I do bitter really fucking well

expectation vs reality 

If you say shit like “almost parent” about step parenting, block me because I genuinely think that you are a drooling moron who must drink water from the toilet bowl.

Get away with this offensive bullshit from people inboxes. Fucking idiots.

Sorry Husna for hijacking your post but i needed to insult this anon properly.

Wow. An "almost" parent? Really? As someone who had a dad and a step-dad, I'd take the step-parent a million times over because they become a parent who's there for you when you need them, who loves you and respects you when your own biological parent did not. So do not deplete the love a step-dad/parent has and is willing to give by saying they are not a "real" parent. That is just disgusting!

I’M IN LOVE

The negativity siren is a-go, people.I’ve been trying to avoid discourse like the plague, hence all the smutty drabbles, but I’ve held my tongue and held my tongue. I just can’t with the complete disregard of Aaron Dingle’s choices.

Robert gave Aaron the perfect out. After all they said to each other in the garage, after talking about the ONS, Seb and Rebecca. All that hope. Robert gave Aaron the perfect opportunity to go, ‘actually no, this isn’t for me’ when the ‘reality’ of Robert and life with Robert, is presented to him and you know what? Aaron chose Robert anyway.

Life isn’t perfect, it doesn’t happen in a perfect way 98% of the time, but Aaron made the choice that even in these imperfect situations, Robert was the one thing that mattered. Aaron equates happiness as Robert and he chose happiness/Robert. Maybe the rest of the stuff isn’t ideal, lbr, who is living their fantasy life? What Aaron has with Robert is real, and it’s worth something. It has shown growth with them both as individuals and as a couple. Robert is worth more than any complication, if you call a child that. And Rebecca, she was never the issue and he said that. He isn’t looking to be her best friend, but he isn’t going to vilify her anymore. What would be the point? He loves Robert and they’re together.

Yes, maybe it’s not what the situation that anyone would have chosen for Aaron, but it’s the one he chose for himself. Aaron chose. And that’s what we have to respect here. We can say that Aaron deserved better, yes, of course he did, so did Robert to not be thrown under the characterisation bus, but when it’s said and done, they made their choices in the circumstances they were in and they chose love.

And deserve? Sometimes that word gets me. Yes, you don’t deserve to be cheated on, but to say it like Aaron doesn’t deserve to have to take on his husband’s child rubs me up the wrong way. It comes with a sense of entitlement. The world doesn’t owe you a damn thing which is why you have to cover your own back and that’s what Aaron did when he walked away. Aaron doesn’t come back to his relationship with Robert with that sense of entitlement, that he is somehow above it all because he wasn’t the one who cheated. That just creates another imbalance that would trip them up further down the line. Aaron takes responsiblity for his part as does Robert. Seb is not a punishment anymore for either of them, he’s a little boy who needs to be loved and taken care of, and Aaron wants that. He doesn’t want Seb to ever felt like he did as a boy and that just tells you the depth of Aaron’s heart and his ability to love. Again, you don’t have to like it, but that’s Aaron’s choice.

I want to be the person who supports people to feel however they want to feel about SLs, but there’s having your opinion and then there’s constantly baiting other people with it. I mean, if I could wrap Laura (@victoriasugden) in bubblewrap I would. You’re welcome to your opinion by all means, but it’s not fair to anon her when you know she feels the opposite way and try to make her feel bad about it.

"And Rebecca, she was never the issue and he said that. He isn’t looking to be her best friend, but he isn’t going to vilify her anymore. What would be the point? He loves Robert and they’re together."

^^This, right here, thank you!

Aaron forgave Robert for the cheating, he did so before he broke it off and took to Ireland. It's what came next that made it impossible for Aaron to stay with Robert, his mental health took a turn for the worse and he needed to get help and fix himself, it wasn't because Robert cheated - yes, it was a factor but that wasn't the entire reason.

Do I like Rebecca? No. Will I ever? No. But that doesn't mean she's the only one to blame - or if at all because they were so bad for each towards the end, their relationship had reached beyond toxic levels and staying together would have done more harm than good.

It all balances out in the end, Aaron did find his forgiveness and through it the love he still had for Robert and that led them back to each other. Everyone needs to remember that all that matters is that they stay a united front, that they don't lie to each other anymore and work together. It's not going to work if Aaron lies and stays bitter about what Robert did, holding it over him for the rest of his life. That won't make either of them happy.

he’s even more beautiful up close 😩

Aaron checking Robert out.

First rule of fandom:

DON’T TWEET SHIT TO THE ACTORS. 

Second rule of fandom:

FOR FUCKS SAKE WHAT ARE YOU DOING; DON’T TWEET THAT SHIT TO THE ACTORS! JFC! 

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