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Patton please

@pattonimissyoupleasecomeback

I used to count the days since we've seen Patton Sanders
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Hi, I'm Jade, they/them, minor. DNI r//mr//m shippers and bigots of every shape and size, I'm too tired to list them rn

If you need me to tag anything, let me know!

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reblog for something t4t to happen to you this summer.

reblog for something t4t to happen to you this autumn.

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reblog for something t4t to happen to you this spring

‼️‼️reblog for something t4t to happen to you forever ‼️‼️

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ajardolive

Casting happy t4t spells on you.

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Using the bathroom in general is a human right and should be enshrined as such and I'm not joking. Too many groups of people are denied bathroom breaks or the use of bathrooms entirely--disabled people, blue-collar workers, children, homeless people, prisoners, students, the elderly. I'm surely missing other groups. Not using the bathroom when needed can cause serious, long-term damage, not to mention death. Free, clean, accessible bathrooms should be available everywhere. It's fucking cruel to deny someone the use of the bathroom, regardless of the reasoning. I'd rather every student in the world goof off and every homeless person make a mess and every worker "steal company time" than let one person suffer because they're denied the right to fucking pee in peace.

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Please go watch Sex Explained on Netflix. Not only is it a great resource for the basic sex education that is sorely lacking in the U.S., but some of ya’ll need to take a deep breath and remember the difference between fantasy vs reality. This purity culture thing that we’re going through right now is directly harmful to responsible, healthy sexual expression. BTW this woman, Lisa Diamond, is a noted psychologist and has been pushing for greater understanding of womens sexuality as a whole.

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[image description: the bugs bunny in a tuxedo "I wish all a very pleasant evening" meme edited to say "I wish all of my Jewish followers a very pleasant passover". Next to bugs is a photo of a small stack of matzo and the cup of Elijah. ]

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generaln0m

ADHD pro tip: Use psychological warfare on yourself.

For example, in order to do long tasks, like folding laundry, I put on the Mario Hat:

The main feature of the Mario hat is that my headset does not fit over it, so when The Bees™ try to put me back in front of the screen, the headset issue forces me to remember why I put the Mario hat on, and back to the task I go

As a bonus, the Mario hat is also a very clear indicator to my housemates that business is getting done, and they have learned not to distract me when I'm wearing the "goofy-ass cosplay hat"

It's not stupid if it works.

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apparltl0n

Hey, yall! Help a t4t disabled couple with relocation!

My husband and i need a bit of help, we're moving to a new apartment by May 15th, but we need a bit of help with moving costs. Things like the deposit, gas for moving, and necessities we might need once moved in!

My job has been reluctant to give me new hours, since im in an area that's covered by a different company, but i plan on leaving that job as soon as we move. This does leave us in a tricky situation, though, as i dont have enough hours to cover our own daily needs, let alone an expense like this.

Any help is appreciated! I do tarot readings and traditional art!

^ links are above!!

Update 4/22

We signed onto a lease where the owner is waiving our deposit since im a childcare provider!! This is great news, but they would like our first months rent on the 1st, and we just cant come up with that right now.

Again, my commissions and tarot card readings are available to anyone who donates!

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Thank you to the person that donated!!!!! <3

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we are sooo fucked. All of my days of work for next week have been removed (as have my roommates) because they’re cutting back the stores we work at and idk what to do my paycheck is gonna be so small.

Setting my goal to $200 because idk i hope that’ll cover my phone bill and other necessities idk

$0/$200

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cyanomys

yes, there are that many really disabled people on the internet actually

When I was less sick I used to think, "It seems like such a large portion of people on the internet are disabled, it can't possibly be that large of a percentage of the population" and then let my ableism demons tell me it was because they were faking (the same ones that told me I was faking, until I made myself really ill.)

But now that I'm sicker and wiser I realize I was logically just wrong because

  1. The internet is disabled people's lifeline. There are more disabled people on the internet because OF COURSE. People who aren't disabled can be less chronically online because they don't have to be. This is textbook selection bias!
  2. But actually also I was almost right, because there are way more disabled people in society than you would think! They're just systematically hidden and excluded from public spaces for abled peoples' convenience! 🙃

Anyway maybe this will help you understand and/or explain to abled friends and family.

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peachdoxie

There's a bunch of adhd advice out there that's like "people with adhd tend to work better under deadlines due to the anxiety so here are ways to artificially induce a stress response in order to get you to get work done" and it's like well what if I don't want to be stressed out all the time in order to function

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spaciumbeam

i wanna fucking die lol once again i am struggling, still job hunting (fingers crossed that this place i interviewed at hires me), and down to less than 100 in my account and need to uber to my job interviews until I get lucky and something sticks because I live in bumfuck nowhere where nothing is in walking distance. i absolutely hate asking Once Again, and I'm literally at my wits end, but any help is appreciated. pic for attention and all that idk y'all

raised: 0 / 400

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jude-us

As a brown trans boy it sucked so badly to watch those “gender envy” slides on tik tok and see only white boys with fluffy hair. It was a little thing but it made me feel invisible even in my own community. So these are men that look like me and give me gender envy. If you’re POC disabled/ don’t see your self in common trans discussions feel free to add on.

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