i think my all time favorite ace discourse topic was people pretending that you couldnt be cishet and aro or ace… esp because everyone readily admitted you could be other sexualities and ace or aro - because there’s a difference between who you’re attracted to vs how you experience attraction - but at the same time ppl were still pretending it was impossible to be straight and ace do u guys remember that. i hope this doesn’t still happen every time i talk about old discourse yall tell me it still happens
apparently this does still happen this is so sad i hope those poor cishet aro/aces find peace about being cishet one day its been years dam f