question , can we buy hp merch from resellers such as depop / mecari or is it best not to buy anything at all ?
just wondering where safe endulgance of childhood nostalgia ends and detrimental suffort of a horrible person begins !
I mean, I'm no expert, but if it helps, here's the consequences as I understand it:
If you buy secondhand stuff, like an HP shirt from a thrift store, at least JKR won't get any money for it. But if you wear it in public, be aware that it might also send a message you didn't intend. Pro-JKR people might think you're one of them, while some trans folks and allies might feel wary of you.
If you also have some clear sign of support like a trans flag tattoo, it might help, but then someone who's not super informed might think the controversy isn't so serious, because hey look there's a person who is pro trans rights and still bought HP stuff! (They won't know you didn't buy it new or how hard you thought about it.)
On the other hand, if it's something that will only ever be seen by people who already know you, like a pajama shirt, then it probably has a more neutral effect.
Does that make sense? Hope it helps you figure out where to draw the line to fit your values. If anyone else wants to weigh in please do.