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T'is the Destiel Trash Pit

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hkhwyw

Well considering gender has literally nothing to do with biology I doubt that would happen.

Gender has everything to do with biology. We wouldnā€™t have a binary without it. Theyā€™re inseparable.

Surprise: There is no binary. The binary is an oversimplification that is largely contextualized within Western culture.Ā 

We wouldnā€™t be here right now if there wasnā€™t a gender binary. Complex lifeforms need one to perpetuate themselves.

Have you considered that those scientists might be bias and pushing an agenda. Gender is a biological absolute.

Gender is highly contextualized by time and place. Like, if you want to talk about scientists being biased and pushing an agenda, look at modern western science for pushing a flawed binary narrative.

Non-binary genders are not a modern invention. The idea of third genders/non-binary genders is as old as human civilization, because gender is socially constructed and subjective, and peopleā€™s ideas about gender have changed over time and between cultures.

  • In Mesopotamian mythology, among the earliest written records of humanity, there are references to types of people who are not men and not women. In a Sumerian creation myth found on a stone tablet from the second millennium BC, the goddess Ninmah fashions a being ā€œwith no male organ and no female organā€, for whom Enki finds a position in society: ā€œto stand before the kingā€.
  • In Babylonia, Sumer and Assyria, certain types of individuals who performed religious duties in the service of Inanna/Ishtar have been described as a third gender.
  • Inscribed pottery shards from the Middle Kingdom of Egypt (2000ā€“1800 BCE), found near ancient Thebes (now Luxor, Egypt), list three human genders: tai (male), sįø«t (ā€œsekhetā€) and hmt (female).
  • The Vedas (c. 1500 BCā€“500 BC) describe individuals as belonging to one of three categories, according to oneā€™s nature or prakrti. These are also spelled out in the Kama Sutra (c. 4th century AD) and elsewhere as pums-prakrti (male-nature), stri-prakrti (female-nature), and tritiya-prakrti (third-nature).
  • Many have interpreted the ā€œeunuchsā€ of the Ancient Eastern Mediterranean world as a third gender that inhabited a liminal space between women and men, understood in their societies as somehow neither or both. In the Historia Augusta, the eunuch body is described as a tertium genus hominum (a third human gender),
  • The ancient Maya civilization may have recognised a third gender, according to historian Matthew Looper. Looper notes the androgynous Maize Deity and masculine Moon goddess of Maya mythology, and iconography and inscriptions where rulers embody or impersonate these deities. He suggests that the third gender could also include two-spirit individuals with special roles such as healers or diviners
  • Anthropologist Rosemary Joyce agrees, writing that ā€œgender was a fluid potential, not a fixed category, before the Spaniards came to Mesoamerica. Childhood training and ritual shaped, but did not set, adult gender, which could encompass third genders and alternative sexualities as well as ā€œmaleā€ and ā€œfemale.ā€ At the height of the Classic period, Maya rulers presented themselves as embodying the entire range of gender possibilities, from male through female, by wearing blended costumes and playing male and female roles in state ceremonies.ā€œ
  • Andean Studies scholar Michael Horswell writes that third-gendered ritual attendants to chuqui chinchay, a jaguar deity in Incan mythology, were ā€œvital actors in Andean ceremoniesā€ prior to Spanish colonisation.
  • Two-spirit individuals are viewed in some Native American cultures as having two identities occupying one body. Their dress is usually a mixture of traditionally male and traditionally female articles, or they may dress as a man one day, and a woman on another.
  • In Pakistan, the hijras are officially recognized as third gender by the government,

itā€™s amazing how quickly ā€œscience says there are only two gendersā€ becomes ā€œhave you considered that science is fake and is pushing an agenda?ā€

Iā€™m a biologist and I can assure you the 2 gender binary doesnā€™t exist. All around we see animals that donā€™t fall into either categories. Gender is a spectrum is the realest line there is when it comes to biology and gender.

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sgaprivilege

Cis people: Science says the truth.

