if you do smut promts #10 and 39 for vinny hong 🫣🫣

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HELLO, I'm here again, you're "soon-to-be favorite" anon. I'm happy that you liked my first analysis and I'm also surprised that Tumblr didn't cut it, wow what a nice day, let's see if I'm lucky even this time. Today I'm gonna write the last thing about Vinny, and then I'll start with the other characters, so hang in there, I know you probably don't want to see the name Vinny for at least an entire month but this will be the last one, I swear. Again, sorry for my English and LeT'S BEGIN-

Today I'm gonna discuss his LOVE LIFE, or better, how he would be in a romantic relationship and how his personality would affect that (this is my personal take and if you disagree with something then say it, CRITICIZE, I like constructive criticism). Also I've read all the Korean chapters and on Instagram/YouTube they always put new translations so I'm a bit ahead of you if you haven't, that's why some things may sound..weird.

(I'll explain how Vinny would be in a relationship with his unhealthy coping mechanisms [anger, depression as you said, other things I'm gonna write here] and how he would be in the same relationship with healthy coping mechanisms, kinda character development, more or less. Sorry if it's too complicated.)

P.S.- Shit this is far longer than the last one oh my freaking God-

- IN GENERAL, in a romantic relationship I think he would be a bit of a ..jerk. I mean, have you seen how he treats his mother(or his friends)? He LOVES her, but he cares about her in a jerkish way. Like he always scolds her/gets angry at her because she doesn't take care of herself. Yeah there's also the fact that she's very sick so of course he would behave like that, he's worried, but still I think he could be totally capable of treating his lover in that way too. Despite this, I can see this romantic relationship in two ways: he has a soft spot for you but treats you like everyone else with little differences (tsundere), or he has a soft spot for you and treats you better than the others(big protective bear). If I'm being honest, I love the tsundere trope so that's why I'm a bit(a lot) oriented towards that, but I can see Vinny being even a big protective grizzly, so...you choose what you think suits him more;

-(Now let's get real)AT FIRST I think he would dismiss genuine praise/help and be excessively defensive. He has built a wall around himself to not let others hurt him so it will be a bit difficult for him to be in a relationship. Around them he'll also tend to repress his emotions, like he has this irrational fear that if he gets angry around/with them, they'll get scared or end up hating him so they'll leave. That's why he'll vent to other people unconsciously(or blow off some steam with a good ride on his bike), like he's in a bad mood because of something that happened between him and his lover(not necessarily, maybe he's just in his depressed mood but doesn't want to talk about it to them), and instead of go talking to them to solve things like in a good healthy relationship, someone will accidentally make him angry and that's it. CONGRATULATIONS, now you're Vinny's punching bag, here some bandages. Let's say it, this is not healthy. He is a really supporting boyfriend, but won't accept the same support from his counterpart, and that's really sad. I can see why he does it, he has lived like this since the start, it's an habit, this is how he copes and it will be hard changing that.

(In stressing situations, same thing, he will use distancing strategies to cope with it, and get angry at other people)

I also think he wouldn't be completely open with his lover because of his trust issues. Remember, the world hurt him, and I think he has a pessimistic view of people in general. He uses anger to protect himself. So if you get in a relationship with him, that's amazing, this means he trusts you to an extent, but if he opens up to you, that's like Jackpot bitch, TREASURE HIM and don't stab him on the back, pls. If you help him, he will become a completely different person, trust me.

-PDA. What's PDA? Something to eat? Alright, a t f i r s t, he would suck at this, really, and he wouldn't even try to be better at it, like why he needs to do that? You know he loves you, no? Just staying with you it's a great display of affection. Honestly, he would start to be more "affectionate" when he feels threatened by another human being, preferably, a male human being. God, you can feel his murderous aura from a mile away, i mean, he's so JEALOUS, not possessive, but really man calm down. This stems from his LSE, he feels inferior, he thinks you deserve better but paradoxically he doesn't want you to leave him for someone else, but if you do, well: Depression has entered the room. When he's alone with you I don't know, I don't think it's that different, maybe a bit but still.. it's new to him, so usually it's you that initiate things, and he'll be pretty embarrassed.

But as your relationship progresses, and you'll hopefully help him cope with his feelings and insecurity in a healthy way, he'll show his strong-willed personality, and he'll be more clingy.

