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parakeet

i think my all time favorite ace discourse topic was people pretending that you couldnt be cishet and aro or ace… esp because everyone readily admitted you could be other sexualities and ace or aro - because there’s a difference between who you’re attracted to vs how you experience attraction - but at the same time ppl were still pretending it was impossible to be straight and ace do u guys remember that. i hope this doesn’t still happen every time i talk about old discourse yall tell me it still happens

apparently this does still happen this is so sad i hope those poor cishet aro/aces find peace about being cishet one day its been years dam f

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kinda wonder how many people on who equate LGBT ace exclusionists with T/ERFs realize that the “exclusionary” part of the latter is a big understatement. If all T/ERFs were doing was trying to split off the LGBT community into LGB and T communities that would still be shitty, but orders of magnitude less awful than what they’ve been doing for over 4 decades.

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dmnsqrl

Honey

Wtf do you think ace exclusionists do?

THAT is what you are missing… that ace exclusionists ARE VIOLENT

sorry I must have missed that part of history where ace exclusionists showed up to ace events armed with guns for an assassination attempt, spent years with right wingers to explicitly deny ace people health care, wrote a bunch of op eds in the New York Times calling aces rapists, doxxed someone to harass their doctor in attempt to deny healthcare(for calling them a fake goth on twitter) and passed laws where ace people could no longer use the bathroom without being arrested…

Like honestly if you’re one of those people who thinks “violence” means not making an effort to include someone in a community they’ve historically never been a part of because without a sense of community they might be depressed or not have access to completely hypothetical intangible resources just shut up.

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petratodd

fyi

Gender reveal parties, and big planned reveals, literally were not a thing ten, fifteen years ago. Don’t let anyone pull that “it’s a tradition!” crap on you, youngsters. They’re LYING. People would either get the ultrasound or not to find out about the genitals, and tell people or not. That was that.

The fuss over “revealing” a baby’s gender in utero stinks of pushback against the shift toward a more nuanced understanding of gender. I mean yeah part of it is social media, and trends catching on, but don’t think for a minute this isn’t part of some regressive attitudes creeping into the mainstream with a cute (blue or pink) bow on it.

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madlori

Even the woman who helped popularize gender reveal parties is like…slow your roll, fam.

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i want these pins though

for all the galaxy-brained geniuses reblogging this:

sesame street is not an evil corporation trying to make bank off of rainbow capitalism. they’re a non-profit that’s trying to make education accessible to underprivileged kids and these pins ARE NOT FOR SALE, THEY ARE NOT MAKING MONEY OFF OF THIS, THIS IS NOT MERCH THIS WAS JUST A CUTE SUPPORTIVE POST.

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As an update, they’ve moved into a house together and are still super cute

Gundam Guy is truly a man of patience and diligence. From his attention to detail building his models to the loving attention and detail for his wife.

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gothorita

Hey all!

Elle is actually one of my ride or dies. We became friends about 8 or 9 years ago on this here blue website, and I love her so fucking much.

Their story is sweet, but unfortunately, they’re going through some hard times. Elle’s endometriosis is super bad, and she’s neck deep in medical bills, on top of being unable to work due to the disease. This is making it really hard for them to keep up with other bills, as she can’t supplement their household income.

She’s had a GoFundMe up for a long time now, but it still has a long way to go. They really do need the help so they can live their cute ass lives!!

If you can boost this and maybe consider donating (instead of that Kylie bullshit), it would be incredible. I’m posting this on her behalf since she doesn’t use Tumblr anymore.

Thank you!!!

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phaseflower

Hey, this is literally the closest the government can get to interrogation and they’re just getting away with it, what the fuck hell world

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