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ViralDragonRider

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Currently Ill...bare with
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I had a professor in college who used to start solving every problem with the same dialogue.

Proff: What’s the first step to solving any problem? Class: Don’t panic. Proff: And why is that? Class: Because we know more than we think we do.

I think about that a lot tbh. It didn’t occur to me until much later that he meant for us to apply that dialogue outside of the classroom to any problem. Because we always know more than we think we do. We are all an amalgam of random information that ends up being relevant with surprising frequency.

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So I upgraded my car, I did have a 17 plated 4x4 that was quite expensive to run and I didn't really need a car that big so as I had some money put aside I bought a new 24 plated hybrid. It's so much cheaper to fill with fuel, etc. apart from the fact that in the last 2 weeks I have had to spend out nearly £500 on new tyres because of the potholes on my route to work 😭😭

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Things friends can't do according to allos!

(these are all things I have been told with 100% sincerity, and not stuff that I myself believe.)

  • Give each other meaningful gifts
  • Pay attention to the others likes and dislikes
  • Look at one another in a 'certain way' (???)
  • Match clothes or accessories
  • Hold hands for 'too long' (???)
  • Hug for 'too long' or hug 'too close' (???)
  • Cuddle because it's 'too intimate'
  • Not want to pull away during a hug or holding hands
  • Lean onto the other emotionally and physically
  • Smile in one another's presence
  • Laugh at each others jokes
  • Give genuine advice
  • Text each other 'good morning' 'good evening' 'good night' 'happy birthday' 'happy new years' 'merry Christmas' etc, etc
  • Ask how the others doing

I'll add more once I think of things I've forgotten

The romantic monopoly on affection is so horrifying. No wonder so many people end up completely dependent on their partners. Eternally grateful I managed to avoid this type of thinking.

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It's the assumption that I don't want any kind of romance that really gets me.

I would LOVE nothing more than all the cutesy cuddly bits of a relationship but couldn't care less about the sex.

I read a lot of smut so I'm not totally opposed to it but at the same time I know I could go through life quite happily if I never lost my virginity.

For this reason I think I am Demisexual, I think I would be more open to a sexual relationship with someone I had an emotional connection with. But I suppose there's no way of testing that theory until I actually have that emotional connection with someone 😅

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How to hack your happy hormones??

DOPAMINE (The Reward Chemical)

• Eating Food

• Achieving a Goal

• Complete a Task

• Self-Care Activities

OXYTOCIN (The Love Hormone)

• Socializing

• Physical Touch

• Petting Animals

• Helping Others

ENDORPHINS (The Painkiller)

• Exercising

• Listen to Music

• Watch a Movie

• Laughter

SEROTONIN (The Mood Stabilizers)

• Sun Exposure

• Be with Nature

• Mindfulness

• Meditation

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