-He's a pretty serious guy, so if he opened up to you, you've got a ride or die for life. He's not someone who would have multiple relationships, but rather someone who has ONE relationship and sticks to it, so if he's with you, it means he wants to stay with you for INFINITYⓇ.

-He's an introvert, doesn't really like people and to him saying hi = punching someone in the face...so.. yeah. Despite this I think he's open to new experiences. Don't get me wrong, he likes routine but if you wanted to do something different, he would be okay with that too. In this regard he's really balanced. I also think he doesn't mind crowdy places; as long as people leave him alone, he's pretty resilient. Just don't choose places too expensive, he can't afford that. But even here, you'll be the one to initiate things, or at least at the beginning.

-Further into your relationship, he'll be hella passionate and so intense oh my god. Even though he didn't necessarily show it at the start, he felt (and feels) strongly about you, the only difference is that now, he doesn't even hide it. Vinny is intrinsically driven by passion, and when he feels passionate about something/someone, he gives his all. He values his relationships, friendships and family. He won't hesitate to help a loved one in need. He's also very straightforward, and will express his thoughts and feelings(when he'll surpass that defensive and repressive period and gets better), even when you don't share them. And he excepts his lover to do the same, he likes a good discussion, someone that has strong opinions and that is ready to defend them, that's sexy. Honestly, he's not easy to be around, and he knows that. At first he was repressing himself around you, and in some ways he was easier to deal with(but in so many ways he wasn't), but now that he won't hold back anymore..wow, he sure experiences the full range of human emotions very VERY deeply. He'll probably have a tendency to be "moody", but don't tell him, it annoys him. During these moments maybe he's just processing or brooding over something, just leave him alone.

-Is he shy? I don't think so, he's just easily flustered, and ONLY AT THE BEGINNING OF THE RELATIONSHIP. Kisses, cuddles, holding hands, these things are new to him and he doesn't know how to process them. With time he'll get better, to the point where he'll be the one to show affection more often(maybe even being a tease). But here comes a question-

Is he touch-starved? Does he crave affection? I don't know man. I mean, his mother was and is very nurturing and caring, so probably he wasn't neglected at all. But we don't know that honestly, maybe he was because of all the jobs his mother had to do, she's a single mom, so imagine how busy she was back then(house,work,sickness), that's not her fault of course. Maybe he does crave affection. Maybe he'd like to feel loved by someone who isn't his mother, because seriously, only two people really care about him (Sung and his mother); Jay, Dom etc are just casual friends, they care about each other but it's kinda different, unfortunately.

- LOVE LANGUAGES:

Okay, AT THE BEGINNING, his primary love language would be Quality Time. People with this love language are looking for quality over quantity, that's why he would give to his lover his undivided attention, actively listening to them, spending a lot of time with them, doesn't matter where they go, he just needs to be with them. Physical Touch isn't his primary love language here because right now he sucks at PDA, and he's not that affectionate so... no, even though he's very.... physical; the same goes for Words of Affirmation(I mean.. that's self-explanatory). Last we have Acts of Service and Gifts...mmmmh- Now, Acts of Service kinda suits him, it can be his "secondary" love language- doing nice little things for them, without making 'em notice, because he's too cool for that; then we have Gifts- If he were rich *sob*, he would take the time to pick up a gift for them, but not always.

After a lot of time, I think his primary love language would become Physical Touch(can you even change your love languages??who cares, this is fanfiction, I do what I want), you know he'll be far more affectionate(more kisses, cuddles, holding hands, s e x). He'll prefer physical expressions of love. His "secondary" love language this time would be Quality Time.

-This honestly doesn't have anything to do with this(kinda), but after Vinny's character development... I think he'll become pretty bored. He would need an outlet for his new found passion. Yes he loves cycling, but apart from that? Does he have any hobbies, I mean, r e a l hobbies? Is beating up other people a hobby???(Sorry but cycling is no real hobby boy) He'll become so restless that he'll start to explore, and thanks to his lover, he'll find out that he's a really creative person. So he'll start drawing, playing an instrument, god imagine Vinny with a fucking guitar, that would be so HOT- I see him as someone who knows how to play an instrument who writes his own melodies, and he's a fucking prodigy at it(eat this Jay). I HEADCANON THIS, YOU ALL CAN'T STOP ME

ayo we need more vinny hong content 😩

I'm on a roll with all the dad headcanons 😩

— Would die for his kids without thinking twice, he's so protective of them. He is attached to them from the day they were born. Even if he was in a daze about his upcoming fatherhood before that, the moment he held his newborn in his arms, he's immediately smitten.

