“I’ve found that luck is quite predictable. If you want more luck, take more chances, be more active, show up more often.”
— Brian Tracy
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“I’ve found that luck is quite predictable. If you want more luck, take more chances, be more active, show up more often.”
— Brian Tracy
Diamond, nephrite, and rock crystal lily of the valley brooch (at 1stdibs)
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Te mentí, no vamos a coger, vamos a ver Barbie: la princesa y la plebeya.
“Learn to be ok with people not knowing your side of the story. You have nothing to prove to anyone.”
— Unknown
every millennial who’s lived through three economic recessions, a global pandemic, the climate crisis…
I NEED MY GOLDEN CROWN OF SORROW MY BLOODY SWORD TO SWING I NEED MY EMPTY HALLS TO ECHO WITH GRAND SELF MYTHOLOGY I AM NO MOTHER I AM NO BRIDE I AM KING
𝓵𝓸𝓿𝓮 𝓹𝓸𝓽𝓲𝓸𝓷
-Ask Polly
Can i get a step by step on how to do this?
So far for me it’s been something like:
1. Become aware of how and when you tearing yourself down.
2. Now that you can catch yourself doing it. Offer counters to the negative self talk. A really useful thing I read was to talk to yourself almost the way you would child. Gentle and patient. Even when they fuck up.
3. Take time to celebrate your small accomplishments. You’ve been attacking yourself for every little mistake. Apply that same fervor to the positive things in your life. Did the dishes even though you didn’t want to? Fuck yeah! Got up and took shower? YES!!! You are taking positive steps to feeling better. Celebrate it.
4. Make lists of things you’re good at/ like about yourself. The first time I did this the only two things in my list we’re that I liked my hair and I had good friends. It was start.
5. Don’t beat yourself up if you screw up steps 1-4. It’s counter productive. When I catch myself calling my self stupid for some mistake or other my response now is,“We don’t talk to ourselves like that anymore. What’s something constructive that could actually help solve the problem.”
Most of the time that seems to work. Not always. But more and more Everytime.
I hope any of that made sense.
oh my goodness there are instructions!!
Omg I was doing this without knowing
Imagine a modern Persephone, her lips the color of pomegranate wine, hair black as obsidian, and her skin the color of fertile earth. Her dress moves with the colors of spring, shifting from the deep greens of meadows to the flowers in bloom. The crown atop her head is made from the stones and gems of her husband’s - her - kingdom.
Imagine a modern Persephone who walks through graveyards with Hecate. They hold the hands of grieving loved ones. She whispers words of comfort as she escorts a small child down to the underworld.
Imagine a modern Persephone who stands at the forefront of the environmental movement. Her Godhood is tied to the earth and below, and she will do whatever is necessary to see that it survives.
Imagine a modern Persephone who is as ruthless as she is beautiful. She was never the damsel the stories paint her out to be. She is forever the Dread Queen, the Maiden on the Throne of Iron. She found a god she loved and went with him willingly. As the goddess of Spring, she knew what the pomegranate would mean. She chose to leave her mother, and in doing so, became Queen of the Underworld.
Imagine a modern Persephone who teaches young girls they can be rebellious. She whispers in the ear of every girl, “Follow your heart and to it stay true, and you shall never know fear.
Artemis has her huntresses, and Aphrodite has her doves. Persephone refers to her daughters as the destroyers, for like their patron, they carve their own way.
My sexuality is Geralt of Rivia saying “Fuck.”
Saturn isn’t in your chart to tell you that you can’t do something, it’s telling you to prove that you can.
whoever came up with kissing someone's hand as a sign of respect knew what they were doing. slut.
A great thing you can ask in the "do you have any questions for us?" portion of an interview is: "Is this position open because you are growing as a company or because someone left?" And then you can ask "Why did they leave?" Listen to how the interviewer talks about the person you're replacing—it is a huge indication of the workplace culture and relationships that co-workers develop. If they dismiss the question, that says a lot. If they are excited for that person and their next opportunity, that says a lot. An interview is a two way street and you should get as much information out of them as they do out of you.