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ALWAYS REBLOG WHEN YOU SEE SOMETHING LIKE THIS PLEASE; ITS SO MUCH MORE THAN IMPORTANT TO PEOPLE. IT MEANS EVERYTHING TO SOMEBODY AND EVEN THOUGH YOU MIGHT NOT SEE THIS IN THE SAME LIGHT, SOMEONE MIGHT. INFACT YOU REBLOGGING THIS COULD STOP SOMEONE TAKING THEIR LIFE TONIGHT.

I noticed there isn’t one here for Ireland, so

Irish free suicide helpline: 01-116 123

last time i reblogged this, i got this ask:

so please, please reblog. this could actually save a life.

keep yourselves safe!

Reblogging in case anyone needs this. It’s on my mind tonight.

red’s a nice color

Straight women should unionize

What the actual FUCK

This right here is a HUGE red fucking flag. If you’re in a relationship with someone who wants complete control over finances, especially to the point where you don’t even have access to money, this is an attempt to control and isolate. They will use ALL sorts of excuses. “I’m better with money” “You spend too much” “You’re too impulsive” etc. It has nothing to do with looking out for you or money. It’s straight up abuse and will likely lead to worse.

Also, women need to be independent in every way they can. And they also need to know what’s going on with their finances, even if their husband makes all the decisions or whatever bs goes on. Because (true story), one day that husband could die and you’ll find out that you’re in a crazy amount of debt that you never knew about because he didn’t tell you shit and that gets to be a lovely surprise after the funeral.

Women should ABSOLUTELY be independent and you should ABSOLUTELY keep your banking separate.

HOWEVER!

If you are in that circumstance?

Grocery shopping and gas stations and big box stores are your BEST friend. I know we’re in a pandemic but put on an N-95 and go. Use your debit card every time and take out 20-40 dollars each time you shop for these sorts of things because that doesn’t read as a withdrawal. It counts as part of the shopping. Women have been doing this for GENERATIONS now. My mother did it when my father was financially abusing her and she taught me and now? I pas this on to you.

Take your 20-40 dollars a trip and put the cash somewhere he won’t look.

Where won’t he look? With a friend who he doesn’t want to know. In the yard he expects you to care for. In the laundry he won’t do. In the kids room where he doesn’t go because that is your job. In the dog food he expects you to refill.

Or.

In you can take that money and put it a fucking bank he doesn’t use. Under your name and your name ONLY. Because when you leave him - which on average will take 7 attempts because thats how many times it takes to leave an abuser - you will need all the money you can squirrel away.  Depending on how often a woman runs absolutely necessary errands and how much money a family makes, she can squirrel away 1K+ in a year this way which may not seem like much but it’s enough for a softer landing than ZERO especially if she’s not working.

Take care of yourself ladies.

It does appear as a withdrawal on bank statement when I do this^

good to know. it doesnt necessarily when i do it! so check your bank!

the fucking panopitcon is upon us.

That said?An alternative?

Buy more than you actually need of dry goods. Keep your receipts. Get a cash return. Keep the difference. It’s more complicated - yes, but if this is about getting out? It might be worth it to you.

Gift cards might also be an option, like the pre-paid visa cards, or getting gift cards to the Walmart or grocery store itself. 

“Surely nothing could be worse than a lot of women dying,” she thinks. “Ah,” she says.

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We currently have a unique chance to normalize face covering and then try to maintain that normal after the medical need has passed. Mask up and continue to mask up, for your own safety and in solidarity with those who are more at risk than you.

Hey, so...

…”Will you tag (something that is not a common phobia or trauma trigger)?” is always an appropriate request.  Even if you’re asking “will you tag for the letter ‘e’,” you’re not crossing boundaries unless the person you’ve asking has already said, clearly, that they will not tag for a thing.

However, “no,” is an equally appropriate reply.  It’s nice to have reasons (no I will not tag frogs because I post too many frogs and I forget, meaning that the tag will not protect you; no, I will not tag Disney princesses because it says “Disney princesses” in my blog description and you knew this was a dead dove before you took a bite), but they are absolutely not required.

“Will you tag for birds of prey?”  “No.  Please unfollow me if you require that tag.”  is a perfectly polite exchange.

Rubber! Johnson Smith & Co. catalogue; surprising novelties, puzzles, tricks, jokegoods, useful articles, etc. 1929.

@partyteeth @withspaces @navi-863 @xperplexer @yournamekevi @muwurcia @kiwii-chuu @drillbeeautomaton @slime-cycle @graveyardinvestigations

@slime-cycle RUBBER.

we’re not friends anymore.

