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Hedgewitch Bri

@hedgewitchbri / hedgewitchbri.tumblr.com

Hedgecraft Witchblr. Energy & Spirit Work, Tea & Tarot, and Dreamwalking. She/Her. Aquarius (Sun) // Virgo (Moon).
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Chamomile-Rose Bath Salt

This can be used to help induce sleepiness and relaxation.

Ingredients & Tools

  • Dried or pressed hybrid tea rose petals (divide in to 2-3 quantities)
  • Dried chamomile
  • Epsom salt
  • White tea rose oil
  • Grinding tools (i.e. mortar and pestle)
  • Sealable bottle for storage

Directions

  1. Combine your epsom salt and dried chamomile in your mortar. Grind until they're of a mildly coarse consistency; Add small amounts of your white tea oil while your grind.
  2. Add a portion of your dried rose petals in while still grinding. Make sure to not use all of them, as you'll be using the remaining portions to layer when adding in to your bottle.
  3. Once you're finished grinding, use a spoon or funnel to layer your mixture and rose petals in to your bottle. Store in a secure and cool area.
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heart warming potato soup

- 🌿🍲🐌🍄✨

this soup.. is a cure all. break up? bad day? lazy day? rainy day? stormy day? repressed all your feelings for too long and now they’re coming to the surface far too rapidly to get a grasp on and this was all you could manage to pour yourself into as some form of healing spellwork.. day? try this soup! aha

originally when i made this i was slugging around the kitchen throwing sh*t in the pot but i think i retained enough to slap a recipe together so here goes!

[ potato soup ]

• 2 medium yukon golds (or 3 small)

• salt

• thyme

• pepper

• 1/4 sm onion

• 2-3 cloves of garlic

• butter

• flour

• 1 tbs sour cream

• handful of sharp cheddar

[ steps ]

cube up and boil your potatoes in some salted water, throw some thyme and pepper in the water too, do the toothpick/fork thing and when it’s time to strain save maybe a cup of the liquid for later, throw the potatoes back into the pot a sec to sautee up with your onion and garlic and some butter for a sec, just enough to infuse the flavour

chuck it into a food processor or blender to get it smooth with about 2 tbs of butter or substitute and however much of that reserved liquid it takes to get it just smooth enough to blend nice

now! get your butter and flour and make a little roux real quick, just adds a nice texture and flavour density to the soup but you could omit, from here stir in your potato sludge and more liquid as needed to reach your desired consistency

add a little more salt pepper and thyme, maybe some more garlic powder if it needs it, stir in a handful or so of sharp cheddar and about a tbs of sour cream; ofc you can omit or sub both of these if you’re vegan/lactose, let the soup simmer and serve up with a sprinkle of thyme and/or fresh cracked pepper :)

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Y'all do know there are other religions besides christianity, islam and judaism right. Y'all are aware ppl who practice other religions exist right

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Friendly reminder to all my fellow abuse victims:

Just because your abuser gifts you every once in a while or treats you to something nice, or just doesn’t treat you like shit for a period of time, does not erase the harm they have done. And you are NEVER, under any circumstances, in the wrong for whatever they did to you, and you NEVER have to forgive them if that is something you don’t want to do.

if you know they have hurt you, on several occasions, on PURPOSE, then you are not overreacting for wanting to leave that environment, for wanting to cut them out of your life. Whether or not they’re being nice to you in an attempt to make you stay/second-guess yourself does not matter here. What matters is YOU. And in the end YOU come first, don’t forget that.

reblogs are more than accepted. but don’t dare try to justify abuse

This is soooooo freakin important! My abuser specifically would do nice things for me (especially in front of others) as a way to “excuse” the abuse and further gaslight me whenever I tried to talk about the shit she did. It was also a way to manipulate me into keeping her in my life even after we broke up. She knew she could guilt me by holding all the nice things she did over my head.

She also tried to keep me from making friends by telling them all the nice things she did for me and how ungrateful I was, trying to make me look like the bad guy. Of course she conveniently forgot to mention the 7 years of trauma she left me with.

So please understand that there is no excuse for abuse. None. My ex paid for my school, financially supported me, gave me Moo Kitty, and showered me with many gifts, but none of that excuses the physical, emotional, and mental abuse I suffered at her hands.

As a survivor of narcissistic-sociopath abuse and now a person with PTSD, I cannot stress to you how important this is. Because of my abuser, my identity was worn down. I not only question my sanity, I frequently question my own judgment and intuition and have about every person I have met since. A lot of this is due to the cycle of abuse. They would build tension, abuse me, and then buy me flowers or cards or cuddle me with affection and tell me how much they loved/cared about me. I would often find myself forgiving my abuser when these “nice things” happened.  This is called the “honeymoon phase” and is used by any/all abusers to ensure that their victim gets a “mercy period” before they repeat the cycle of abuse. If they treat you badly all the time, you would eventually leave them. Sociopaths do not feel remorse or guilt for any abuse they inflict on you, since they lack empathy. However, they cannot let you catch onto this because they are more co-dependent on you than you are on them; they are parasites that need to feed off of you, in a sense. This is why they have the “honeymoon phase”: to pretend to show remorse. They will apologize, buy you gifts, show you affection, anything to make you think the abuse and maltreat is not intentional.

