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"My cat stole my fuckign garlic bread"

@bobolobocus / bobolobocus.tumblr.com

Uh, so I guess this is my bio? - she/it, Rain. I am also apparently a part of showerfam, like "a raccoon in the backyard fed chicken nuggets
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Tumblr Migration 2: Reddit Boogaloo

We all know about the Twitter immigrants, but there seems to be radio silence on what's happening now with Reddit users from certain subreddits doing a similar thing.

What's happening?

Reddit is restricting their API later this month and killing off third-party apps. An AMA (Ask Me Anything) with the CEO Steve Hoffman was held and it was clear that he would continue with the changes.

In protest, thousands of subreddits across the site are planning to go dark for 48 hours on June 12th. Some are planning to continue indefinitely until the changes are reversed.

Okay, so how does this affect Tumblr?

Some subreddits (mainly queer and left-leaning meme ones, don't worry too much about Reddit Atheists™ overrunning us) are encouraging their users to jump ship to our beloved - and beloathed - hellsite. There will be another influx of new users and many will be unfamiliar with how the site works.

What do us Tumblr users do?

Show them how to use the site; introduce them to the site's culture, tell them to reblog shit and curate their dashboard. Sorta like how we welcomed Twitter users back when they flocked here. Kungpowpenising optional.

I'm new from Reddit, what do I do here?

CHANGE YOUR PROFILE PICTURE AND BANNER TO SOMETHING OTHER THAN DEFAULT BECAUSE THIS SITE IS FILLED WITH BOTS AND YOU MIGHT BE MISTAKEN FOR ONE. This is the FIRST thing you should do after getting a blog.

Other folks can help you with stuff like curating your dashboard or creating sideblogs (or you can look shit up) but please, PLEASE just give yourself an icon and reblog some stuff so people don't mistake you for a bot

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saltyflump

This is one of the first posts I've seen after trying to look at Tumblr again, so I've decided to head their advice and reblog this. I don't even know what a reblog is but I'll find out in time. It's a learning process

a reblog is what you just did! it's similar to a retweet on twitter and it's the main way things spread on tumblr

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bobolobocus

And when reblogging, you don't need to add text, you can just do a blank reblog.

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skittybot

at this stage i think its good to say, and i direct this to all of the trans women on this site:

you are loved. you are appreciated. your presence is valued.

ppl can do all they can to invalidate you, to drag you through the grime and do their best to make you nothing. and they can fucking try.

but it won't change the fact that we care about you. i care about you. and i appreciate you taking the effort to stick around in this world, especially as things turn awful.

big ass hugs for you girls.

we're still here 💙

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fishermod

https://www.theverge.com/2022/2/25/22949293/tumblr-nycchr-settlement-adult-content-ban-algorithmic-bias-lgbtq

For those who don't remember, here's the lawsuit two years ago where Tumblr (or specifically Automattic) settled with the New York City Commission on Human Rights regarding Tumblr's terribly implemented porn ban targeting LGBTQ folk more than it should. Here's an excerpt detailing what the NYCCHR ordered Tumblr to do:

The settlement gives Tumblr 180 days to hire an expert on sexual orientation and gender identity (SOGI) issues and provide related training to moderators. It must also hire someone with experience in this area as well as expertise in image classification, who will review Tumblr’s moderation algorithms to see if they’re more likely to flag LGBTQ content. As part of an overall review, Tumblr will reexamine 3,000 old cases where a user successfully appealed a takedown, looking for patterns that could indicate bias.

Now, on a totally unrelated note, here's the complaint page for reporting discrimination to the NYCCHR. Completely unrelated to what's going on right now or the rest of this post, I swear.

[edited since it looks like the link broke somehow]

[edit #2: again, for unrelated reasons, here's a link to a post about the San Francisco equivalent]

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alwek

Remember all you. THIS is the post that triggered Rita's ban.

