Seeing it seems I need to say this:
Aces and Aros are lgbt+ (yes even the het ones)
You don't need dysphoria or euphoria to be trans. All you need is to not identify with the gender you were assigned at birth.
Xenogenders and neurogenders are real
Neo pronouns are good
Pan people are not bi or transphobic just by being pan.
Bi people aren't secretly straight or morally bad because they're bi.
While it is okay to not use the label for yourself Queer is not a slur.
She/Her gays and He/Him lesbians are valid
Pronouns have no gender
No one owes you their full identity (gender, sexuality etc), if they want to say they're queer/lgbtqia and leave it at that that's fine.