— Vinny really wouldn't want kids until he knows he'd be able to give them the life he wanted. Because of this, when he does eventually have his own kids, he spoils them a bit more than necessary while also being weirdly strict.

— He didn't really have a lot of fond memories as children, which is a mistake he won't bear repeating with his own children. He will be there for all of their big events, helping them with their homework, and teaching them necessary skills.

— At one point, it becomes a routine for your family to go somewhere during the weekends. Not only for the kids but for the two of you as well. Sung is happy with looking after the kids for a night so you can go out together, never say that Vinny stopped being romantic after having children.

— He's... a hypocrite, do as I say not as I do. Mostly because, yes, he was a huge delinquent as a teenager, you cannot expect him to outgrow all of it. Sometimes, he uses brusque words around the house, the kids would mimic those, you'd have a word with him, he'd have a word with the kids.

— Then rinse and repeat when he accidentally stubbed his toe the next day.

— Actually doesn't want pets if he has to take care of kids? Like... he already has two children to worry about, he didn't want to worry about a pet as well. Every time the kid wants to adopt a pet of their own, he always uses the "you can do it when you have your own place" excuse and then makes it up to them with their favourite food.

— Also doesn't want a lot of kids, two at max as well. Aside from financial problems being an issue for having many kids, he also pretty much nearly passed out every time you went into labour. He heard you scream and he was ready to fight the doctors. The stress does not do him good, please, no more.

— I really like the idea of Vinny with a daughter, since she'd be his little princess. He actually likes the idea of having sons better than having a daughter, mostly because he's rough around the edges and worry he'd misstep with his daughter.

— The first time she went out on a date, he kept staring at the front door, waiting for her to come home. It's funny to watch how much he fusses and worries. He really didn't want to be one of those dads who acted irrationally protective but he overthinks anyway.

— You'd have to temper him and distract him but it won't work for long, as soon as she came home, he's back to worrying dad mode again. There's no helping your man.

— Definitely used the line "Everything you'll do to her, I'll do to you" before, it's so bad.

— Would never raise a single hand against them, no matter how angry they made him. Whenever his anger got the better of him, he'd simply leave to cool his head, you as the more emotionally attuned parent can deal with them.

— He'll never allow his kids to treat you the same way he acted towards his mother when he was younger. It was incredibly stupid of him back then and after years of dealing with his emotions, he knew it came from a place of misguided anger.

— He'd discipline them instead of you, but he also wanted to figure out what led them to speak like that in the first place. If his kids had albinism, too, he'd be extra careful with situations where bullying might happen. He knows he can't control other people's kids, but he will teach his children how to defend themselves.

— Somehow, children, in general, are weirdly taken to him. The younger and nicer ones, the ones with innocence, not malice. They think he looks so cool. His children's friends would constantly gush about how cool their dad looked whenever he picked them up.

— Also, add a bonus, the teenage friends of kids when they are older would talk about how he is so fine as well. Really, this man ages so well, it embarrasses his kids whenever someone mentioned how good looking he is.

— Back when the kids were younger, it's a pretty common sight for you to see them falling asleep in a pile on top of their dad. Honestly, seeing his baby pictures alone would make you get a baby fever. He has the prettiest eyes you've ever seen and the cutest cheeks.

— He's no better with teenagers than he was with toddlers. However, he argues with his teenagers much more often, which is one of his huge grievances and you had to help him work through it. This mostly stems from his protectiveness of them, however, he does get better with it.

— At the end of the day, they all love each other, and all it needed was him actually communicating his issues while they let him know about theirs. Even until later on in his life, Vinny is not the most open guy, talking doesn't come to him naturally, but he tries so hard.

