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per aspera ad astra.
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festerfaster

Goo Seo-ryung is being wasted in this drama. WASTED. They turned the most powerful woman in the land into a bitchy, jealous second lead and I take 4 mins to go over why this is dumb. /festerfaster

OP, I think you’ve very neatly laid out exactly why this character is just so great and also so frustrating to watch in the show.

I don’t know much about the kdrama world, and haven’t really watched other KES dramas, but she’s been described to me as a “fauxminist” before, by someone whose opinions I trust, and who does watch a lot of kdramas! But I have no real idea of her body of work to judge that for myself, so take what comes next with a pinch of salt. 

I do feel though KES *must * be at least somewhat familiar with the struggles that Koo Seo-Ryeong faces in the show- her fight to be taken seriously, her having to perform femininity while also be vilified for it, basically being an ambitious working girl in the modern economy- and has probably more thoughts on it than is evident from Koo Seo-Ryeong’s trajectory so far on the show. 

Anyway, initially my feeling at watching this show and this character was to ascribe the hatchet job they’ve done on her to sexism/ internalized misogyny, whatever you want to call it. Yet, now, after episode 12, I feel like the sexism that we see is more a result of lazy writing that has taken refuge in the easiest and most tired of sexist tropes: the inherent “evil” of ambition in women. I mean, of course, misogyny IS also always lazy writing, because frankly, it means you’ve failed at what’s fundamental to good writing- putting yourself in someone else’s shoes- but here I just mean that they literally didn’t think through the character when they created her and then had to rely on the easiest way out of the conundrum she represents to the fundamental philosophy/ nature of their show. 

Simply put: I think Koo Seo-Ryeong, just by being who she is in terms of her identity both as a woman, and as someone with a working class background who’s risen up through the ranks-  just belongs in another kind of show- a political drama or some kind of actual revolutionary narrative- than in a story about a literal prince/hero who’s the ‘once and future king’. Not only is this show basically about Lee Gon, but it was probably also written as some kind of a “comeback” vehicle for LMH? (Guesswork on my part! i think i read that he’s in a show after a long time?)

In other words, this show is literally written around the idea of the inherent goodness of the powerful upper class heterosexual male (a fantasy if ever there was one, but also, like, a familiar fantasy!) 

The problem they have with Koo Seo-Ryeong seems to be that once they introduce a character like hers; she can have no place except as an antagonist, because that’s where her own identity places her, and then there’s literally no way to actually give her any real power in the narrative without bringing down the entire damn fantasy around your ears. If you had Koo Seo-Ryeong standing there in her high heels and shooting knives out of her eyes with the character motivation of “I hate the institution of monarchy and I want to bring a democratic revolution to my country and I will do what I need to achieve that”- and thereby also force you to question the entire premise of the show- wow, that bit where Lee Gon literally puts his own subjects in mortal danger (ep 10) or goes on a killing spree in episode 12 for no other reason than just to be a Dramatic Bitch ™ begins to read a lot differently, right?

So then, they have to shoe-horn her into “evil bitch”, and do it by relying on the sexist tropes I mentioned above; they have to dress up her ambition as being REALLY about the man than the idea of him, or what he actually represents. 

And yet, somehow, they slip up SO often, that it’s actually kind of hilarious! Even that one line about her wondering why Lee Gon doesn’t smile at her, becomes a sort of a problem-solving exercise, rather than any indication of how she feels about him. Because it’s made clear over and over again that she really doesn’t like him. It’s textually acknowledged by herself and other characters ( eg Lady Noh doesn’t like her because she knows that Seo-Ryeong doesn’t care for Lee Gon, the person), but because this show is what it is, they can never actually explain that dislike. The show plays it off as “hell hath no fury like a woman scorned”, but the venom with which she says “Let’s see how honest you are” in ep 11 (or 12?) after she finds out about Lee Lim, hints at something else entirely. To pull at that thread would mean unraveling the construct of Lee Gon, and that is what the show can’t afford to do. 

So we’re stuck with this character who’s basically badly stitched into a narrative where she doesn’t belong and the result is that some of us are tearing at our hair while also going, Madam Prime Minister please sit on my face. 

The torture is REAL. 

Uh, op, I might have hijacked your post a bit? Sorry? 

