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comfort of the darkness

@reddier2 / reddier2.tumblr.com

The inner ramblings of an ordinary in the life that has presented itself.
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Fandom Etiquette

I’ve been around for a really long time in various fandoms, and no one ever writes this stuff down. I’ll start. Please add to the list. We can’t expect people to follow “rules” they don’t know exist. 

written with the help of @unbreakablejemmasimmons

Fanart

  • if you like something, reblog it. Help the artist get their work out there in front of more people. Share the joy that it brought you. 
  • if you want more of it, support it. This can be via commissions, reblogs, recommending the artist to other people, shouting in the tags, or sending the artist asks/messages. 
  • if you hate it, keep scrolling. Keep the hate in a message window with a friend, not in the artist’s notes. 
  • if you want to use it, ask permission. Artwork is beautiful and you want to show it off. But please ask the artist before you throw it into your header or your icon. 
  • if you use it, give credit. And not just a post where you say “Do you like my new icon? X made it!”. Put it in your blog description, that way when someone rolls around your blog three months from now, they also know where your icon/header came from. 

Fanfic

  • if you like something, reblog it. Help the author get their work out there in front of more people. Share the joy that it brought you.
  • if you want more of it, support it. Kudos are fine, but if you want more of the thing you like, you should comment. Subscribe to the story or the author. Send them a message about how much you like what they wrote. 
  • if you read it, kudos it. Or give it a thumbs up. And this is just if you managed to get all the way to the end. If you finished the story and you actually liked it? Comment and reblog. 
  • don’t demand content. Be patient. Stories take time. You can encourage without being demanding. Show your love for what’s there without telling them to post more often. 
  • be gentle with criticism. Some people want it and some people run away from it. If you don’t know what type of person the author is, it’s best not to go there. “If you can’t say something nice, don’t say anything.”

Fandom

  • ship and let ship. You love your ship and other people love theirs. No one needs to “win” when we’re all going to end up in tears anyway. 
  • if you hate it, stay out of the tag. This has two meanings: 1) don’t deliberately put hateful commentary in a tag and 2) if you  hate a tag, don’t go and read through that tag just to make yourself angry
  • if someone makes you something, appreciate it. Read and comment the fic. Like and reblog the artwork. Pimp it out and tell them how much you loved it. It’s a gift, treat it like one. 
  • if it’s a gift, put some effort into it. You signed up for that exchange three months ago and now it’s a week before you have to send the gift and you don’t have the time or the inclination to do the thing. Well too bad. Someone out there has been working hard in your gift, so you should do the same for them. 
  • none of us are “better” than anyone else. We’re all trash for our particular show/film/book/ship/artist/what-have-you. My fave is no better than yours and yours is no better than mine. 
  • actors are not their characters. They are people. Treat them like people. 
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reddier2

Love this!!!

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From now on if anyone asks me why I am randomly sad…instead of saying “I don’t know” or something I’m going to look them dead straight in the eyes and say “I’ve been assigned to mourn the death of a stranger” and just walk away

What a lovely thought.

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reddier2

I think I agree with this

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reblogged

I made a shitty powerpoint u guys

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lynsunrise

I am seriously lacking in words to express HOW TRULY BRILLIANT 😀 this is!!!! 🤣🤣🤣❤️👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻Oh my God 😂😆😆😆

You should work for a promotional company 👍🏻💝💝

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rosecrystal

its true that crying wont solve things but we dont cry to solve. we cry to release

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aphony-cree

Taking the lid off a pot that’s boiling too much wont solve the problem of the heat being too high, but it will release the pressure so you’ll have time to get the heat under control before everything inside the pot explodes 

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reblogged

You know what sucks?

Having hours long panic attacks that don’t let up even after you take an extra dose of anti anxiety meds.

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Yeah, definitely not fine, even now, hours later. I feel the exhaustion and the post-anxiety headache blowing up my brain and a heavy dose of nausea just for the hell of it.

So, what happened? Well, apparently taking Lexapro, Adderall, and Wellbutrin at the same time can trigger some of the most epic anxiety a person can experience. I actually had to call my psychiatrist’s office because I was seriously having a hard time breathing. Wellbutrin has been taken off the med schedule until after Wednesday, when my psychiatrist is in the office and I talk to her about it. But I am drained.

I’ve spent the last two hours laying in bed with Mocha pretty much on top of me trying to calm the fuck down even more because I’m still not there yet. My stomach is rolling. The entire drive home, I felt like I was gonna puke. I still do. It’s not as bad but I’m still feeling the bile rise in my throat. This sucks ass.

I’ve taken my nightly dose of anti anxiety meds and other pills so hopefully I can clock out until my alarm goes off tomorrow morning. We’ll see. If not, I’ll be here, reading fanfic.

Ugh. I wish I wasn’t so broken.

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kurokoros
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You know, this is why content creators end up abandoning their works, right?

80 likes compared to 10 reblogs means that only 12% of people decided that what you did is worth showing other people.

If you like the thing, reblog it. You don’t even have to add tags, just spread it so that a) other people can see it, and b) the creator gets recognition for what they did.

Obviously, those numbers are never going to match, but the divide should not be that huge.

It’s even more important right now, because tumblr is garbage and they’ve stopped allowing anything with an outside link from appearing in tags. Writers/artists cannot tag things to their twitter/store/writing website. That can cause a significant drop in views, especially for newer creators.

Like… we aren’t asking for much. A few reblogs. Reviews/comments. No creator should have to beg for that much.

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kayjaykayme

Support artists and writers and reblog!

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