Science: *Says theyā€™re wrong*

Cis people: Actually, you know what, science is bad and is lying.

reblogging for that last one

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wnq-unknown
And kid, youā€™ve got to love yourself. Youā€™ve got wake up at four in the morning, brew black coffee, and stare at the birds drowning in the darkness of the dawn. Youā€™ve got to sit next to the man at the train station whoā€™s reading your favorite book and start a conversation. Youā€™ve got to come home after a bad day and burn your skin from a shower. Then youā€™ve got to wash all your sheets until they smell of lemon detergent you bought for four dollars at the local grocery store. Youā€™ve got to stop taking everything so goddam personally. You are not the moon kissing the black sky. Youā€™ve got to compliment someones crooked brows at an art fair and tell them that their eyes remind you of green swimming pools in mid July. Youā€™ve got to stop letting yourself get upset about things that wonā€™t matter in two years. Sleep in on Saturday mornings and wake yourself up early on Sunday. Youā€™ve got to stop worrying about what youā€™re going to tell her when she finds out. Youā€™ve got to stop over thinking why he stopped caring about you over six months ago. Youā€™ve got to stop asking everyone for their opinions. Fuck it. Love yourself, kiddo. Youā€™ve got to love yourself.

BEAUTIFUL

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accras

ā€œThis video of this adorable little girl encouraging her Dad while he tries to do her hair, is just what we needed to brighten up our day.ā€ [X]

[Dad: Howā€™m I doing on your hair? Child: Good! Dad: Letā€™s see, do I need more grease? Child: Yes. You need more grease on there. Dad: More grease? And then what? Child: And then you gonna need to brush it, and then you put a band on there. Dad: A band on it? Child: Yeah! Dad: Aww.. Child: Youā€™re getting it through! Youā€™re almost done! Youā€™re doing a good job! Dad: Aww, thank you, sweetheart, so much! Daddyā€™s trying, doing the best I can. Thank you so much. Child: Youā€™re welcome! Dad: Iā€™m almost done! Child: You been doing great! Dad: Aw baby, thank you so much, youā€™re so encouraging to Dad. Thank you. Child: Youā€™re welcome. Dad: I really appreciate you so much. Youā€™re so awesome. Daddy getting your ponytails ready for school.]

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gardnerhill

Interrupting all the political ugliness to make you melt with cute.

Me as a father

this is so pure

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valerie1972

Kids that age are parrots of tone and phrasing. So the whole bit with ā€œYouā€™re getting it through! Youā€™re almost done! Youā€™re doing a good job!ā€ means that there is at least one adult, if not more, in her life that regularly talks to her that way.

Everything about this video makes me happy.

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But just imagine the fandom if Destiel became Canon

ā€¢Everyone sitting in front of their screens on their beds or couches, mouth gapped, eyes widened. The silence after it happened would be so still, the air would thicken, all our breaths pausing abruptly. Our eyes beginning to water, breathing slowly comes back, heart beats picking up at dangerously rapid paces, of which are ou song against the walls of our ribs.

Thenā€¦The screams and cries of the whole fandom shrieking and crying, running around in our dirty pyjamas; possibly kneeling in the middle of the street, calling all our friends, reblogging and reblogging every single gif set and video clip of the scene until every blog was filled with it. The Destiel and Cas haters sitting on that dark side of Tumblr with a frowny pout on their faces. The fandom finally got what it needed..after all this timeā€¦after all these yearsā€¦

Destiel became canon

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ryokogirle

DONā€™T YOU GET MY HOPES UP LIKE THIS *GROSS SOBBING*

Writers throwing feels at me like

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Reblog if you give a sh*t

I hear ā€œIā€™d rather die than go to math classā€ ā€œI want die Iā€™m gonna fail this testā€ ā€œIā€™m so overwhelmed I just want it all to stop, I want it to endā€ every.single.day in my school hallways. As Iā€™m sure you do too whether it sounds like they're joking or not.

The leading cause of death between people ages 14-34 in North America is suicide. Itā€™s going up every year. The body count rises.

