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Blue Devils B 17-18, Mandarins 19 trumpet. I also play clarinet. pansexual. she/her. uhhhhhh I just reblog stuff.
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Your mental health doesn’t make you bad.

One one hand my schizo self appreciates this

On the other hand, I wanna be evil!!!

you can be evil but not because of schizophrenia

So be as evil as you want-just know that it isn’t because of your mental health, love!

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What could bring a city/country to it’s knees faster? Collectively withholding our labor is the most powerful thing we can do right now in order to save our lives and those of our grandparents. Let’s spread this!

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Anonymous asked:

what about landlords who need money? Like if my family ran an apartment, we would depend on that rent coming in. The main way in which the strikes are justified is for people who’s buildings are run by distant greasy richos ya know? Not families or middle class people.... To what extent is that the case?

Landlords aren’t exactly poor. Imagine making an average of 43 dollars an hour for doing very little besides owning a property.

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kamorth

My building has 60 apartments at an average rent of $1000/month. Our landlords own 7 buildings this size and most of them are about twice as expensive. We’ve been told for 2 and a half years that there isn’t enough room in the maintenance budget to repair the window that was broken before we moved in (and we’re on the street side of the ground floor). My landlord can just give up a coffee a week or something and learn to cope.

And honestly? If you have enough money to own more houses than you need for your family, you’re already being taken care of. You can get a mortgage freeze, you’re probably eligible for one of the government assistance options, and you are in the demographic that is being taken care of. Renters are being thrown under the bus because most of us are already financially struggling WITHOUT the jacked up prices for essentials and we are NOT eligible for that assistance.

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woman in a victorian novel: *develops a fever from worrying too much*

me, shivering and sweating with stress-induced anxiety: wtf that’s so unrealistic lol

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love is so embarrassing . also the only thing that matters

why are so many people on this post saying things like “oh so what abt aromantic people then 🙄” like um… stumbling as u give up your seat for an elderly lady on the bus. stroking your friend’s hair as they cry in your arms. someone you care abt making you a long lovely playlist of songs you might like. attentively listening to your sibling as they talk excitedly about something they care abt. the sound of hundreds of people in unison singing a song they love at a concert. someone peeling a clementine and saving half of it for themselves and giving the other half to you. letting your cat crawl all over you even though her claws are scratchy. sitting in comfortable silence with someone. the pride shining in your grandfather’s eyes when you facetime him and tell him abt what you’ve been up to. taking a sip of your friend’s boba. people grinning at you when u blow out the candles on your birthday cake… these things aren’t love to you? you guys don’t consider that love? really? truly?

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mjalti

having to be “mature” at a young age sucks bc you aren’t really “mature-mature” you’re a child playing at a maturity bc you don’t have the foundation to be the bigger person when conflict arrives so what you do is ignore it bc ignoring a problem and being happy about a resolution look the same to your inexperienced eyes. Then you get adults praising you for a development above your peers but you aren’t really developing. You’re stagnant. Your peers will grow up and experience things and make mistakes and grow from them but you will keep yourself in this box, ignoring things ignoring ignoring ignoring until one day you have to face the fact… it wasn’t maturity you had. It was fear. And now you’re an adult too and you make all of your choices based on an emotional risk/costs analysis bc you don’t know any emotion other than fear & you have to start healing from your own childhood by making peace that you weren’t really a mature child. You were just a child who was given too much to carry & didn’t know how to say “no”.

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author-trash

this is what it feels like having anxiety when you’re like 9 and it just stays

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dorotheian

oh, you too?

grew up thinking this was just how everyone was until someone was like “what the fuck are you talking about are you ok?”

and still always thinking you’re lying about having anxiety even though most people don’t worry asa excessively as you.

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male poets will be like, "she was a beautiful decoration, and also a cure for my mental illness... when she left me... my mental illness... became... her fault 😭"

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