one of the worst parts about being an afab bi person (w a fem preference, in my case) is that you get so used to liking girls and nb people and it took you a really long time to accept that but you’re finally loving yourself for who you are! you’re facing so much validation from yourself and your friends and then—
oh. you like a guy now? internalized biphobia, but in reverse. and now question everything you’ve ever known about yourself.