you know, a big part of getting over the anti-recovery mindset that tumblr has plunged so many people into is taking responsibility for your symptoms if/when they genuinely and consistently harm other people. if a symptom you have causes you to consistently do something shitty to your friend, and you just brush it off as "well, I have x disorder" without even attempting to work on it, then that person has every right to cut you off. I get it, it's a struggle, and it's a lot easier said than done, but acting like someone is a horrible person for wanting to distance themself from someone who keeps treating them badly is absolutely ridiculous. obviously everyone needs to be treated with respect and dignity- someone cutting off someone else for this reason has no right to be an asshole about it- but they have every right to get away, regardless of if the root of the issue is mental illness or not.