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Anonymous asked:

"Listen this makes perfect sense and is exactly what we've been suspecting for months now!! 'Freddies' off to preschool, they stage a fight where L & B can't decide on a school, Louis takes a pat test to gain full custody, SHOCK he's not the father! Then Harry, even though syco has publicly kept him away for 5 years, will be Louis' 'support' during this time which leads to a CO. Antis must be shaking" - Larries in 4 years probably

I’m totally scheduling this post for four years time, just because in the carnage of whatever remains of the Larry tag, I want this to suddenly pop out of nowhere and for you to sound like a psychic and for this blog to sound like an insider haven.

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Anonymous asked:

Exploiting women! Are you kidding? WTF! Was Sam Smith exploiting Daisy Lowe? Was Coton Haynes exploiting the women he dated? Should any of the men in 1D come out the last thing they will have been doing to the women they have dated is exploiting them. Keep your trash opinions to yourself. Life is difficult enough for closeted people already.

This is an entirely different situation we’re going through according to Larries.

Sam and Daisy were friends. She was never tied up in some awful contract. She didn’t receive years and years of abuse and harassment from his fans. The Larries believe these men are specifically looking to humiliate and hurt these women. They fantasize about that as much as they fantasize about their sex lives. They hope these men behave abusively to these women. They enjoy that idea. That women have signed up to be specifically used in this way.

It’s not what happens in normal bearding situations. That’s not what gay men do to these women because these women aren’t these enforced contractually bound leeches tied to them like concrete blocks. I would find it disturbing for any man or person to use another person as an abuse shield the way the Larries claim these women exist to be. They have theories that Danielle only flew in to be with Louis during Thanksgiving when his mother was sick in hospital as a way to distract them from finding that out because they’d be so consumed with rage hating her they wouldn’t delve deeper. Like this is a really fucked up situation they’ve invented. It’s not comparable to anything else because it’s never existed before. Gay men do not use women in this way.

On top of that Louis and Harry have used their mothers and their sisters and in Louis’s case his underage grieving siblings as shields and abuse targets too. Their theories about why his siblings engage in stuff over Freddie is because it helps ease the burden for him, which is despicable for Louis to do to girls knowing they will be abused for it. He let his mother deal with abuse over Freddie in the months before she passed. 

This is thankfully a fictional situation but the scenario Larries have dreamed up over who Louis/Harry are in connection to the women in their lives is disgusting and I would not support either of them for doing things like this, not unless they could explain it and have good reasons. And there’s none. Contracts like this don’t exist and Louis has access to good lawyers who can fight it. If Stormy Daniels can fight the President of the USA over an NDA about a sexual relationship on TV and in the media then Louis can fucking fight Modest over all the evil contracts he has with Modest/Syco/Cowell etc.

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cantquitu

How did this anon miss the fact that it’s the Larries who have invented a fantasy scenario where the 1D guys are exploiting the women they date? 

Those of us “in the reality-based community” understand that’s not actually true.

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Unlearning is extremely painful, because you’re giving up your object. And I believe in pedagogy—I’m fundamentally a teacher. But I think teaching is really difficult, because the things you’re trying to get people to unlearn are things they hold close, and that are forms of life for them that structure their sense of continuity. Because learning and unlearning happen at the same time, there ought to be a lot of grace in the space of pedagogy.
Cruel Optimism is about how people will stay in relation to their object even if it destroys them, because they can’t bear giving up the pleasure of knowing the world in a particular way. So yes, unlearning is very painful because it means you have to experience a kind of complexity about moving through the world that you didn’t have before. And that’s very abstract, but it’s not abstract when you’re losing something.

Lauren Berlant in conversation with Bea Malsky, “Pleasure Won: A Conversation with Lauren Berlant,” The Point Magazine (x)

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Wtf is wrong with Larries (part eleventy billion)?