 I enjoyed your video and hope you make more! :) 

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kadywicker

it's really sad when u see cis mutuals slowly start falling into t*rf circles/rhetoric like rip yall really make it so hard to trust cis ppl on this website. christ.

like. it's not enough to just have "cis" and ur pronouns in ur bio and rb some performative posts like "I hope all trans women/trans boys uwu are having a great day ur all wonderful sparkle sunshine rainbows!!!!" when you proceed to reblog from t//rfs constantly and post in r//dfem tags as long as it's ~not about trans people~. it's not enough if you post shit like "idk I agree with so much of their stuff just not the trans thing I wish we could have a discussion about it like adults instead of just being mean to those uwu poor t//rfs" which isn't your place, as a cis person, to have those discussions at all when we're the ones that get caught in the crossfire

like you obviously agree with them and follow their circles and you can claim all you want that it's not about trans people but the fact is you see them posting about how much they hate us and how gross we are and how predatory trans women are and see them misgendering us and being cruel and THATS not enough to unfollow them or write them off for you.

you don't get to keep your "woke ally" clout points and follow them. you don't get to have your cake and eat it too. fuck off. seriously. you're just as bad as they are and no amount of performative bullshit is gonna cover that up. do us a favor and go the full mile so we know to avoid you instead of having to see that shit on our dash from people we trusted.

(cis ppl encouraged to rb but Not a Goddamn Word lol. and if t//rfs get a hold of this just know I don't engage w yall since all you want is a fight so ur just gonna get blocked ♥️)

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Therese Patricia Okoumou. Patriot.

UPDATE December 6,2018 @odinsblog

It is a very rare thing for me to disagree so hard with a progressive Black woman, but Therese Patricia Okoumou IS a hero. And she certainly did not let anyone down. Fighting for young children who were being caged and separated from their parents is never ever the wrong thing to do. What she did—resisting Trump and publicly speaking truth to power—required great courage. Okoumou is a hero and an activist. A social justice warrior in the truest sense of the word.

After repeatedly reaching out to the mainstream media and asking them to continue covering her story, she is being ignored by them now. But remember: they were happy to use her when she was the hot story and good for ratings. Now they apparently cannot be bothered to interview her, or call out the injustice of her impending imprisonment. (#WhiteFeminism)

If anyone knows of any lawyer or anyone who might be able to help Therese Patricia Okoumou with her appeals process, please reach out to her on her Twitter account.

You did good Patricia

Imma set this on top again.

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ICE ABDUCTION HELP US BRING HIM HOME!

Hi y’all, a friend of mine had been abducted by ICE (without even a warrant issued for his arrest) on his way home and has been held in a concentration camp for 10 days.

We are trying raise money for legal aid as well as awareness.

If you can, please donate and if you can’t, please pass this along.

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Benjamin Alire Sáenz, Aristotle and Dante Discover the Secrets of the Universe
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The Song of Achilles, Madeline Miller // Tipping the Velvet, Sarah Waters // Aristotle and Dante Disover the Secrets of the Universe, Benjamin Alire Sáenz
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wassup i’m yah yah, i write horror, i’m black n lesbian and cute and i have no money! help me … please? money for my small but influencial internet presence? 

paypal.me/marsinaries

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Reminder that these abortion bans also impact many trans men, and nonbinary and intersex people. 

Saying #AbortionIsAWomansRight or “this only impacts women” is causing us a lot of harm. Not only is it incredibly dehumanising to have who we are constantly erased but it also creates an added stigma that can make it even harder for us to get the healthcare we need. 

This isn’t us “making this all about us” or “derailing the conversation” - it’s already about us, because we have uteruses. We’re not erasing women because women are people too. We’re not asking you to make some kind of special exception, we’re asking you to acknowledge that this is our fight too. Because it is. 

Say #AbortionIsAHumanRight not a woman’s right.

Say reproductive rights not women’s rights. 

If you care about abortion access then you need to care about us too.

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so i just really want to ask this question, if you have a classics degree what are your future job prospects? and people who hold classics degrees, what is your current job?

i just want to know what i could be getting into as someone from a middle-class, non-white, background getting into a field of (predominantly) white men with trust funds.

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salamoonder

psa @ new good omens fans I’m BEGGING you

before you send neil a question please ask yourself:

  • can i find this out with a quick google search?
  • can i find this out by asking an older fan?
  • can i find this out by reading the book OR by asking someone who has read it?
  • is this a headcanon that i just really really  want to be canon or am i legitimately asking if something i noticed was intentionally done?
  • is it really a good idea to ask neil about [insert kinky/sexy/smutty thing here]?

thank you for your time 

p.s. please also ask yourselves “should i tag neil in this post where op has specifically asked not to have him tagged/where there’s an explicit sexual discussion going on/where he literally asked not to be tagged?”

