WANT vs. NEED IN RELATIONSHIPS

ARIES

What you want: Someone to show off. Someone who makes you feel passionate and excited all the time. A hot body, a nice face. Someone with smooth moves.

What you need: Someone patient and forgiving. Someone intelligent and witty. Someone you won’t get bored of. Someone who won’t run away when things get rough.

TAURUS

What you want: A fixer-upper. Nicholas Sparks-type scenes. Lots of gifts. Undying attention. Someone who will agree with you and make you feel desirable and attractive.

What you need: Someone who shares your views. Someone who respects you. A healthy amount of attention and material gifts. Someone who knows they’re good enough for you. Someone who knows you’re good enough for them.

GEMINI

What you want: A genius. A comedian. A hot mess. In other words, your twin flame.

What you need: Wisdom to balance out knowledge. Someone with impulse control. Someone forgiving and understanding. Ears willing to listen… for a while.

CANCER

What you want: A romance-novel character. Lots of hugs, gifts, and reassurance. Someone who won’t hurt your feelings. Someone who knows exactly what you’re thinking and what you want.

What you need: Someone to help you lighten up a little. Honesty. Security. Someone extraordinarily patient. Loyalty. 

LEO

What you want: Someone to show off to your friends. Someone to make you more popular. Attention out the wazoo. An admirer, your biggest fan. Undying support in everything you do.

What you need: Someone wise and understanding. Someone you respect, and who respects you. Someone to be straight with you. Loyalty. Forgiveness. Someone who knows the value in the little gestures.

VIRGO

What you want: Someone self-sustainable. Intelligence and common sense. Someone who can give you space. Someone who will listen to you and accept your criticism.

What you need: Someone to light up your life. Someone you never get bored of. A bit of a mystery. Someone who knows who they are. Someone who appreciates all that you do.

LIBRA

What you want: Someone to be romantic with. That cute couple aesthetic. Attention. A pretty face and a brilliant mind.

What you need: A best friend. A mediator. Someone who won’t take advantage of you. Someone you can really talk to. 

SCORPIO

What you want: Someone who adores you. Submission. Omnipresence in their life. Complete devotion. Control. Passion.

What you need: A mystery. Respect. A healthy amount of push-back. Someone you know you can trust. Someone you know will not hurt you. Undying loyalty. Honesty.

SAGITTARIUS

What you want: A travel buddy. A daredevil. Someone spunky and free. Someone “exotic”, mysterious, foreign. Someone who isn’t interested in textbook romance. 

What you need: Someone who gets you. Someone with common sense. Someone who can forgive your little flubs. Independence. Consistency. Someone you could travel around the world with and not hate them afterwards.

CAPRICORN

What you want: Perfection. Loyalty. A mystery. A romance that doesn’t get in the way of work. Someone like-minded and intelligent.

What you need: Someone to help you see the best side of things. Imagination and youth. Loyalty and respect. Someone who’s okay with being dominated, but not a pushover.

AQUARIUS

What you want: A mad scientist. A genius. A poet. Someone to share your interests with. A best friend. Freedom.

What you need: Independence. Trust. Consistent communication. A best friend. A kind of intelligence you don’t have.

PISCES

What you want: A fairy-tale romance. A tortured artist. Someone you want to “fix”, someone you view as “the underdog”. Someone who’s sensitive, artistic, and poetic. Someone who dazzles you.

What you need: Stability. Honesty. Patience. Someone who won’t walk all over you. Someone who doesn’t need you to fix them. Someone who will always wait for you to come back.

the sign’s literary archetypes

In literature, an archetype refers to a universal theme represented by a character, situation, or symbol. Carl Jung, a Swiss psychologist, argued that the root of archetypes is the “collective conscious” of mankind that exists in every individual.

Aries: The Warrior

The Warrior sets goals and achieves them, and lets nothing stand in their way. They are courageous, determined, and skilled. The Warrior tends to see everyone as an enemy and can have a rather black-and-white worldview. They fear being seen as, or being, weak or wrong.

Taurus: The Ruler

The Ruler’s ultimate goal is order. They greatly fear chaos, and they will commit themselves fully to creating an orderly, sustainable world for themselves. They can be very controlling and set into their ways.

Gemini: The Jester

The Jester’s ultimate goal is to show everyone that even the most dire of situations can be turned into something fun. They seek to make light of a dark world, enjoying life in spite of its trials. They fear not being “alive” and becoming emotionally numb. They can be lazy and insensitive.

Cancer: The Innocent

The Innocent is the “spontaneous, trusting child that, while a bit dependent, has the optimism to take the journey”. Their ultimate goal is safety; they fear abandonment. While their faith and optimism may carry them through, their downfall will be their denial of their own faults and their dependence upon others.

