( pandorabarker. )
Pandora briefly considered snapping her lens cap on and settling in to listen to her companion, but she quickly decided against it. This was a conversation that was best had with faces averted, with eyes turned away. It was almost altruistic in a way: what normally followed words like these left an observer feeling vaguely voyeuristic, like they hadn’t been meant to see the leakage that inevitably happened.
There was a funny thing about grief, the secret that nobody told you: time did not quite make it better. It just made it easier to detach from the memory, to make the pain less urgent. Pandora knew that for a fact. Nearly eighteen years since the fact, and she still felt the absence like a festering sore in her side. It would be a while yet before Henry Nott would learn the bitter truth: that the ache was just something you had to learn to live with; a traitorous companion you learned to anticipate because it would kick you in the gut when you least expected and leave you winded.
She smiled slightly, snapping a picture of a chattering trio of teenage girls before replying, in a tone somewhere between sad and sympathetic. “It’s weird how normal it feels, isn’t it? Almost like being cheated, because it feels like the whole world ended, yet here is perfect evidence that it didn’t.” She cast him a glance then, a brief meeting of gazes over the viewfinder of her camera. “You’re fine, though. Look at you, dressed and functional and at a wedding. Nobody can begrudge you for not making more effort in socializing than that. Or, well, they can try, but fuck them all, right?”
He wanted to say something in response. He wanted to nod and agree, muse about how swiftly time had passed, almost a year now and here he was, doing better and worse at the same time. He wanted to spill his guts out, to vomit words because he was drowning in them—too many thoughts and words shackled around his ankles. He wanted to admit to her that he was still lost as ever, wading through pools of sorrow, as helpless as a wounded animal. One prickle and the balloon was going to pop, for Henry Nott had never been hesitant of sharing his emotions. He was unafraid to stand, feelings laid bare, vulnerable but strong.
During his adult years, however, he had learned that people didn't want honesty. A polite, comfortable façade was what they preferred because, see, everyone was dealing with their own pile of shit. Sure, this was Pandora, but they were at a wedding and she was at work. So he paused, lips pursed to form a thin line, and gathered himself before he spoke. (The sight brought a small grin to his face; the girls reminded him of his nieces.)
“I used to feel awful,” he muttered. “about being out there, getting on with my life. Living. I still do, sort of. Reckon that's just how it is. I can't make myself not feel.” Henry trailed off momentarily, so as not to interrupt his friend as she took another photograph. “Yeah, that's a solid strategy—just sod it,” he laughed, fleeting but sincere. "Have I mentioned you're quite good at this advice business?"