THIS TELLS A DIFFERENT STORY

WHY’D YOU TAG PLEX IN IT THEY DON’t DESERVE THSI

oh wow but i do? kinda hurts

okay so casey AND plex don’t deserve this

Rubber! Johnson Smith & Co. catalogue; surprising novelties, puzzles, tricks, jokegoods, useful articles, etc. 1929.

@partyteeth @withspaces @navi-863 @xperplexer @yournamekevi @muwurcia @kiwii-chuu @drillbeeautomaton @slime-cycle @graveyardinvestigations

@slime-cycle RUBBER.

we’re not friends anymore.

THIS TELLS A DIFFERENT STORY

WHY’D YOU TAG PLEX IN IT THEY DON’t DESERVE THSI

Rubber! Johnson Smith & Co. catalogue; surprising novelties, puzzles, tricks, jokegoods, useful articles, etc. 1929.

@partyteeth @withspaces @navi-863 @xperplexer @yournamekevi @muwurcia @kiwii-chuu @drillbeeautomaton @slime-cycle @graveyardinvestigations

@slime-cycle RUBBER.

we’re not friends anymore.

It's here!! Hope you guys like it!

Why does the King George song from Hamilton have BDSM undertones that's so unnecessary

Absolute monarchies always radiate BDSM energy

i’m angry bc you’re not wrong

Oh yeah rule over my country without democracy you authoritarian slut

Suppress my liberties like the filthy peasant I am.

This post gave me psychological damage

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GUYS, SHARE THIS FFS

there’s the onceler. he puts on green suit. he is still the onceler, but also the greedler. he is greedy. they are the same character but also different persons. simple. greedler sad? be becomes bitteronceler or darkler. easy to understand. they are all the onceler. sometimes they fall in love but they are still the onceler. onceler has swag? he’s the swaggler. still the onceler. onceler is a pimp? he’s the pimpler. he has weird sharkteeth now, but he’s still the onceler. he is mean. but sometimes? sometimes he is nice. he then becomes gentle-pimp-greelder. easy. oncler becomes spider? spiderler. he has six arms but he’s still the onceler. oncler is wolf? wolfler. your onceler sleep paralysis demon? maybe creepler. there’s a oncler who’s a canibal. he is always covered in blood. he is also the onceler. reasonable. if the blood is ink he’s the inkler. he doesn’t have blood? he’s the the mechanical greedler. of this we can all agree.

they are all the onceler. they are in love sometimes—with themselves who are not themselves—but they are still the onceler. but then? then they go to summercamp. camp weehawken. and then they go to highschool. they attend university. perhaps they get a PHD. i’m not sure. the oncelers who are all the onceler stops being the onceler. they are deoncelerized. some oncelers are not the onceler anymore but they are still called the onceler. but the new oncelers are very different from the one onceler. some are involved in the zombie apocalypse. are they also the oncler? maybe. but they are also not the oneceler. but they all come from one onceler. so they are the oncler. but they are also removed from the one onceler due to deoncelerization. this? this is confusing.

the oncelers who are the onceler are the oncler but also not all oncelers are the onceler. we simply have to accept this.

date of origin: july 23rd, 2020

Sometimes they become irish youtubers or irish twitch streamers. That would be onceler dan and greedler kev, still the onceler. Sometimes they are fairies and merpeople - fairy onceler dan and merman greedler kev. Sometimes they are the subject of a dating sim, before people realise that it is kind of creepy to do that because they are based on real people, so they are then just two versions of the onceler, before people realise that if they remove the onceler from these characters, they can make money from the dating sim. They are no longer the onceler, instead they are Cornelius McLaurin and Mike Hunt. 

Sometimes the lorax is @slime-cycle. This is not the onceler. 

Sometimes they go to hogwarts. Sometimes they are high school musical. Sometimes they are teen beach. Sometimes RT Game retweets an image of one of them. Sometimes Kevin has feet. Sometimes we panic, because we do not know how much of this the Youtubers know.

Reblog if you have used dude as a non gender specific term.

My mom often corrects me and my sister when we call each other dude, which really shouldn’t matter, but she’s making a big deal out of it anyways. And as someone who often doesn’t conform to what the defined box of what a girl is, it kinda hurts to be shoved back into place by one of the people who is supposed to accept me. So she told me to construct a survey and here’s part of it. Reblog if you’ve used dude (or other things like bro or man)as a non gender specific term before.