Infj helpless love languages
Might apply to others too
(Will update?)
Physical
- STARE A LOT. At them. Into their eyes. Into their soul. Usually I donโt really initiate eye contact unless itโs the polite thing to do/ w friends. I stare because I find you interesting, and if you stare back, I will know whether if you are a genuine human being. I will feel your stare as predatory/ kind/ honest/ sly...
(Truth is, I am bad at flirting so all I know is stare a lot. The whole time.)
- not touchy at all but wonโt resist if you initiate (if I like you, that is)
- always wanted to surprise scare/ touch the other person if I arrive later than them
- practicing hugs
- mini flaunting body (having practiced in brain for a few times)
Communication
- stalking online (instead of actually talking, smh)
-brainstorms and imagines all possible scenarios or convos and possible talking topics to โget readyโ
- then also gets into the intuitive flow during chat and accidentally says something too weird/ weirdly suggestive/ weirdly creepy
- should I add this emoji (adds: this is too much no)(doesnโt add: oh no I am so coming off as being cold)
-overthinking why this text was not responded... YET (and will get all smiley when they do)
- either super direct/ honest (5% or the time) or super vague and too subtle for anyone to notice (95%)
And erm
-figuring out their mbti type
- will bring little gifts as a return of favor but always anxious if itโs too much/ donโt want the other person to take things for granted, including all other acts of kindness