Can you please write more for Vinny? (I love him so much 💖✨ Maybe some NSFW hcs? (I see him asexual, but what do you think?) Or him with a plus size so? Whatever, I just want more Vinny content 🙏🏻💍

Love you and your blog ❤😘 Thank you! ✨

heyo it’s anon🦎 I’m kinda new here. But I would like to request something for our lovely Vinny.

So you know when they go with Mr Nam on a training trip. Well can you write about Vinny and reader sharing a tent together like Shelly and Jay did. Maybe sharing feelings or spicy stuff😏.

MY LORD 🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️ I HAVE JUST STARTED SCHOOL BUT I FINALLY GOT THE TIME TO READ ALL YOUR WRITING 😻😻😻

I HOPE YOU ARE TAKING CARE OF YOURSELF 🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️🙇‍♀️ IF YOU EVER NEED A HUMAN SHIELD, A BODYGUARD, OR WANT ME TO BRING YOU FOOD I SHALL DO SO TO THE BEST OF MY ABILITY

ONE OF YOUR WRITINGS HAD MY TOES CURLING 🙈... can i take up vinny's offer for a one on one beach trip 😳😳

THANK YOU FOR READING MY NONSENSE AS PER USUAL 🙇‍♀️ HOPE YOUR SKIN IS CLEAR AND YOU HAVE EXTRA GOOD LUCK TODAY

🙇‍♀️anon

Wow! Your blog is amazing! Thank you for your job ♡

Can you please write smth about reader comforting and supporting upset Vinny? I just want hold his hand, hug him and kiss his cheek gently, he deserves the world ♥

I like Lookism too and sorry for my bad English, I hope you can understand me 🙏🏻

What soured his mood stuck with him even when Vinny arrived at your school's gate to walk you home. Intimidating as he was normally, the foul expression he wore on his face as a mask worsened everyone's perception of him.

Not that he cared. Not that any of their opinions mattered.

But he didn't like seeing how your expression fell when your eyes set upon him. "Is something wrong?"

He shrugged and gave you a noncommittal grunt. Not really in a talkative mood, he was. Thankfully, you understood his silent request and dropped the topic. It was a blessing how easy you caught up with his mood sometimes, he'd not know how to navigate himself otherwise.

"Do you want to hear about my day, then?"

An offer for distraction, one he took up willingly. Albeit, with only a grunt.

It worked either way because the tiny progress put a smile on your lips. You dipped your head in understanding, "Okay."

While he was unwilling to detach his hands from his own pockets, you hooked your hand on his arm readily when he proffered it to you.

The action was infinitesimal in comparison to everything that was going on with him, but the smoothness of the transition comforted him all the same.

If anything else went wrong, he might lose his accursed mind.

Hearing your recital about your day was a pleasant change of pace. It distracted him from his own problem, even when you talked of mundane, uninteresting topics. In truth, he couldn't care less about your classmates, whose names he couldn't remember.

But it was nice to hear about things you cared about, it made him forget about his own troubles. Even for a moment.

By the time the two of you stopped at the front of your gate, his tension had lessened. However, much of it remained, allowing his unwillingness to speak of what had happened.

He'd tell you, in time, but for the moment, far too much was bottled up inside him. It would be the worst thing to happen if he exploded in the wrong direction. Your direction.

Again, you stared up at him with those eyes, inquiring and worried. However, you respected his wish for silence again, to his relief. When you reached up for him, Vinny leaned in easily, craving for comfort in your hands.

You didn't kiss him, not the way he expected. Instead, you cupped his face in your palms, the tenderness of your gesture melted him. Melted whatever wall he was putting up, even if there remained the barbed thorns behind the ice.

"Do you want me to stay with you tonight?" Softly, you asked. "Even if you don't want to talk..."

For the first time since the day began, Vinny smiled. Such fondness was reserved only to you. "It's fine," he breathed out quietly, "I... I just need to work a few things out, I'll talk to you when I'm ready."

His reassurance did little to dissipate the anxiety in your eyes, but it gave you a definite ending. That was the most he could offer at this moment. "Okay," you sighed, "I'm only one call away."

"I know," and as he said that, you tugged him into a hug.

His arms wound around your waist willingly, eased into the embrace where solace can be found.

It was laughable, in a way.

How sometimes he thought this alone could help all of his problems go away. As it was, they remained even after he slipped out of your arms, but the weight in his heart didn't feel the same.

Lighter, now.