’s helpful if the person receiving the message can tell that you read their profile, and it’s also helpful if you write something that they can respond to -- “how are you” is sort of bullshit, because there’s not a lot there to unpack or make conversation from. you want to either introduce an interesting conversation topic, or pick up a conversation topic from that person’s profile

i like approaching online dating the same way i’d approach flirting with a stranger at a party. so, comments about their body, monologuing, boring small talk -- i’d avoid these in favor of reading their vibe and responding accordingly

in short: be polite, responsive, and most importantly compelling

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some poetry for ya

Blah blah blah “men are so boring” blah blah blah. Maybe try adding on to the conversation instead of bitching. Blah blah blah.

i really enjoy bitching, actually, so i will continue to do it!

thanks for the suggestion tho, take care, friendly stranger!!

You’re welcome, stranger. Lmao. ;)

please remove the winky face bud i was not flirting i was kindly and calmly explaining how i did not need your input

take care bye!!

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