Some twitter Larries are attacking Ben Winston for saying he was delighted for Louis winning the iHeart award. And the Larries said they want Louis to go on the Late Late Show, but Ben literally said more than once (including today) that Louis (and the other boys) have an open invitation to go on the show whenever they want. He’s just supporting a friend/friendly coworker and people want to shit all over him. I just don’t get them.

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Anonymous asked:

I actually think bromo is starting to tinhat timmy and armie though, just based on the people she follows and things she’s said about armies wife. There’s quite a few tinhats that you come across in that fandom which is a shame. They (timmy and armie) obviously love each other a lot and have no idea about the shit storm that may erupt re: their relationship ... yikes

Oh she 10000% is tinhatting them. It’s her only purpose in fandom. 

If she likes a white man it’s because she’s fetishizing the idea he’s gay and performing it for her with another man. Without that she has no interest in anything.

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lrambling

you know, it’s funny. antis bring up how much harm larries do, how much they encourage harassment and spread misogyny, how invasive and disrespectful they are, how they continue to speculate about the personal lives of strangers even after we’ve seen how easily that can lead to making ignorantly hurtful and horrible statements. and larries always say shit like “the real problem is the way people who think they’re straight always sexualize 1D.”

@lesbianslovelouis Amy is so gross. So gross. She’s like a virus you can’t get rid of. Disgusting and repulsive. All she thinks about is H and L’s sexuality. It’s not about the fucking music at all. It’s about the fantasies this oversexed middle-aged woman has about L and H being gay together. 

It’s Harry’s first day on tour and this is what she comes up with. 

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f-ml

I try every day to not to think like a tinhat. Every day. I see something and immediately my brain tries to do that red string connections thing or I try to figure out a hidden reason for something. Every. Day. Sometimes I do better than others, but every day I try. It’s not a simple rewiring. I wish it was, but it’s not. Once your brains are scrambled, and you have an active imagination, you will always have to stop, tell yourself to accept things at face value, and move on.

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Anonymous asked:

i just heard the newest video of harry singing medicine and thought to check bromo blog but she hasn’t really mentioned it bc she’s still obsessing over the cmbyn actors- but do you think it’s also bc the song seems to imply he’s bi and not gay like she keeps writing in her tags lol

but she hasn’t really mentioned it bc she’s still obsessing over the cmbyn actors

The CMBYN actors are such bros.

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Anonymous asked:

"50% out of spite towards fans who are hateful about her in a way that i feel is unjustified" - isn't that the truth. its human psychology. we root for and support those who are mistreated. if you have an ounce of decency of course. i don't get how someone sits and writes lines of hate and nastiness. how do they live w themselves

I am totally guilty.  I think that I specifically feel protective towards all the girlfriends and ex-girlfriends specifically because of the jealous hatred that gets rained down on them by a significant number of “fans

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Anonymous asked:

Wow. Larries are now after Camille because she posted a pic of herself reading books about Charles Manson and they're calling her a "Charles Manson fan" like NEWSFLASH PEOPLE WHO LIKE TRUE CRIME EXISTS

Yeah they’ve been using that as proof she’s an actual Nazi who supports serial killers for ages. 

That’s what being a woman around these men is like.

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Anonymous asked:

Wow is Harry posing with Camille for fan pics? Does this mean he have finally found a serious gf? 😏

I think she's been serious for about 8 months now.I just think it's nice when a partner gets on with someone's family.

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Anonymous asked:

I feel super bummed for not hearing the lyrics as everybody seems to,I know I doesn’t matter but I would love to know for sure what he says!

I’m sure the official lyrics will get shared eventually.

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Anonymous asked:

Someone at the concert said Anne got emotional during sweet creature and Camille was comforting her and Jeff started hugging her. Aww our boy is surrounded by so much love ❤

STOP or I really will cry 😭 Harry is surrounded by a whole lot of amazing people and I love that they all support each other just as much as they support him! ❤️

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