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Carol Danvers Is Gay Don’t @Me

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Calling all Magicians fans!

In light of the Magicians season 4 finale, we have decided to give back to our community and celebrate the fandom. This will be accomplished with a content auction to raise money for The Trevor Project to help LGBTQ+ youth in crisis. We’ve posted a survey for content creators to sign up and offer auction items. We’ll also be offering raffle prizes from content creators. Please follow this page for updates!

While we get everything set up, here’s a link to our fundraiser!

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Just because someone else who has the same illness as you can work full time or do more than you can, doesn’t mean you can or should do more. Even people with the same chronic illness have different symptoms and severity levels. Try not to view other chronically ill people’s lifestyles as “proof” that you should be doing more. Don’t feel guilty for doing what’s right for your body. 

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Passover Reminder For MCU and DCTV Folks

Superheroes were invented by Jews.

A child sent off into the unknown by his parents to escape a genocide found in a basket and raised by a people not his own to one day be a protector and libertator?

That’s the Moses story. Thanks to the very Jewish Spiegel and Shuster for Superman.

Avengers: Endgame is coming out in the middle of Passover. When you go see it, remember that Captain America was invented in direct opposition to Nazis by the very Jewish Jack Kirby and Joe Simon and the first issue featured Steve punching Hitler on the cover before Pearl Harbor and the US entered WWII. Remember that Stan Lee who created or co-created Iron Man, The Hulk, The Black Widow, Hawkeye, Spider-Man, Thor, all the original X-Men, The Black Panther, and The Scarlet Witch was born Stan Leiber.

Superheroes embody a deeply Jewish philosophy, the concept of tikun olam: the idea that it is the responsibility of every person to help heal the world. It is not something anyone is expected do by themselves, let alone complete but neither is anyone exempted from trying to contribute to the improvement of the world. It’s a good message to spread I think, but it is profoundly Jewish.

Jews are a small group of people of many races and interpretations that very few people make an effort to understand. We do not recruit or go preaching. There is 3000 years of institutional misinformation and hate spread against us because we are in truth a collectivist culture that is threatening to the status quo and so we are easily and often erased but on Passover we ask “what makes this night different from all other nights?”

Maybe this year, you’ll do some research and find out what Jews have contributed to your fan culture and your secular world. Learn who we are and don’t forget us this one week, one night. Let it be different. It’s what a super hero would do.

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“I think one of the most weirdly daring things that Rachel and I decided to do was to show someone getting better.”

— Aline Brosh McKenna in Crazy Ex-Girlfriend: Oh My God I Think It’s Over

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Sorry this is so long……How TV Creators Are Handling Subtext And Shipping

TV series creators have a hard time not tailoring content towards a strictly heteronormative audience, refusing to lean in to queer context, no matter howlarge an LGBTQ following a show may have.

Once a fictional character is put out for public consumption, it ceases to be the one thing it’s described as on paper. This is especially the case with TV and film, where said character goes through so many hands before hitting the screen and becoming public property.

There are three kinds of creators when it comes to queer content on TV. The first (and sadly, most typical) is the creator who will deny any intention of creating queer content, and who will also refuse to acknowledge a queer audience’s interpretation., This often results in an instant backlash, as the Supergirlcast and creators experienced after an embarrassing interview with MTV last summer. When prompted to recap the latest season, the cast broke into a cringeworthy song that mocked fans’ interest in the Supergirl/Lena Luthor pairing, with Jeremy Jordan repeatedly exclaiming that the two will never get together. It continued despite Katie McGrath’s attempt to save the interview saying, “The great thing about what we do is, like any art, anyone can read into it what they want.” Chris Wood then chimed in with “Sexuality is all about others’ perception of yours, right?”

Supergirl is a show with a large female following that from the beginning has gravitated toward the female relationships it portrays, with emphasis on those relationships with strong queer energy. At first, there was a group of internet fans that were drawn to the chemistry between Melissa Benoist and Calista Flockhart, which was maximized due to the characters’ intense mentor/mentee relationship, and that was fine, and for the most part went unacknowledged by the show.

However, upon Flockhart’s exit, Lena Luthor was introduced, played by Katie McGrath. Kara Danvers and Lena Luthor became fast friends, and fans’ fascination with Supergirl’s queer vibes grew strong enough for the the cast to take notice. One would think that by having Alex Danvers and Maggie Sawyer, two queer characters already in their orbit, fan speculation about others wouldn’t be such an inconvenience that it would have to be addressed by aggressively singing “They’re only friends!” over and over, as if the pairing were unfathomable.