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neil-gaiman

Reblogging because sooner or later I will write FAQs, and this is a wonderful place to start when I do.

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dang y’all, you really gotta be careful navigating some of the subculture spaces on this site. cottagecore/farmcore has little rabbit holes of white supremacy & terfs and offshoots of things like “tradfem” that seems totally innocuous but when you take a second look it’s mind blowing how insidious it can be. just gotta tread carefully

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shymagnolia

so I got into grad school today with my shitty 2.8 gpa and the moral of the story is reblog those good luck posts for the love of god

okay so i just got my dream job??? a week after applying to it?? and now i’m thinking….maybe this is the good luck post

…..not even six hours later i got an offer of a well paying full time long-term job with free room and board in queens in nyc, allowing me independence and a way to escape an abusive situation and an unhealthy environment

likes charge reblogs cast, folks, this is the good luck post

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z7rkive

BAND AU (“DH AU”)

Band name: DH

Fandom: The Hallows

Members (youngest-oldest):

Cedric - a little shit, CHAOTIC, youngest, needy and always wants to spend time with Harry. May or may not run a DH fanacc

Cedric Stans are called Satans

Harry - best boy, best leader, babies way too fucking much, all the members cherish him deeply, usually found seated on Tom’s lap

Harry Stans are called Seven Nation

Draco - SO GAY. Has all the knowledge abt gay sex, usually makes passes at Harry. All abt fan service/keeping his Stans happy

Draco stans are called Ferrets

Tom - Harry this, Harry that; gets along with Severus the most bc he’s the most chill. Usually goes to Cedrics room to steal Harry from him. Always touching Harry’s thighs during interviews

Tom stans are called KOWS (knights of walpurgis, abbreviated by Cedric). Lmao

Severus - Dad of the group, usually takes over when Harry’s busy. Spends most of his time in his studio and spending time with Harry. Usually gets away with being w Harry more bc he’s subtle

Severus Stans are called Robins.

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Yeeeeee there was no band au so I had to make one myself 😤😤😤. I, myself am a SEVEN NATION KOW 🤩🤩🤩. You???

[B O N U S]

this is so hilarious and amazing and i love it so much thank you to the creators of this amazing thing in my life

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Half of being trans is being hypervigilant against transphobes. Like, I spent 15 minutes scrolling down on a blog that I would be super interested in just to make sure that it wasn’t going to start reblogging stuff from my favorite transmisogynists. Turns out that my hypervigilance was right again.

Things to look for:

  • References to “vagina envy.” This is what initially got me scrolling. This alone isn’t a sure indicator.
  • Andrea Dworkin quotes without criticism
  • Reblogging from troll accounts like confirmed-/-terf

Most cis wlw on Tumblr are, in fact, supportive of trans people. Most cis wlw who mention “hating men” are not using this as an attack on trans women. However, because of my experience with the small, insular, and vitriolic trans-exclusionary feminists on Tumblr, I have learned to be hypervigilant and it Really Fucking Sucks and Really Fucking Hurts when I am right.

I am a lesbian. This kind of blog would have been My Shit. But I’ve been taught to distrust the very women I connect with the most. I’ve been taught to feel afraid in my own home.

Being a transgender lesbian is constantly walking on eggshells to not prove them right. And their standards are ever changing so it’s inevitable that you’ll prove them right. Righteous anger will be taken as “male propensity towards violence,” which closely mirrors the way men see outspoken women as “shrill.” If we do anything to fight back outside of debate within their terms, we are immediately casted as “violent men.” They will not be satisfied until we shut up, lie down, and die.

Cis wlw can and should reblog this. Help me remember my allies.

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zuspacey

It’s like The Good Omens au but with occupational twist 

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Stop guilt tripping people into reblogging your posts. No one has to reblog it; they’re not a bad person for choosing to reblog your aesthetic posts over your other posts that have to do with war and tragedy. Many of us are on tumblr to get away from seeing that stuff everywhere; many of us get anxiety attacks when we see it. It takes a toll on your mental health. Maybe they don’t reblog it on here, but they share it and talk about it outside of tumblr. Maybe tumblr is their happy place.

You don’t know the reason why someone doesn’t want to reblog something like that.

To my followers: you don’t ever have to reblog a post. Period. No matter how manipulative it may seem, you are never obligated to reblog it.

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