— Douglas Coupland, Shampoo Planet (via amargedom)

a gentle reminder

Twitter hits too close to home

anyways good night i’m gonna go indulge in my unrealistic romantic fantasies until i fall asleep

singing both parts of “Promiscuous” by Nelly Furtado 

“wyd after work”

sleeping for work tomorrow

u don’t want a lover u want a reason

so ummm when is it My turn to receive love and affection

you’re allowed to get up one day and just decide to change who you are. dress differently, speak up more, laugh out loud even though you’ve never liked your laugh, say what you want to, say hey to people you wouldn’t normally, get that confidence going. we don’t have to stay the way people see us out of the fear that they won’t like the us we want to be.

there’s so much joy in living a private life. looking really pretty and not posting it, going to a new city and not telling anyone, getting a fancy dinner by yourself dressed up.... like it just feels like life.. i feel alive and less preformative

girls learn to watch themselves in third person so they can constantly fix their laugh and smile and hair and dancing and speech in hopes they can transform into a different person that someone will love and girls fear that if anyone sees them in their most candid self then they will be deemed unlovable and I’m so exhausted from practicing my smile in the mirror but girls also know that the ability to be loved is synonymous with their worth

Chimtae_D