But Supergirl hasn’t been the only show to outright reject queer interpretations. In fact, a few years back, the long-running series Supernatural was called out by its fans for purposefully inserting homoerotic subtext within storylines pertaining to male characters Dean and Castiel, and for rather indirectly addressing said subtext in interviews. In one of them, Misha Collins (Castiel) stated that in certain scenes with Jensen Ackles (Dean) he was directed to portray his character as a “jilted lover.”

During a Toronto Con panel in 2013, it was revealed that a line was changed by Ackles — who last year specifically requested no questions about the popular pairing be allowed during the Q portion of a panel for the show at New Jersey Con–from “I love you” to “We’re family. I need you” because the Actor didn’t think it suited his character. Despite fandom’s interest in the pairing, it hasn’t been enough for Supernaturalto follow through with an actual queer storyline, aside from the one recurring lesbian character, Charlie, who was ultimately killed off. It turns out our tolerance for queerbaiting does have its limits.

Another show that failed to address the sapphic energy between its leads, in effect rejecting a great opportunity to add a bonus layer to an already complex relationship between two women, was Damages. The thriller starred Glenn Close as powerhouse prosecutor Patty Hewes, and Rose Byrne as her protégée, Ellen Parsons. The series went on for five seasons and throughout, though it benefitted from incredible writing, its highlight was clearly the tension and undecipherable relationship between Patty and Ellen.

While there was never any doubt that their connection was what kept the the show’s palpable tension dial at a 10, anytime the subject was brought up to either cast or creators it was denied or waved off as “wishful thinking,” as Glenn Close put it. When pressed further, she added, “I think there’s something seductive about Patty and she just seduces people and she’ll lead people on. I think that can come across as pure seduction.”

With Person of Interest, Sameen Shaw (Sarah Shahi) and Root (Amy Acker) first connected under very unique, very dark circumstances in which one was holding the other against their will in a life threatening situation. But there was a sizzle there that the audience immediately responded to, and while both cast and writers admitted that was not their intention, something amazing happenedthey took that audience reaction and ran with it. In the end, Shaw and Root’s romance became one of the show’s more compelling storylines.

Jane the Virgin did the same. When a character, Petra, who wasn’t intentionally written as queer read queer to LGBTQ viewers, the writers saw no problem taking the interpretation and adopting it as canon. After years of keeping Petra as a sort of peripheral player within Jane/Rafael storylines, the character of Jane Ramos was introduced as Petra’s defense attorney and eventual love interest.

The third type of creator is everyone’s favorite. This is the one that takes whatever gay subtext or context there is, embraces it, and expands upon it, recognizing that it’s there from the beginning. In the Flesh and Killing Eve are true representatives of queer entertainment that isn’t trying to steer its characters toward a path they weren’t organically wanting to go.

In the Flesh, a BAFTA-award winning series from BBC 3, was easily one of the best shows that no one watched; a zombie show with depth, which isn’t easy to accomplish. The story takes place years after a virus epidemic that turned the infected into flesh-eating monsters is cured, and the rehabilitated are returning home. Its main character is Luke, one of the former infected, suffering from memories of the terrible things he did while sick, and tortured by his own suicide, which was prompted by the loss of love interest, Rick.

The series ran for only two seasons, with a total of nine episodes. It was inventive and creative and stands as one of the greats right next to shows like Hannibal and The Exorcist, which was unfortunately canceled by Fox this year after only two seasons of sacrilege, beautiful cinematography, Alfonso Herrera (Sense8) and a bisexual Father Marcus, played by Ben Daniels.

Killing Eve is a female-led thriller that proves that the secret to making great TV is treating characters like human beings with the capacity to change. Eve, who, when we meet her, is living a life that doesn’t seem particularly terrible, whose marriage appears to be solid, her job secure, is lured into potentially life threatening situations for the sake of following her inexplicable attraction to a female assassin. As if beneath the surface there is a dormant unrest that is awakened with the arrival of Villanelle in her life, and though she does not stop to examine exactly what she expects to get from it, she craves and wants more of these moments that have stirred her awake. She’s both excited and frightened by Villanelle’s audaciousness, by the intrusion into her life,

both figuratively and literally.

