The Trad Boy’s Guide to Dealing with Sirens
Entire lifetimes were spent warning you of the seducers. How they would come, those poor, misguided servants of blue deities, to tempt you into ways, truths, and lives that would only ruin you. They could strike at any time: with their low-cut black blouses and expensive cameras. You might find yourself sitting across a kitchen island from one on a barstool in the Heights, drinking Moscato by moonlight. Faced with one of these she-demons in the flesh, you might be cajoled to give up rewards in Heaven for Hell on Earth. Faced with color, you might feel your whiteness more intensely than ever before.
Always remember your humble origins in sin. If the Grand Concourse is Eden after the fall, and Eve is a brown girl transformed by the fruits of knowledge, then know that you—Adam—have been enticed away from all that is good. Think of the apple lodging itself in your throat; the forbidden re-molding the very contours of your body. Think carefully now about the sanctity of marriage. Think about the salvation of your soul from the bitterness of contamination—a bitterness so acute that maybe, just maybe, God’s command to love gets lost somewhere in the taste of it all.
Forget about the women who bare everything for you on glowing laptop screens. Forget about egging on drunken unholiness. Forget about stripping the spark naked. Stash it all away and build a cathedral of guilt in the open field of your mind. Fall to your knees and worship at the altar of lust. In clear tones, advise silly girls not to offer non-committal men perks. They only do so at their own peril.
(You like the fifties. It was a better time.)
Will philosophy provide you the answers you seek? Fat chance.
Whenever you stray, turn back towards your roots, and allow them to wind through the back alleys of your heart.
It takes a village to raise a child, and a cross to keep him fearful.