Hello People of Earth

i understand that my friends don’t wanna talk every day. i understand that my s/o doesn’t wanna be lovey dovey and super indulgent every day. lots of people need rest from performative emotions. all people need rest in general! it’s okay!! it doesn’t mean they don’t love me!! it’s not a judgement or punishment!! they deserve to take their rest, and they deserve for me to treat their needs with respect!

not a lot of ppl grasp this.

wonder girls yubin is debuting solo soon and i better see y'all hype her up the way you hyped holland up bc lesbians deserve the same amount of attention unless y'all wanna finally admit y'all only care about gay men

in case some of you didn’t know yubin is a whole lesbian and if you dream about idols being gay or ship them together you are legally obligated to purchase at least one copy of her debut album goodbye

            🐰 BYUNY’S  (MOSTLY EXO) GIVEAWAY 🐰

The other day I came across all of my old kpop albums / photocards and thought I could give them a better home, I used to be so into collecting kpop stuff but I’ve kinda lost interest in that now. ( I couldn’t bear to giveaway my Kris/Baekhyun photocards so I still have a soul left dw ) I know whoever wins these will take better care of them then I did and I’d like to give back to my amazing followers who have stuck by me throughout the years 💕

I have a range of photocards / albums / random kpop items that the winners get to choose from. Whatever is left over I might sell or do mini giveaway. 

Winner One: - Exo’s Mama Album (Chinese & Korean Ver.) - 2 Albums (of your choice) - 4 Official Photocards (of your choice) - 2 Pathcode HD Teaser Pictures (choose from Xiumin, PCY, Lay, Suho) - 1 Pack of Fan-made Exo Lucky One Teaser Photocards - 4 Items from the ‘Random’ Section

Winner Two: - Exo’s Mama Album (Chinese & Korean Ver.) - 2 Albums (of your choice) - 3 Official Photocards (of your choice) - 1 Pathcode HD teaser picture (choose from Xiumin, PCY, Lay, Suho) - 1 Pack of fanmade exo lucky one teaser photocards - 3 Items from the ‘Random’ Section

Rules: - Must be following me (as this is a giveaway for my followers) - You must be over 18 or have your parents consent in order for me to send me your prize. - No giveaway blogs - Have your ask/message open - Giveaway is worldwide! Depending on the price I may pay for tracking. - One reblog = one entry - Giveaway will end on June 2nd 2018 (aka my birthday! 🎈) - Winner will have 3 days to respond! - Minimum of 500 notes or i’ll reselect another end date.

Extra Entries: - Reblog the post (once per day) - Follow my sideblogs (@softbyuns @tiphanie @jessicajunq @babyun @seohyunn @kriswuy ) +1 entry per blog - Send someone a sweet uplifting message on anon or not (limit to 2 a day, although I hope you send more!) Send me a screenshot of the message before you send it and the user you are sending it to!

Here’s a list of the items the winners can choose from, I will send pictures of all the items to each winner before they choose (if they want).  

Album List: - Love Me Right Chinese & Korean Ver. - Sing For You Korean Ver. ( x1 Lay, x1 Baekhyun, x1 Chanyeol, x1 Xiumin Ver. ) - Exodus Kyungsoo Korean Ver (Gold) - Exodus Baekhyun Chinese Ver (Silver)

Photocard List (all are official): - Chen ‘XOXO’ (Student Identity Card) | ‘Love Me Right’ / Black Ver. | ‘Sing For You’ / White Ver. | - Sehun ‘EX’ACT’ / White Ver. | ‘Sing For You’ / Black Ver. x2 | - Suho ‘Call Me Baby’ / Black Ver. / White Ver. | ‘Mama’ | ‘Overdose’ | ‘Sing For You / Black Ver. | ‘Love Me Right’ / White Ver. / Yellow Ver. |  - Kai ‘Growl’ / B Ver. | ‘Love Me Right’ / Black Ver. | - Xiumin ‘Love Me Right’ / Yellow Ver. | ‘Overdose’ | ‘Hey Mama’ | - Tao ‘Mama’ |

Random Items List: - SNSD ‘Mr Mr’ plastic folder sleeve thing - 2017 Seasons Greetings Xiumin Standee - 2017 Seasons Greetings Exo Photocard Pack - Jessica Fan-made Photocard (double sided) - CBX-EXO ‘Hey Mama’ Fan-made Photocard Pack - EXO ‘Monster’ Fan-made Photocard Pack - TTS “Dear Santa’ Fan-made Photocard Pack - Baekhyun Fan-made Photocard Pack - Random Exo Fan-made Photocards

Happy reblogging and good luck to everyone! If you have any questions or concerns feel free to message me! 💜

my grandma’s sunflower bathroom featuring my thinking journal, a cup of hot coffee, and a chapter from narnia. my favorite childhood classic.

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i feel like baekhyun doesnt get enough credit for his musicality

This is why I don’t tell 99% people im bisexual

I love how gay people do it too. Just… really? You’re literally saying the same shit to bisexuals that straight people say to you, and you don’t see the hypocrisy? 