The season’s got a few episodes left, yet the most compelling, and most attentively queer moment is part of the fifth episode, in which the two women finally come face to face in Eve’s home. Eve is sopping wet in a gorgeous dress Villanelle’s purchased for her, she’s cold and visibly uncomfortable, therefore Villanelle suggests Eve should change, before proceeding to peel the dress off her herself. It is a scene that doesn’t downplay the very real danger Eve is in by having Villanelle in her home. However there is also an erotic aspect to it that is very purposeful, and as series creator Phoebe Waller-Bridge points out, the attraction is definitely mutual, “I knew that the first moment they see each other. I labeled that moment as ‘love at first sight.’ But I didn’t want it to be constrained to romance, or to lust, or anything like that. There’s something waking in Eve every day that she spends imagining what this woman is doing.”

This type of storytelling allows characters to evolve the way that they want to evolve as opposed to forcing them into a first page description. There is loyalty to the authenticity of the story, which comes from meticulous attention paid to the writing, which Waller-Green explains is all about going against cliché: “The moment something feels predictable, there’s a roar in me to just go to the most surprising place. I don’t want to bore myself.”

Often times, when female queer characters are introduced, it is done in order to titillate, and their storylines are the product of a male gaze fantasy. Killing Eve manages to avoid all of that with Villanelle, a character who seems to have no specific preference when it comes to sexual partners, and yet doesn’t feel the need to use her sexuality to get what she wants. In addition to that and the meaty tension between the two leads (Villanelle and the titular Eve, played by Sandra Oh), the attention paid to the very queer theme of the show is evident in backstories of characters that would normally go without one, like that of Eve’s former boss and best friend Bill, an older man in a heterosexual relationship who casually reveals he’s loved “hundreds” of men, much to Eve’s surprise, and further reveals he is in an open relationship, and happily so.

The series proves not only that queer characters are marketablethe BBC series was renewed for a second season before the first even airedbut that straight creators are capable of writing queer content that isn’t offensive or over-sexualized. Phoebe Waller-Bridge credits the authenticity of the series to a collaborative effort, stating, “Because it’s all about the characters, the little details that link the two worlds, everyone’s really made it a psychological piece rather than just an artistic painting of two different people’s worlds,” but it really just goes to show that that negative aspects of queer representation that include the dreaded male gaze perspective can be avoided as long as the bar is set high enough by the showrunner.

It only takes a little bit of creativity and imagination, and a willingness to challenge the idea that heterosexual-based television makes for the best and most successful stories.

Alex Velazquez is a writer, photographer, and queer Mexican living in Los Angeles, CA.
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drawing a distinction between ‘real’ procrastination [which happens] due to brain problems and ‘fake’ procrastination [which happens] due to being a shitty person is like. counterproductive, fake, and entirely useless. people procrastinate because there is something stopping them from completing the task they need to do and this is not more valid or important or real when it happens to ND people. saying otherwise fucks over undiagnosed NDs and fucks over NT people who, despite being NT, also occasionally have sucky brains.

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this picture of brie larson in unicorn store accurately depicts me whenever i see brie larson

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That neurodivergent feel when you finish something thinking “Wow, that took so little time! Nice!” And then you look up and whoops it’s been five hours and whoops your feet are both asleep and your head hurts and you’re so thirsty it burns

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Neurotypicals: if you have low or no empathy youre an evil abuser

Me, a hyperempathic autistic: *gets stressed/breaks down when people around me are upset*

People: youre making people feel obligated to help you… When someone is already upset they cant help you if you start to break down. You should try to not respond to peoples emotions

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Do not “wait to get worse”.

I don’t care if you’ve “been worse”

Your body is tired of this.

You deserve help in this moment.

I needed this today, thanks.

Additionally: It doesn’t matter if other people “have it worse”.

You deserve help.

Needed this, it’s so hard to remember.

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Today (March 31) is International Transgender Day of Visibility, and I’m sending love to all trans folks today, and always.

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Happy International Transgender Day of Visibility, Tumblr! 

Consider starting off your day’s celebrations by laying your peepers on all of those beautiful, smiling selfies in the TDOV tag

Maybe @staff could consider actually kicking transphobes off the platform; y’all won’t even mod the comments on this fucking post but I’m supposed to be happy with your performative bullshit?

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Anonymous asked:

I have a feeling the answer is different for everyone, but can you explain what a sensory diet is? I've heard that during autistic burnout, a sensory diet is good but i have no idea what that means?

Here is an explanation by @sensorypeople. Their blog also contains lots of ideas for stimming and how to provide different types of input.

-Kath

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