“There are only two lasting bequests we can hope to give our children. One is roots and the other is wings.”
- Johann Wolfgang von Goethe
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Me trying to comfort my friends
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a comic about getting older
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This is one of my favorite collections of found photographs.
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tonya harding + costumes
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heartbreaking doctor who moments ♢ vincent hearing his worth
I just wondered, between you and me, in a hundred words, where do you think Van Gogh rates in the history of art?
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ϟ STUDIO GHIBLI + NATURE ϟ
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Love this, but reblogging it specifically for “Get rid of secret rules.” That’s one of the most amazing illustrations—and points—I’ve ever seen.
so important especially for perfectionists who procrastinate and never finish, or even start because they set such high standards for themselves.
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Sometimes I feel like an imaginary friend. Not invisible but composed of foggy figments pulled from thin air. There when the real friends are busy or can see through unsettlingly well or overlook a certain aspect aching to be acknowledged. A secret club for two, password protected, security blanket to turn to for warmth but what about the cold wind blowing through this ambiguous hologram? Every disappointment leaves me more dispersed, disjointed; I fear I will disappear.
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INFJ Turn Ons
Wit
INFJs are…
- drawn to intelligence and they want their partners to favor intelligence as well
- extremely attracted to someone with an intricate and thoughtful mind
- peaked by the combination of intelligence + a great sense of humor because it keeps relationships interesting, lively and timeless
- extremely turned on by someone who is witty, well-spoken and somewhat geeky
- observant of physical traits; however, are often more drawn to the internal aspects of a person
- impressed by anyone who can respond well to and keep up with their banter and wit — respectively, very turned on by someone who knows how to make them laugh and impress them with their rhetoric (AKA being kept on their toes)
Kindness
INFJs are attracted to…
- a kind-looking face with a bit of chill demeanor to it (e.g. some natural ruggedness or bareface/natural beauty)
- someone who expresses equal love for others/nature + open-mindedness
- someone who isn’t rude, big-headed, or seeks to put others down for superficial reasons
- someone who helps others without it being known, asked or publicized to help others
- kindness that doesn’t equate to weakness
- treating others how they would like to be treated
- a humanitarian outlook
Certain Kind of Eye Contact
INFJs weaknesses include…
- not lustful, but intriguing looks—as if the person is seeing something more in you that they desire but consciously aren’t letting their face or bodily actions express it
- the occasional locked eyes from someone gets the INFJ’s attention but might throw them off their game if the timing is right (which INFJ will secretly enjoy because they often times feel like very few people can get them off their game/surprise them)
- contemplative but warm eyes
- being able to naturally communicate with eyes (e.g. the glances that say enough)
Quiet Confidence
INFJs gets interested in…
- someone who presents “I’m capable of being on my own, and I’m not likely to back down” + respects themselves
- a certain amount of confidence, a mischievous twinkle in the eye or a saucy smile (AKA a bit of “trouble” without actually being distressing) + playful teasing
- someone who is comfortable enough to be independent without flaunting it — always walking to the beat of their own drum
- someone who has the courage to be their honest, true self and expresses willingness to keep growing as a person
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What makes us INFJs feel loved
•receiving a text from someone who just wants to check up and see if we’re ok.
•someone taking interest in really getting to know us (our hobbies, dreams, interests and our inner person)
•when someone wants to hangout with us all day even if we are doing absolutely nothing.
•when we are chosen to be part of something special (a hobby, a tradition, an adventure/trip)
•when someone takes time out of their day or puts down what they’re doing to offer us help in what ever we are doing or working on.