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On this fine day, at 8:37 AM, I walked outside to the front of my school and saw that they replaced the Canadian flag, the flag of our country, with a Pride flag. I have never felt happier. I have never laughed so hard in my life. This is in not a complaint, I just think it's very funny that they replaced the Canadian flag with a Pride flag for no apparent reason. They have their priorities figured out.

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bobolobocus

Isn't the Pride flag upside down?

At least they tried

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Purity Politics

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scalarknight

for the record op draws incest & noncon and hangs out with people who draw bestiality. don't fall for this shit.

being anti-paraphilia is not being "puritan" it's being a decent person who respects the boundaries of consent and does not indulge unhealthy and damaging power dynamics.

Old dog spotted

“Draws incest” i drew a comic about how my mother abused me growing up and sometimes people call me mommy. Who cares.

“Hangs out with people who draw beastiality” scoliopede dick? That’s a Pokémon. With sentience. And is not real.

“Draws noncon” and? I’ve been raped several times in my life, the first time when i was 1st grade, an incident that caused me permanent fear and physical pain in sex. My fucking apologies that I’ll sexualize my brutalizations to be able to engage in my sexuality.

Also the only reason you even know about that shit is because my abusive ex spread a “callout post” all over twitter about me to obfuscate the fact that he’s sexually assaulted several people and groomed minors to draw porn for him and I’m an active witness to their abuse. So if you give a shit about fictional noncon imagine how i feel about real rape.

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thylocalbard

It also doesn't change the meaning of the post??? Like, aside from the fact that all of the allegations seem to be incorrect, even if they were right that doesn't make the idea less valid! I feel like people lose all perspective as soon as someone does a bad thing (or as soon as they even hear that someone might have done a bad thing), because then immediately everything they say is obviously invalid. Just saying, sometimes bad people can have really good ideas and take everything with a grain of salt, of course, really think about why the post was made, but don't act like it's immediately wrong and evil just because the person might have done a bad thing (i say might, because this is the internet and how the fuck do we know what a person is like? How the fuck do we know someone's intent? How the fuck do we know who's telling the truth?).

Doesn't matter if OP is a bad person or not, their point still actually stands. It's not even like the post is encouraging non-con or incest or bestiality, even if the OP encouraged those things. It's literally only loosely-related, because it talks about how puritans take the simple act of sexualizing oneself/embracing one's one sexuality and demonise it.

I personally am inclined to believe that OP is probably more right than the person who reblogged with the accusations, because honestly I feel like people on the internet have no ability to accurately judge other people. I think OP probably knows themselves and their motivations better. However, I don't actually fucking care because the post was valid. Like shit can we have some separation here? Accept that the OP was making a post about the puritan demonization of sex and the ways that manifests and consider that.

Consider motivations, think about why the original poster might want you to think a certain way, but don't immediately dismiss it just because you've heard x about them. You need to actually consider what's being said to decide whether or not it's being used to excuse or encourage bad things.

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scalarknight

for the record op draws incest & noncon and hangs out with people who draw bestiality. don't fall for this shit.

being anti-paraphilia is not being "puritan" it's being a decent person who respects the boundaries of consent and does not indulge unhealthy and damaging power dynamics.

Old dog spotted

“Draws incest” i drew a comic about how my mother abused me growing up and sometimes people call me mommy. Who cares.

“Hangs out with people who draw beastiality” scoliopede dick? That’s a Pokémon. With sentience. And is not real.

“Draws noncon” and? I’ve been raped several times in my life, the first time when i was 1st grade, an incident that caused me permanent fear and physical pain in sex. My fucking apologies that I’ll sexualize my brutalizations to be able to engage in my sexuality.

Also the only reason you even know about that shit is because my abusive ex spread a “callout post” all over twitter about me to obfuscate the fact that he’s sexually assaulted several people and groomed minors to draw porn for him and I’m an active witness to their abuse. So if you give a shit about fictional noncon imagine how i feel about real rape.

