queen of england just dropped (dead)
i hate how trauma dumping has been turned into such a negative statement. i hate how ppl now cant talk abt their trauma w/o the fear that theyre dumping all their garbage onto someone. ppl care abt mental health & trauma but the moment someone wants to open up abt their trauma, its seen as a negative thing. obvs im not talking about trauma dumping to a random stranger at the grocery store, but ppl should be able to share their trauma with certain individuals or in certain spaces w/o the fear of being labeled as a trauma dumper etc
#okay no this hit bc i can’t talk about my sa anymore bc i learned about trauma dumping and now im scared i do that#and someone told me once i trauma dumped on them and now im scared of doing it again but so when i want to talk about the sa i just don’t#🤪#trauma#assault mention#in the tags but still
I luckily haven't had to deal with much chronic pain or hand pain yet, especially with regards to baking (crochet is another story). That said, these look like some pretty solid tips! There's also some in the comments section.
As this link nears five hundred notes, I'm just... very quietly touched at how many people are sharing it. Whether they need it themselves (or think they will someday), or know someone else who might need it, the fact that all of them are sharing the sentiment of "I want the people who love doing this thing to be able to keep doing the thing that they love" is... yeah. It makes me happy.
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Put your lazy meal in the tags
#progresso soup OR#sometimes i sauté asparagus bc it’s super easy and requires no chopping and then i season it with balsamic vinegar in the pan#and salt and garlic and then when it’s done i add basil pesto usually just canned from the store. chefs kiss so fucking easy and it tasters#like a fine dining side dish like it lifts up my mood so much when i’m depressed
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top 5 god given gifts to mankind for us to cherish and rejoice in
1. bread
2. masturbation
3. drinking water when you are very thirsty
4. vegetable
5. sleep
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people on this saying “all these except 4” in the tags. you are not being cute by saying so. I am fucking begging you to eat your veggies
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eventually you realize you don’t want to die. you just don’t want to live the life you’re living. and slowly you try to create a life you want to live. just gotta start there.
no one needs to add “sounds fake but ok”, “no”, “well, not me”, “impossible”, etc. to this post. and i’d rather you not.
one day you think: I want to die.
and then you think, very quietly: actually. actually. I think I want a coffee. a nap. a sandwich. a book.
and I want to die turns day by day into I want to go home, I want to walk in the woods, I want to see my friend, I want to sit in the sun
I want a cleaner kitchen
I want a better job
I want to live somewhere else
I want to live
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rb this and tell me what ur accent is. this has no purpose except the fact i just realized i could have like... mutuals with cockney accents or newfoundland accents or something and thats just wild
Giving nurses tiktok was a mistake
"our days are so tough" okay tell me how come ur posts aren't like "my labour is super exploited" how come all of em are like "this guy has a weird penis lol"? We have channels to talk about what our work is like and how were treated. Making memes like "when ur pt rings the bell too much" or "remember I get to choose the needle gauge" doesn't actually address any of it it's just an abuse of ur inherent power over patients.
Every single nurse called out for being a cunt online flies immediately towards guilt tripping ppl into feeling bad for em but it's a fundamental misunderstanding of how health care power structures work to act like mistreatment from patients is because we are below them in that heirarchy. We are in a position of power over them by virtue of our knowledge and involvement in their care. The fact that clients can be as shitty as they want to u is because ur employers don't protect u. It's cuz ur work is devalued and incompatible with capitalism. It's cuz you're guilt tripped out of demanding any sort of basic workers rights. None of that is the fault of patients and none of it can be solved by sharing personal embarassing health details abt them on tiktok.
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I think I love doomed romance so much because it shows that the experience of loving someone is worth it even if you’re not together forever. Loving you was worth the heartbreak and I can’t say I’d ever wanna live in a world where I didn’t know you like this
help me support kids affected by a parent’s cancer!
hi it’s me again with another fundraiser for camp kesem!! we put on free summer camp and provide a year round community for children impacted by a parent’s cancer. this week we’re fundraising to be able to send them kits for this year’s virtual summer programming so that they can experience the power and connection of kesem safely at home. please donate if you can! any amount helps us to provide them support during this difficult year.
my donation link is https://donate.kesem.org/fundraiser/2987394 !!
falling in love makes me want to eat
& actually its romantic and intimate to have someone in ur life who wants u to eat, who reminds u to eat, who treats u to snacks bc they want u to be happy and full way more than they would ever care about u keeping thin, i think wanting someone to take care of themselves and eat without shame or fear for their appearance is like the worlds closest thing to unconditional love
Some random gravestones
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Steve + caring for Diana.