If youre biphobic or hate bisexuals, fucking unfollow me, for serious.

^^^

If youre biphobic or hate bisexuals, fucking unfollow me, for serious.

Why is this a thing like really? Homosextual people of ALL beings should understand that you like what you like and if the answer multiple choice then that’s just more love to go around non?

BY REBLOGGING THIS YOU ARE SAYING THAT YOUR BLOG IS COMPLETELY ACCEPTING OF BI FOLKS!!! BISEXUAL PEOPLE ARE PART OF THE LGBT+ COMMUNITY AND IF YOU DISAGREE, PLEASE UNFOLLOW ME

Victorian High Top Roller Skates

For the witch on the go

listen we’re always pushing back against anti-vaxxers with the science showing that no, vaccines don’t cause autism, but can we please talk about the underlying problem here which is that people hate autistic children? 

even if the poorly researched pseudo-science was right and vaccines had any link to autism in children, i would still want myself and my children vaccinated because guess what, there’s nothing wrong with autistic people.

 what i hear when people say they don’t want their children vaccinated against deadly illnesses because they believe that vaccines cause autism is not just that they’re horribly misinformed, but that they’d rather have a sick, dying, or dead child than an autistic child. and honestly, that’s pretty fucked up and just goes to show that neurotypical people don’t view us as people who are equally entitled to life.

*PUNCHES REBLOG BUTTON*

I adore this

this video cured my anxiety, my acne, my life 

Spring has taken a long time to show up this year, but unfortunately I can’t escape to an Italian castle for the month, so I’ll gladly read this book instead. Thanks to @theatticoneighth for the rec in their “Hers not His: A Replacement Reading List” article.

Reblog this and money will be entering your life this week

Just doing what i was told

Y’all know when Mulan is sitting in the rain and watches her parents silhouette disappear as the candle is blown out and then her eyes squint in determination and the music that starts to play and you see her go into the family temple and light a match and bow in respect and then sneak into her parents room and switch the scroll for her hair brooch and then the way her reflection is shown as she pulls the sword and cuts her hair?? It’s literally more iconic than any marvel movie

Y’all know that there is heavy symbolism in that scene to show that Mulan is the spirit of the Great Stone Dragon and that’s why Mushu wasn’t able to awaken it?

im sorry What!! i never knew this! my life feels fuller!!! ahhhh

Mulan sits in the rain underneath the statue of the Great Stone Dragon (who is looking down on her), and suddenly decides on a course of action. She looks up, resolved to go to war in place of her father and runs into the temple where she lights the match and beseeches protection for her family. The stone she bows to and that we see lit up by lightening strike is that of the dragon, whose eyes are looking out after her, lit from underneath by the candles. The scene transitions to the divider in the house that also has an icon of the dragon. where she replaces her hair comb with the summons. Then we see the sword hilt, also the dragon, and as she draws the blade we see her face replace it. She ties up her hair, then as she opens the wardrobe, the handles are also the dragon. After donning the armor, the view shows her facing us, with the hilt of the sword (the face of the dragon) in front of her face, where she then turns the sword to reveal her face, and sheaths it. As she leaves, we flash back to the temple, and the eyes of the dragon flash as her grandmother wakes up.

The Great Stone Dragon resides within her. She is the protector of the family.

After this explanation, the scene where Mushu cannot wake up the stone dragon makes so much more sense. I appreciate the symbolism so much more. I noticed the dragon but didn’t notice she was constantly juxtaposed with the dragon!

Canon accepted.

Wow.

i’m so tired of people justifying cultural appropriation by saying things like “Actual Chinese People ™ from mainland china don’t care that this non-chinese person is wearing a cheongsam!” and acting like this is evidence that cultural appropriation is just an issue made up by Oversensitive Special Snowflakes

like… ok… sure, of course mainland chinese people would care less about who wears cheongsam. but you’re kind of missing the whole point. most of the poc i’ve seen who are upset about cultural appropriation aren’t mainlanders. they’re fckn diaspora. 

nobody in mainland china is going to judge you if you wear a cheongsam to a formal event. but let’s pretend you’re the asian chick in your mostly-white school in the US, and your mom pushes you to wear a cheongsam to prom. you’re probably going to get the “oh of course the asian girl wears her asian dress to prom” reaction from the people around you. so you fight your mom about the cheongsam, because you want to fit in with Everyone Else. you don’t want to be the Chinky Girl in the Chinky Dress. 

your beautiful cheongsam sits in your closet, until one day, a stray clothes hanger snags on the lace overlay and shreds your dress and you throw it out.

and then a few years later, you see some white girl wearing the dress your mom wanted you to wear, but you were too ashamed to wear because you didn’t want to be a stereotype.

and that’s the frickin difference. mainlanders don’t experience the same things as people who are diaspora. they’re not gonna have the same perspective. there are no societal repercussions stopping them from expressing themselves culturally. their experiences ARE NOT THE SAME. stop using the opinions of people living in China to invalidate the experiences of Chinese Americans. thanks

The Unbearable Lightness of Being, Milan Kundera Bought from an Etsy bookseller, and look how it came. <3

@ah.hyeon