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Anonymous asked:

Not that it matter but don't these people realize that kids who are half white can come out looking completely like their white parents. Like my grandpa is an Afro- Latino and my mom looks completely like her mother whose mostly white. I don't understand why race mixing matters anyway 🤷🏻‍♀️people love who they love.

Because they’re stupid

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kamiyu910

My favorite examples of how crazy genetics can be is with twins 

I love genetics. Biology is a trip

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tooiconic

This is always so cool.

I love tumblr because i can see there are over 17k notes on a post that references one of my incredibly specific interests. Like, there is a niche of people who are really pleased by the existence of “Nonidentical twins of mixed race who reflect different parts of their heritage but still look really similar to each other” and we are all in it together going YEAH LOOK AT THESE GUYS! THEY’RE BROTHERS AND SISTERS! YEAH THEY ARE! YEAH!!!!

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if i wanted to forcefem the yellow m and m it wouldnt even be that hard i don t tbink

If you forcefem that little man then I'll tell you right now that peanut isn't gonna be the only nut in her after im done

you are the second person on this post to confess to wanting to have sex with a forcibly feminized m and m

What the fuck is wrong with you people? There are three female m&ms at this point. When will your hyper-feminist agenda be satisfied? What if I decided I was going to forcemasc the green m&m? Then you would all cry misogyny. Do not try to deny it.

Let's make a deal. For every m&m you hypothetically forcefem, I will hypothetically turn one male, starting with the green one as green is my favorite color and because I believe HE would make the most fuckable femboy with his heels on.

i want very badly to respond to this addition but unfortunately your dni prevents me from doing so

"What the fuck is wrong with you people" asks the most unhinged person on this post.

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fatsexybitch

Hold on can someone get this to 10k notes, I have a bit I want to do.

Isn’t this dude the one who wished his aunt would miscarry and then showed up to the family dinner he got uninvited to with a sword

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quacksmith

Yeah he’s reddit famous. I can’t believe I found him in the wild.

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squanunculus

real quick, I have an addition

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1) Egg jokes aren't misgendering and they aren't telling someone what their gender is.

2) being compared to trans people is not a bad thing because being trans is not inherently bad, but getting upset at the idea of egg jokes is not your personal experience, it's clearly getting mad that people are getting compared to trans people

3) "people did egg jokes to me and it made me sad :(" sorry to hear that! Your experience is not universal however! Talk about your experiences but when you use them to talk about other people and other friend groups who are fine with it, it's not about your personal experience anymore (some Mario wikis and Chongo blogs fit for this)

4) this dumb discourse has been overwhelmingly used to call transfems terfs, transvestigators, "Christian missionaries," and run them off the site, this factored with the previous poll where tme people overwhelmingly said you're not allowed to tell your friend they might be a trans woman but it's ok to tell your friend they might be a trans man, kinda paints an interesting picture.

5) the discourse keeps getting changed into "don't call strangers eggs" which whatever. No one's walking straight up to a dude on the street and saying theyre an egg. Random bloggers on Tumblr dot com? Sure don't call em eggs I guess.

6) "don't call random people egg!" Kurt Cobain is an egg. Die mad about it lol.

7) "you can't tell people what their gender is" not what egg jokes are but actually yeah you can that's a common thing about trans people who don't realize they're trans yet is you gotta tell em. Yeah not everyone needs that approach but some do. As someone who spent years helping people realize they're trans and find resources, I know this for a fact, I know more about this than random 20 year old bloggers whining on Tumblr. Get over it.

8) "you can't tell people what their gender is" my husband can call me what ever gender he wants so long as its hot when he does it

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ice-block

I have NEVER seen a tiktok with this much vine energy I swear

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Person: (picks up H and A balloons so they spell “ha” for the camera and laughs. They switch the balloons so they spell “ah” and scream loudly with the end of the video cutting them off)

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