Kids are dying and the school boards just think we are lazy and hormonal. No

We are in pain and we are dying because you donā€™t give a shit

Head up darling, and you fucking keep it up because Iā€™m rooting for ya; youā€™re gonna make it! THIS POST RIGHT HERE RIGHT NOW IS ME AND WHOEVER REBLOGGED THIS GIVING A SHIT ABOUT YOUR LIFE! I don't know you but hun you're living and breathing and I'm so happy about that - please keep it that way

Save a daughter, save a son, save a life. Reblog if you give a shit.

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The Signs and What Makes Them Angry

Virgo: We wonā€™t see Cas until February

Capricorn: Ā We wonā€™t see Cas until February

Gemini: Ā We wonā€™t see Cas until February

Leo: We wonā€™t see Cas until February

Aquarius: Ā We wonā€™t see Cas until February

Aries: Ā We wonā€™t see Cas until February

Pisces: We wonā€™t see Cas until February

Libra: Ā  We wonā€™t see Cas until February

Scorpio: Ā We wonā€™t see Cas until February

Virgo: Ā We wonā€™t see Cas until February

Taurus: Ā We wonā€™t see Cas until February

Cancer: Ā We wonā€™t see Cas until February

Sagittarius: Ā We wonā€™t see Cas until February

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Dean and Sam (At age 80)

Dean leans back in a pillowed wooden rocking chair. The chair he got when he first came into this old folks home. He relaxes by the window and letā€™s the soft creaking of the rocker sooth his mind as he basks in the warm glow of the sun shining through the glass. His eyes are now shut as he pushes his slipper covered feet on the carpeted floor; letting the movement rock him like a baby in his favourite chair.

Dean allows his mind to drift off to his younger days of fighting evil and sometimes fighting good. He reflects on some of his darkest moments, his darkest feelings. He remembers how every day back then there was a high chance that he could die - every day that chance was high. Dean remembers what Sam would tell him when he was feeling down, ā€œWeā€™ll live till weā€™re 90, Dean. Just you relax and get your head out of your assā€

He remembers Cas too, Cas had to go though. He doesnā€™t remember where he went or why and he longs for him everyday. Or wait? Was his name Cal? Dean isnā€™t sure of anything anymore. His mind has been going for years.

Dean opens his eyes, he stops the rocking. Another chair sits across from him. Thatā€™s his good brother Samā€™s chair. It even has Samā€™s pillow on the seat that he used to bring everywhere in the Impala.

At the corner of his eye Dean sees someone approaching. They walk up to Samā€™s chair and begin to sit when Dean stops them. ā€œThatā€™s my brothers chair, heā€™s coming back soon - heā€™s gone to get me some pieā€ They back off and Dean leans back in his chair and continues his rocking.

Sam was gone to get Dean pie; but he died in an accident 40 years ago.

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hxxligan

Relationships donā€™t take your anxiety away Relationships donā€™t take your depression away Relationships donā€™t stop the bad thoughts Relationships donā€™t stop your mental illnesses

Louder for the people who seek validation in other people. YOU are the solution.

Also important to remember: Your worth is not determined whether you are in a relationship or not

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godshipsit

jokeā€™s on you, asmodeus. now youā€™re gonna have to endure 1000 phone calls from dean every single day because heā€™s worried about his husbandĀ 

asmodeus, after the he gets the 5th call in two hours:Ā  ughhhh [in casā€™ voice, a little strained] whatā€™s wrong now, dean

dean: hey, cas, nothing, I just - I was just checkin on you, I guessĀ 

asmodeus: Iā€™ve already told you 5 minutes ago, Iā€™m fineĀ 

dean: ok, yeahā€¦ Iā€™ll call you before I go to sleep, alright? unless you want to call me before thatĀ 

asmodeus: [puking a little] umm I bet youā€™re busy finding the jack, I mean, jackā€“ so itā€™s okay, dean. I donā€™t want to waste your time.

dean: are you kidding, buddy? Iā€™ll always find some time for youā€¦ pal.Ā [giggles] here, let me tell you about this thing that happened just one minute agoā€¦

asmodeus: [internally screaming]

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