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Krystal's Lair

@krystal-buckys-girl

Hello, and welcome to my humble abode, a place for many things. I do hope you enjoy your stay.
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chaoscheebs

So I have learned recently that "Tendershipping" is a Yu-Gi-Oh shipping term and every time I see it all I think about are chicken tenders and I don't think that's what the fandom is going for.

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shut the fuck up jerry i know luigi looked beautiful you are just a miserable little hater and ur mad bc nobody wants to marry u meanwhile ppl everywhere are lining up to marry luigi and that makes u sooooo mad go blow up and die about it

Mario Heritage Post

why dont i just like microwave my whole body i should do that they should make me sized microwaves so i can never think abt this post i shouldnt have made

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inkskinned

fucking hate it when the stuff everybody says "actually works" does actually work.

hate exercising and realizing i've let go of a lot of anxiety and anger because i've overturned my fight-or-flight response.

hate eating right and eating enough and eating 3 times a day and realizing i'm less anxious and i have more energy

hate journaling in my stupid notebook with my stupid bic ballpoint and realizing that i've actually started healing about something once i'm able to externalize it

hate forgiving myself hate complimenting myself more often hate treating myself with kindness hate taking a gratitude inventory hate having patience hate talking to myself gently

hate turning my little face up to the sun and taking deep breaths and looking at nature and grounding myself and realizing that i feel less burdened and more hopeful, more actually-here, that i am able to see the good sides of myself more clearly, that i am able to see not only how far i have to grow - but also how much growth i have already done & how much of my life i truly fill with light and laughter and love

horrible horrible horrible. hate it but i'm gonna do it tho

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it’s okay to do things that make your symptoms worse (as long as you’ll stay safe)

every once in a while you need to eat something yummy. or go on a walk. or a trip to the zoo. take a hot shower. cry your eyes out. dance. listen to music. draw for way to long. write. laugh. sit in a cafe with a friend. paint your nails. dye your hair. go on a run. pet a cat

sometimes you need to do things that are cathartic or make yourself feel alive. sometimes you need the reminder of why you’re fighting so hard to stay alive

this is your reminder that just because it makes your symptoms worse, it isn’t always the wrong thing to do. there can be value in these actions

If you think about it too, abled people do it all the time. Deciding to drink to excess at a party knowing they'll have a hangover. Going to a theme park knowing walking all day is going to hurt their feet by the end. We have the right to make those same decisions.

This is called Dignity of Risk, and it's an important concept in disability justice.

Everyone weighs their physical and mental/emotional health against one another in constantly shifting balance; inevitably, there are times when we choose to accept consequences to one for the sake of the other.

Infantilsing us by undermining our agency in the name of "protection" or "care" is yet another way that we are disabled by society.

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ok but loki now knowing centuries of physics and mechanics and engineering now makes him tony starks wet dream i hope all the frostiron writers are taking this info and RUNNING with it

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The best part about Terry Pratchet’s Making Money is that you spend the whole book picking up the lil clues being put down that one guy miiiight be a vampire and you’re feeling smart and your connecting the dots and then the reveal happens and his great and dark secret that haunts him nightly is that he’s a professional clown

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ktrew

Who is the winner?

And I would like to say that I love you all

Thanks for your attention, for your comments and your love

Thank you guys ❤️‍🔥

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Perfectly matching and replicating colors just by seeing them is an art, and, while it's also a very useful task, people who can do this are primarily artists.
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fish-fido

Wow.

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cuprohastes

Yeah but no but yeah -- Look he didn't just colour match it, he also added in the turbulence medium, the clearcoat and the correct metallic flecks... for a paint that will dry a lighter shade than when it goes on.

That's like being served an entire thanksgiving meal made my one person in 45 minutes and then saying "Oh they made me a snack": It is radically underselling what this person can do.

That is ligit magic that man did. I am an artist and I can't even color match that well. He is amazing.

Source: twitter.com
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How many asexual/aromantic people do you reckon still think they “haven’t found the right person yet”

How many do you think thought that in all of human history

How many do you think forced themselves into relationships and whole marriages by thinking “this is how it’s supposed to go right? this is how I’m supposed to behave and this is how it’s supposed to feel? this is what I’m feeling right?”

and how many do you think wound up just thinking there was something wrong with them and wound up fucking miserable their whole lives

I hope there were some that didn’t. Some that found kinships of other types, maybe of others who felt the same way. Maybe just friends and family.

I know we’ve always been here. I know we’ve survived. It’s disheartening that we’ll never quite realize how many, but I hope cataloguing ourselves now will help others in the future not feel so alone.

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