Here are some useful links for further research:

If you are uncertain if you are in a relationship with someone like this, or if you are recovering from abuse, I have a website to recommend. I was looking into PTSD (it has taken me 8 years to figure out that the sudden surges of manic-anxiety and suicidal episodes are triggered flashbacks and admit to myself that I have PTSD; that’s how much I question my judgment) and found this website.

https://psychopathfree.com/articles/ I have purchased his books. They are not written in a lot of medical jargon; they are simple English. It’s written as though someone is speaking to you, like a friend explaining what your abuser’s intentions are and more importantly how they do it. The “how” is more important than the why because the why will never bring you closure. The how gives you answers of what they did and both books help you untangle the chaos in your mind left behind from the abuser. I am still reading through these books; I only recently started. But these books are worth it for my peace of mind, and the articles and community are very helpful and supportive for people, like me, who question everything about why this happened to them, why we’re so messed up, and whether or not we can get better. Please spread this kind of information and relevant research. It is important that people out there who are struggling with abuse to know that they are 1. being abused (because it’s hard to recognize that thing when you’re IN IT) and 2. have a chance at recovering from what is happening/has happened to them.

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newrider

IT’S HALLOWEEN TIME TO GET SPOOKY

I T S T H E M I D D L E O F J U N E

I T I S H A L L O W E E N T I M E T O G E T S P O O K Y

ok who the fuck got this on my dash it’s still june

get spooky

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tshifty

how does this appear every june

ok but considering 2020 is pretty much cancelled anyway-

IT’S HALLOWEEN TIME TO GET SPOOKY

Let’s do it! June is fucked anyway!

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sometimes you need someone to be rude but in a nice way. this is what having a rival is.

nice person: ^_^ hey you’ve been asleep for a while now would you like to get up maybe? it’s ok if you don’t

me: zzzzzzzz

rival: do you plan on sleeping all day or are you going to get up so i can defeat you already

me: >:) i was just pretending to be sleepy so you’d let your guard down i’m actually very awake right now and very strong

Is it bad that I act like the rival for some of my friends because they don’t listen to me when I’m being The Mom Friend?

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lluvia185

For all of you who are confussed.

Oh

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breakaway71

As an older millennial, I bless the people who created both the meme and the timeline because, YES, THIS

Also as an older millennial, I appreciate this meme. So many people in Gen Z are getting called Millenials and I’m just like, “Uh, excuse me? Don’t group me in with this ‘Ok Boomer’ bullshit.” I’ve even been Ok Boomer’d by some smartass brats. Not all Gen Z’s are smartass brats, but i’m still appalled by the amount of disrespect they show in a lot of areas. Questioning the status quo is a good thing; being outright disrespectful towards other people is not okay, no matter what generation you’re from. I’ll probably get charred for something about this, but I don’t spend enough time on tumblr to give a fuck to be honest. I said what I have to say about this. If you can have an honest-to-gods respectful and civilized discussion (not argument) I’m open for that. I like hearing other people’s viewpoints and sometimes they’ve managed to change my mind about things. This is why I discuss things with other people. I can and will employ the dying phrase “I agree to disagree” on occasion, which is something that needs to come back, tbh. It’s okay to have different opinions, and it’s okay to change your mind or listen to others’ perspective. DISCLAIMER: A difference of opinion, to me, is “I think that looks more yellow-orange than red” or “I think conservatism > liberal”. Not racism, homophobia, fatphobic, transphobia, etc. If your opinion openly disrespects and harms another person, I don’t call that an “opinion”, that is blatant discrimination and is NOT OKAY. Otherwise, yeah, be respectful and don’t hurt/oppress/appropriate people.

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Important Message About Native American Women

These are most likely lower than they should be because these cases ARE NOT LIKELY TO BE REPORTED.

1) 85% of Native American women experience VIOLENCE in their lives.

2) Over 50% of Native American women have experienced DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.

3) 56% Native Women experience RAPE or SEXUAL HARASSMENT.

4) Native Women are murdered 10 TIMES the NATIONAL AVERAGE. That’s more than ANY minority group in the entire USA.

5) 38% of Native Women and 17% of Native Men have been UNABLE to receive SERVICES or AID from their TRIBAL GOVERNMENTS in cases of DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.

6) Native CHILDREN suffer from PTSD at the SAME RATE as ARMY SOLDIERS.

7) Native Women are 4x MORE LIKELY to be sexually assaulted than the NATIONAL AVERAGE, and Alaska Natives are at a higher 12 TIMES THE US AVERAGE.

