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giving away my Stray Kids URLS

Hi all! This blog has been abandoned for over a year. While I was active, I created and hoarded some Stray Kids, Seventeen, and The Boyz URLs. I only remembered this today, so I figure it’s only right to send them away. If you’d like to claim one or two, PM me within the next few days and I’ll give it to you. First come first serve. Easy!

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05/12/19 Taehyun’s Tweet

리더 사랑행❣

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Leader, I love you ❣️

05/12/19 Soobin’s reply

잉 고맙다 태현아 ㅋㅋㅋㅋ 형도 사랑해~

#TOMORROW_X_TOGETHER #수빈 #Soobin

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ing thanks Taehyun-ah hahahah hyung loves you too~

#TOMORROW_X_TOGETHER #수빈 #Soobin

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Lets all laugh at jype together my fellow stays

The most valuable thing I learned doing a Masters degree with depression, anxiety and ADHD was to change my “things I’m bad at” list to “things I can’t do on my own.” Stop thinking of them as things I could do if I tried hard enough, and accept that I can’t accomplish them by effort and willpower alone; they’re genuine neurocognitive deficits, and if I need to do the thing, then just like a blind person reading or a mobility impaired person going up a storey in a building, I need to find a different method.

I’m “bad at” working on long-term projects without an imminent deadline or someone breathing down my neck? Okay, let’s change that: I can’t work on long-term projects without an imminent deadline and someone breathing down my neck. So let’s create an imminent deadline and recruit neck-breathers. Find a sympathetic prof who will agree that 3 weeks before the due date they expect me to show them my preliminary notes and bibliography. Get a friend I trust to block off an hour to sit with me and keep asking, “Are you working on your project?” Write a blog post about my progress. Arrange to trade papers and proofread them with another student.

Accept your limitations and learn to leverage them, instead of buying the neurotypical fairytale that they’ll go away if you just try hard enough.

I needed this so much.

This is wonderful advice. I will decide not to follow it and to continue berating myself for being bad at things instead of seeking help with them.

Have fun with that! If you want some practical techniques, I find ADDitude mag a helpful resource. Beating yourself up has its perks, but if you desperately need results, another method might suit you more.

Call me vain but one of my personal development goals is to not be a draining person. I want people to feel listened to and refreshed after spending time with me.