I feel like we as a community don't talk about how many kids feel pressured to fit into the LGBT+ community to not 'look' straight. By that I'm primely talking about these chronically online kids who genuinely believed that high majority of lesbians wear goofy earrings, bisexuals all have bobs and fannels, stuff like that.
You don't have to spend over 200$ on shein or on some other fast fashion website, to look LGBT+ You are who you are. Do what you want.
I'm sorry if this is just rambling but irl, I don't ''look'' like a 'lesbian', as put to other people. I've been assumed straight or bisexual after telling the same people I'm a lesbian hundreds of time. Yet the kid that spends so much money on 'tiktok' fashion trends is always assumed LGBT and correctly,,,
Idk if this makes sense,, but TDLR; there is no look to being apart of the LGBT community