27 known murders and missing cases of Native Women have occured in my tribe’s reservation community alone.

Natives and non-natives alike need to spread the message. We can stop this cycle by sharing this, by voting, standing up for ourselves, and for getting ourselves known.

We as a people need to get help and stand together. This is an issue that has continued for a long long time, and needs to stop. Thank you for reading my post, and please take the time to reblog if you can.

Protect our sacred women.

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Things to Consider in a Tarot Reading (Other Than Card Meanings)

It’s important to look at the meanings of tarot cards, but it’s very possible to pull even more out of a reading that individual card meanings. Here’s some other stuff you might consider bringing into your interpretation when it feels right:

🍄The position of the cards. This is why spread design can be so important! I’ve had instances where all the cards, in their positions, had the subjects looking or pointing towards one specific card. It was wild. What did it mean? Maybe nothing, but maybe something very significant, depending on the question!

🍄The visual element of the cards. Sometimes what’s depicted on the card can give more specific insight than the actual book meanings. The pictures were done that way for a reason, so don’t be afraid to give them their own weight! Also, sometimes the spread as a whole will have a flow of design (like when one half is much brighter than the other) or a specific card is WAY more colorful than the other cards on the table. Any of these could potentially carry meaning.

🍄Jumper cards. This is when a card pops out while you’re shuffling! I usually just put them back… UNLESS the question has already been presented, and I’m shuffling with that question in mind. Then, I keep them as extra advice, bonus cards.

🍄Reoccurring numbers. Maybe you do a four card spread for a friend, and you get the four of cups, four of swords, four of wands, and the Emperor! (IV.) What does that mean? What does the number four symbolize? Well, a lot of things, potentially, depending on what you study. Some tarot designs incorporate the Kabbalah’s numbered paths in the tree of life, others go with numerology. Maybe, the number four just means something special to you or the querent in particular.

🍄A bunch of cards in order. I’m not talking about when you forget to shuffle. I’m talking about when you give it a really good shuffle and you still get the ace, two, and three of Pentacles all in a row. This can be seen as a sign of progression, or that the events are all much more closely connected than anticipated. It can also mean it happens over a shorter period of time than normal. It’s up to you, your cards, and the contexts.

🍄Proportions of different features. Maybe you’re doing an obstacle spread, and your obstacle is something like the nine of swords. That’s pretty nasty, but if all the other cards in the spread are Major Arcana, then it’s probably not going to be that difficult to surmount. The reverse can also be true. Additionally, a high number of reversed cards in a spread typically signifies a lot of confusion, conflict, and turmoil.

🍄Reoccurring symbols. Beyond just the four suits, because that’s a given! But maybe your spread shows a lot of cards with images of fire, people dancing, or birds. Do these mean anything to you or the querent? What do they typically symbolize?

🍄Any hiccups or unusual events during the reading. Once I had a querent pick up a card to examine it, drop it, then pick it up and put it back reversed. Since it was the overall outcome card, I interpreted that as a heightened ability to change her own fate in this given situation, since she had turned the card from quite a bad omen to a good one. Sometimes little accidents like dropping cards, accidentally shifting them, or laying out the spread wrong are meant to be there and add to the meaning!

I hope this gives you some ideas! Feel free to add more. What do you interpret alongside the cards in a reading?

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PSA: Black kids don’t have to be mixed to be cute

OMG YEEEEEEESSSS!!!! 🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾 fucking preach yo🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾🙌🏾

notice how little notes this has because like 95% of yall don’t believe this at all

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We never forget.

The fuck are those

^ u joking right?

No? What the fuck are those things I've never seen them and I've lived in New York since I was born (2001) are they new?

I don't think these are new but these buildings are WTC (World Trace Center) and i think you know what happened on 9/11

???? No? What happened on 9/11

Terrorists flew into the buildings, in USA it's 9/11 but in Europe it's 11/9 maybe it's what confused you. But if you still don't know what I mean just read a article about September 9 2001

Fucked up if true

It is true sadly

I was in 6th grade when it happened. I had no idea until I got to school and went into my first class (Math). The TV had been pulled out and turned on. We watched the news footage of the buildings on fire, and the plane crashing into the tower. I watched that tower collapse. I realized people were in that building, real people. I cried. We took the entire class time watching it. Other classes were normal, but you could tell the mood was so tense at school. It was... Awful.

Only last semester in my sociology class, my professor told me people had jumped. I don't remember it, but he said there were several people that did. "It must have been horrible, to make the decision to jump from that high rather than burn to death or suffocate." I thought back to that day in 6th grade, and felt myself tear up. I'll never get those images out of my head, or forget the terror, shock, and sorrow I felt knowing 9/11 happened.

So, yes, 9/11 changed America in a way. The fact that I'm in school with young students who don't remember or have never heard of it... I don't know how to feel. It's important that they know it happened, I think, though in a way I'm grateful they don't have those images in their head.

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