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My Legs Can Barely Hold All My Heart & Soul...

@heartfucksmouth / heartfucksmouth.tumblr.com

I don't belong here or anywhere // I tag for triggers, send me an ask if you need a specific one.
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🌌 INFO🌌

My avatar is me.

They/She

30s and based in New England (US). Happily taken, and learning to become the best parent I can be, as of June 9th 2023.

I've had this tumblr name since Feb 5th 2010.

Though I'm extremely compassionate and listen with an open heart to people of various beliefs and ideologies, I sit pretty "left" in my own and I do retain my right to say: fuck exclusion and oppression :) we are inclusive and intersectional on this blog. I utilize the block button freely when people are hateful and ignorant.

I'm disabled and neurodivergent and I won't apologize for taking up space or waste my energy with most petty arguments. You'll have to ask my doctor for my diagnoses, those are private unless I know you or I share of my own volition. Boundaries are cool asf.

I live for my dog, Zaiyah, and gardening (indoor + outdoor). I am very connected to the earth, and I am also connected with death. I have experienced a life of grief, loss, tragedy, and chaos and I am mastering my control over all of it.

I embrace being a multi-faceted human, so you will find a variety of posts here ranging from personal riffs to shitposting to education to pure aesthetics.

I've always been told I'm intimidating, but I'm really just reserved and slightly un-trusting at first. I'm an ooey-gooey warm and mushy hype-friend once you grab a spot on my radar. Literally, just say hi. I'm bad at starting conversations but I love to have them!

Leo Sun 7th house stellium/Capricorn Moon and rising - astrology posts are tagged as such!

Enjoy your stay 💫

#about the blog#about the blog owner#pinned post#about me#long post
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boyjinx

We need shittable cities (actively maintained public restrooms).

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scientia-rex

A city without well-maintained restrooms is a city where many of the chronically ill cannot leave their homes, and where the homeless are criminalized for bodily functions. If I had a nickel for every day I haven’t gone somewhere with friends because I didn’t know the bathroom situation, I’d have enough to put in a sock and beat a couple of billionaires to death.

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gwydionmisha

I literally can't visit Seattle anymore for this reason. I am glad I didn't move there.

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aspiringwarriorlibrarian

American Restroom Association does a lot of good advocacy for things like this, and Project for Sanitation Justice maps out public toilets in the San Diego area. This article has a few more suggestions for places to start.

And for the people who seem convinced that leaving bathrooms open 24/7 is dangerous, you know what else is dangerous? Cholera.

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teenslib

Other people who need public restrooms:

  • Rideshare, taxi, and private drivers
  • Delivery drivers
  • Postal carriers
  • Children
  • Tourists
  • Anyone who likes to just walk around on a nice day
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xenosagaepisodeone

the emphasis on mental health services above things like reliable access to food and housing as a means to curve chronic homelessness is an attempt to sidestep the core issue by hoping that people facing the constant violence of being unhoused can simply bootstrap their way into better circumstances (or at least being less evidently homeless in public), but what's especially jokerfying is when you see exactly how even people who do it "right" are being set up to fail. housed people who work shitty minimum wage jobs get depressed. housed people spend their off time doing recreational drugs as a way to unwind after a long day. housed people who work full time can still barely make rent. what lies at the end of getting clean is a pressure cooker of forces cornering people back into poverty, mental illness and addiction. it's affirming in a way to know that no matter how many institutions wax about compassion and concern, "gaslight yourself into thinking everything is fine" is still the advice that everyone gets from the top down.

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zegalba
Sigalit Landau created this art piece by submerging a traditional 19th-century black wedding dress into the Dead Sea which became gradually crystallized over the span of two months (2014).
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I know this is obvious but being a patent is really fucking hard. like,harder than it ever has been! and being chronically ill on top of it.... my support system is either OTHER chronically ill people or parents who are also struggling to stay afloat and never have time to use their phone to communicate either.

how. how do we fix this?! I'm not even good at having friends...

I didn't even think I'd be alive at this age. being alive, and a parent, and sick and nd and like just surviving what I've survived? I'm a great mom bc of who I am and then im also triggered/overloaded/meltdown bc of who I am lol

ughhh brain isn't braining good ever anymore and I need to wake up in like 6 hours. I hope I can nap tomorrow. I hope things get easier. my body isn't enjoying this phase of not-crawling but wanting to walk everywhere ASSISTED BY MOMMY ONLY. MOMMY IS GOD.

like thanks, tiny human. im the center of your universe and that blows my mind, but also you're beating the crap out of me and my back is going to crumble to dust.

(I'm just venting, he's amazing and yes every day is difficult right now but EVERYTHING IS TEMPORARY is what's getting me through the day)

also I miss art and plants and sleeping and having bodily autonomy lmao

#personal#losing my mind haha
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