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A recommendation for my vaginismus girlies

MINORS DNI

18+ only

I came across an adult movie couple where the girl has vaginismus and I’ve never seen that before so I wanted to share. They have great communication and are very sweet amateurs and honestly it’s the first time I’ve felt like I’ve seen what s€x looks like for me represented in adult content.

If you’re interested, look up Damien Soft or Damien & Diana.

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You don't have to answer but just wondering how are you? How have you been? :) 💕

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I’ve been good lately! Still on winter break and I’m about to go into my last semester before graduation which is honestly terrifying but I guess we’ve all gotta do it. I’ve gotten super into house plants lately so I’m enjoying that at the moment! How are you?

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Hey, so after your announcement I read a bunch of articles about herpes and I'm truly shocked about how less I know about that. Just wanted to let you know that I learned something from you! Thank you for spreading awareness. I wish you a good recovery and lots of strength. <3

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Thank you! Knowledge is power so glad to hear you got a little more powerful ❤️

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I don't have herpes myself but my first ever time learning about it was from my mom who told me the story of how her friend got it the very first time she had sex. She went on to get married and have kids even with something so challenged happing to her at a young age. She lived a full life and no one was judging her or looking down on her. So that has always been my outlook on herpes or any STI. It doesn't make you gross or make you a bad person or irresponsible in any way. You could have gotten Lyme disease from a tick and no one would be telling you you shouldn't have ever gone outside in the first place. It's a hazzard of life. It doesn't change you as a person. I also want to thank you for being so open about vaginismis because you were the one who helped me realize I had it and your stories helped me feel ok about it. I think of you in very high regards because of this and I always will. I'm behind you cheering you on! You're brave and strong and will help so many people just by being open about this change in your life.❤❤

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Stop making me cry at work 😭😭😭 this is the sweetest message I’ve ever gotten and makes me feel so much better about the whole thing. It’s easy to be transparent when you’re anonymous but I really do try my best to make other people feel not so alone. It’s nice to know it’s paid off and at least one person has been impacted by my blog. Lots of love ❤️❤️❤️

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This has always been a very sex positive, open, honest blog. And it’s a place where I feel like I can actually speak and be heard. I have something to say, and it’s something I’m still uncomfortable with myself, but I want this to be a transparent place where people with vaginas aren’t ashamed of the things we go through.

Yesterday, I was diagnosed with herpes. At the moment, I feel gross, like I’ll never be fully clean again, and like I don’t know who I am. It’s thrown me into a full on identity crisis.

Thankfully, I have supportive people around me and an amazing doctor who see it for what it is… an extremely common virus that has a stigma because of old fashioned conservative values. Maybe this will be a larger part of my blog now or maybe I’ll try to forget about it, but I want to open up the floor to you guys.

If you have it and are comfortable sharing, how does it make you feel?

What are some common misconceptions about it?

And any other tidbits or thoughts you’d like to share. It would really make me feel a lot better.

Much love ❤️

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do you take requests i love your fics 😭🫶🏻🫶🏻

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I can’t guarantee that I’ll ✨do✨ the request lmao but I’m always looking for inspiration so I’d love to hear any ideas!!!

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This isn’t even an ask really but I’m scrolling through tumblr and came across this one. Had to double take on the PFP 🤣😭😭😭 I love it‼️

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He’s an icon what can I say 💅🏻

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Hey, how are you?

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Omg my first casual conversation ask! What a day.

I’m really good! At work right now making ice cream. I’m gonna go home later and do some more paint by numbers with my boyfriend. And I’m thinking about getting a hamster!

How are you?

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hey could you possibly tell me which of your fics include vaginismus? I saw your comment on another post that you have a few and I'd love to read them :)

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Hello! “I Have This Thing” (Paul), “Told You So” (Paul), and “Careful” (Seth) are my fics that deal specifically with vaginismus by name, but almost all of my twilight fics deal with uncomfortable sex/ situations like that whether it be pain, difficulty finishing, or something of the like. Thanks 💕

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“supreme court has ruled-“ “supreme court has decided-“ “supreme court has overturned-“ can the supreme court turn up dead next i think itd be really american chic of them to die for the fourth of july

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Take One

I’m so sorry I haven’t written anything in forever! It’s been a crazy year, guys. Anyways, this is a really special fic to me because it’s based on my own first time experience. I did it, and being the maniac writer that I am, went home and immediately wrote it all down in my notes app. I just reread it today for the first time in years and decided to turn it into a fic! The only difference is I met irl guy on Tinder lol not a party. Enjoy! 

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Hey there :)♡

I'm a 5'7 indigenous brunette. I have long wavy hair all the way down my back. I usually keep my nails done + long(acrylic nails) always in either pink, red or black. All my jewellery is either gold or made from traditional materials.

I'm an artist I paint, digital art, traditional art, etc. I study astrology, fashion, and i love to read. I love spending time in the outdoors when it's nice. My favorite colors are pink or/and red. I also love investing in my skincare+makeup skills.

I'm known as kind, independent and reliable. I like people who have the same harsh humor as me. I carry a lot of respect for the people around me.

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I’m shipping you with embry bc I feel like he’s such an artsy boy and you guys would sit around and do crafts and stuff! He’d def get you traditional Quilette jewelry for your birthday and it would look so beautiful on you. And embry would def let you put makeup on him and do facials on him like those cute tik toks of girls putting sheet masks on their bfs. You guys def share the same values like kindness and respect, and that Carrie’s through to your relationship because it’s so healthy! We Stan a couple that communicates w each other. Thanks for writing!

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