Leo: The Seeker

The Seeker is on their way to discover a new path. They are looking for something to improve their life in some way, but are often unaware that what they’re looking for is already inside of them. They fear conformity, and are often perfectionists and prone to being self-centered. 

Virgo: The Caregiver

The Caregiver is driven by compassion, generosity, and a need to help others. The Caregiver is a teacher and a nurturer, especially to children. Their willingness to put other’s needs before their own often leads to their own harm; because of this they can be prone to martyrdom and codependency. They both despise and fear selfishness.

Libra: The Lover

The Lover governs all types of love; familial, romantic, spiritual. The Lover seeks harmony and bliss in their interactions with others. They are peacemakers and people-pleasers. They fear being alone and losing those they love. They can be exploitative, manipulative, and in some cases, overly sexual. 

Scorpio: The Magician

The Magician seeks to transform. They delve into scientific or metaphysical endeavors to discover how to change situations, people, and themselves. They are extremely powerful, and as a result greatly fear their own power. They are manipulative and can get drunk on their own power. They have a gift for healing, if used righteously. 

Sagittarius: The Sage

A Sage’s ultimate goal is the truth that will set them free. They aspire to gain knowledge, intellectual and spiritual, that will help them transcend into another realm of knowing. They tend to doubt themselves; they fear that everything they know is actually an enormous lie. They can pretentious and unemotional.

Capricorn: The Destroyer

Although destructive and often portrayed negatively, The Destroyer’s endeavors clear the way for better things to come. The Destroyer is enraged at outdated, unethical structures even when they are supported by the majority. They are a paradox, their urge to destroy conflicting yet driven by their inner fear of dying. Their ultimate goal is to let go of their maddening anger and embrace their humble, revolutionary side. 

Aquarius: The Creator

The Creator controls all creative and imaginative endeavors. They bring innovation, sometimes at the expense of those who get in their way. The Creator fears that nothing is real, and seeks to prove their fantasies. Their ultimate quest is to discover their identity and accept themselves for who they are.

Pisces: The Orphan

The Orphan is unpretentious and empathetic; they understand that everyone matters and should have a voice. They are a character that expects little from life, but tries to give others everything they have to offer. They are often traumatized by their past and seeks safety, physical and metaphorical. They fear being used and hurt, and therefore often develop a victim complex. Their goal is to make peace with themselves by finding the safety they crave

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the signs as this Twitter story

Zola: Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn Jess: Libra, Aquarius Jarrett: Cancer, Sagittarius, Pisces Z: Scorpio, Leo Z’s fiancé: Aries Dreadhead: Gemini

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i told my granddad this post has 3,500 notes and he said ‘who are they? do i know them?’ he wanted me to list everyone and see if he knew anyone

If you don’t reblog cauliflower granddad, then you’re just a mean person.

is cauliflower granddad a virgo.. i rly hope he’s a virgo

no cauliflower grandad is innocent and pure…He’s a cancer!!! outta here with that virgo bs

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What the signs crave

Aries: Captivation. Someone who not only captures but holds their flickering flames of interest, someone they can’t look away from if they tried, who melts their hearts with slow burning lava. 

Taurus: Fluidity. In the midst of their sturdy calm, someone who will surprise them and move them, who pushes them to their limits, who is exasperating and irresistible. 

Gemini: Adoration. Someone who loves the quickness of their minds, who thinks they are the world’s most beautiful puzzle, who touches them like they are a map they will never quite completely understand. 

Cancer: Security. In the depth and curves of Cancer’s love, they crave someone who is unwavering, who will forever hold their hand. 

Leo: Passion. Someone whose heart burns as brightly as theirs does, someone whose fierce spirit matches their own, whose kisses are intertwining flames. 

Virgo: Understanding. Someone who studies them carefully, who knows that they try their hardest, who loves their quirks and reads their bodies, who makes them feel like their every movement is a blessing. 

Libra: Determination. Fearful Libras with fleeting hearts crave someone who will go to the ends of the Earth for them, someone who proves with every smile that they hold unconditional love. 

Scorpio: Acceptance. Someone who knows their darkest shadows and brightest lights and loves it all, who never lets them forget that love. 

Sagittarius: Freedom. The spirit of Sagittarius is untamed, and never will be; they crave someone who will travel the world with them, who looks at them like they are the universe but will always set them free. 

Capricorn: Romance. The misunderstood, intricate heart of Capricorn craves boldness and sweetness, romance and adoration that overwhelms them, makes them feel like they have the world in their hands. 

Aquarius: Excitement. Someone who startles them, who takes their hand and leads them to new worlds, who makes them laugh harder than they ever have, whose mind is filled with things they never knew existed. 

Pisces: Fascination. Someone who delves into their worlds, who explores them and listens to their soft spoken stories at 3 AM, who theorizes and hypothesizes with them, who never tires of hearing them speak.

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