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{Words by Anaïs Nin, from The Diary Of Anais Nin, Vol. 4 (1944-1947) / Cynthia Cruz from diagnosis,The glimmering room}

[photo id: two pictures of highlighted text.

Photo one: “I was always ashamed to take. So I gave. It was not a virtue. It was a disguise.”

Photo two: “The shame of being seen consumes me.”

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ot3

anyone trying to convince you that you have to give a shit about mediocre uninteresting gay characters in mainstream corporate media is a shill. never stop hating. something theoretically paving the way for better things in the future doesn't actually make it good and you don't have to pretend like getting a foot in the door of being Profitable To Corporate Interests is something you consider to be a win

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Anonymous asked:

ok i've been called a sex freak tranny too i get where you're coming from but like also please be more careful with extremely vague posts about Problematic Kinks

no. people's openness about what two consenting adults can do in private has no bearing on how likely they are to be child abusers or close ranks about child abusers & thinking there is some correlation is a sign that your stance on sexual abuse is mediated more by disgust reaction and aesthetic associations than by structural analysis. there is a pretty hard and obvious line between not condemming consensual sex acts between adults and being a pedophile and thinking that it's some sort of spectrum or slippery slope there imo speaks poorly to your conceptualization of why SA is a bad thing.

people love to say that X or Y kink Normalizes Abuse, but, like, actually think about communities where sexual abuse is 'normalized' in society. is the problem with the catholic church that it's too pro-kink? is the problem with US professional gymnastics that it's too pro-kink? is the problem with the amish that they're too pro-kink? was the problem with the british entertainment industry in the 1970s that it was too pro-kink? is the problem with the prison system that it's too pro-kink? &c. &c. &c.

sexual abuse doesn't happen because people are degenerate perverts and everyone is too accepting of that, sexual abuse happens because society is full of institutions that give adults structural power over children and men structural power over women. giving credence to the former, even in the form of thinking you have to be "super careful" about perverts, is a straightforwardly reactionary position.

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inber

love the official portrait of king charles III it's very regal and normal looking

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may12324

Dungeon Meshi sketch dump, and a Winry- because I'm reading FMA atm. Often I will do a sketch digitally and if I like it I will print it our and redraw it traditionally. And sometimes they just stay digital sketches

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shmunter

personally wasn’t able to witness the aurora borealis so im making siffrin witness it for me

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me: it's been a bit i kind of want to replay soulsov prelude devil on my shoulder: you're just going to open your save to the blatant hypnokink scene me: actually, i'm going through it from the start because i want to see the crisp dialogue and worldbuilding again. angel on my shoulder: the hypnokink is integral to the plot, my liege. savor it thus.

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femperor

Listen. New or questioning trans girl. People will say that wearing a skirt and panties giving you a boner is proof that what you're doing is unnatural. This is untrue. You are experiencing the sense of liking how you look: something most cis people have. You have begun to enjoy your body, something that has been absent for years. Your first kiss ever also will feel/felt that much more powerful. It's a little lame but just enjoy it for now.

Very true. It's uncomfortable because it's new, not because it's wrong.

It is true.

Many are in denial about how fundamental autoeroticism is to people's sexuality mostly because the majority of cis people pass through this phase unmarked- but for anyone with dysphoria and especially as catastrophic as mine this doesn't develop until transition.

You cannot truly love without loving yourself

well, you can't have a self-actualized sexual center without being able to see and feel desire in and even for yourself. Self-adoration is essential to self-confidence and a lover without self-confidence is a hopeless one.

I knew this ordeal wasn't futile when I stood in front of a mirror in full glam and pencil skirt and stockings and heels and a bright blouse and curls down all misty and my first thought was: Can't she come out of the glass and kiss me?

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