@mutuals

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i’m gonna be remaking my tumblr. one of my more popular trauma posts got the attention of MAPs (minor-attracted person) and it’s been really bad for my mental health, to the point where i don’t feel comfortable or safe keeping this blog up and running. it’s the anxiety and paranoia. msg me if you’d like the url. thanks, loves.

@mutuals

and followers if ur interested: 

i’m gonna be remaking my tumblr. one of my more popular trauma posts got the attention of MAPs (minor-attracted person) and it’s been really bad for my mental health, to the point where i don’t feel comfortable or safe keeping this blog up and running. it’s the anxiety and paranoia. msg me if you’d like the url. thanks, loves.

Bismuth: catches the bouquet

Every wlw watching:

from lavender woman: chicago’s lesbian/feminist newspaper vol. 2 no. 1, january 1973

I cant believe their wedding cake was a together breakfast. I mean, like, of course it was. But still

everyone’s outfits at the wedding were absolutely perfect,  but man, amethyst cleans up real nice in a suit. 💜

Here comes a special boy!

+ Star Trek Aesthetic Series: Captain James T. Kirk +

Invasion

lapis, a couple episodes ago: i’m so scared of the diamonds i’ll never face them im leaving earth bye

lapis, now: hey you big blue bitch i’m depressed What Is Good

not knowing you had dissociative identity disorder is

feel free to add more

• Having about 4 different clothing styles, since you wear a style depending on however you’re “feeling” that day. • Feeling like you might forget things a little bit until someone tells you something you did/said. • The way you can go from wearing pants/being masculine every day, to skirts/being feminine within 48 hours gives people you know whiplash and you’re not sure why they think it’s weird.

• Notes. Notes absolutely everywhere. Then it clicks that you don’t even remember writing these notes. Again, why are there so many freaking notes? • Feeling like a total trashfire 24/7 and emotions are always a total clusterfuck to the point where you don’t know how to feel anything or feel everything all at once. • Never feeling like you’re totally yourself, and always never satisfied with the way you look. • *squints eyes while looking in mirror* “who the hell are you? and what the hell are you doing in my house??”

• “why are there so many passive aggressive sticky notes?” • “what happened in 2014?” (I still don’t know what occurred in my life during that year and I’m beginning to accept that I never will) • “I know that person?” • “where the hell did those shorts come from?” • “oh look at that, my ears are now pierced”

* oof i hate this color “it was your fave the other day though?”

* trying to log into an account but the password you set is inccorect bc you changed it but you dont remember changing it or what it would be

* ppl coming up to you calling you a name you only ever used for a secret oc like “how the fuck do you know that name???”

* “oh i like your shirt” thanks i have no idea when or where tf i got it 

* hi im 23, wait no im 16, wait no 29, wait no i had it right the first time

*when id i dye my hair???

bye i hate the sexualization of underage japanese girls so much i hate it with every fiber of my being it gave so many people a shitty excuse to treat me badly in the past like anyone who likes ‘‘‘‘‘lo/licon’’’’ can go die

also this is 100% okay to reblog

to the people in the notes: the age of consent in japan is not actually 13 you nasty fucks did you like even read more than one sentence on wikipedia before spreading misinformation about an entire country jesus y'all are shit stains to the core

you. i like you.

also who gives a fuck about age of consent? lmao do y'all really need a law to know it’s wrong to fuck kids?

Also can those nasty pedophiles stop using the concept of “age of consent” wrong? Age of Consent does not mean you can fuck a child if they are above the age of consent. It means kids from that age can manifest consent when having sex WITH KIDS AROUND THE SAME AGE. 

Like, for example, if the age of consent is 13, it means kids who are 13-14-15 can have sex without it being considered a crime; but a kid who is 12 CANNOT manifest that consent and this another (older or younger) kid making sexual advances on them would be considered cocsa.

Adults can only legally have sex with kids if, for example, the adult is still a teen, aka if the adult just turned 18 and they’re having sex with a 17 yo. That’s widely considered admissible and it’s an exception to the rule.

So, no, you 20-something and older creeps fetishizing 13-14-15 yo girls (real or fictional) are still pedophiles, and you’re trying to use a legal argument that you:

1. do not know about because you just read a fucking wikipedia article and did not take years of classes about criminal law

2. twist for it to fit and excuse your awful behavior

Source: I’m a fucking lawyer

Reblog this adittion bc honestly pedophiles are INDEED pedophiles no matter what argument they use and you better listen to a fucking lawyer when they are talking about law

“Source: I’m a fucking lawyer“ is my favorite part

take chances with people. if you want to get closer to them, make sure they know you want to spend time with them. go to have coffee with them, text them first, make them feel loved, tell them little things that you love about them. most people find it hard to make the first move, both in friendships and romantic relationships, so a lot of potential relationships never happen. life is too short. so go for it, because more often than not it can make life brighter and softer and happier.