ALEX MERCER + Now or Never
James may be a zionist but he does make good music 😮💨🙄
Charlie Gillespie as Luke Patterson Julie and the Phantoms - Wake Up
BUCK and EDDIE 7x04 | Buck, Bothered and Bewildere
BUCK AND TOMMY OH MY GOD THEY WERE SO CLOSE I WAS LIKE ARE THEY GONNA KISS AND THEN THEY DID
#when you know your kids so well
Yep. Careful. Careful, careful!
Oh, my God.
Ok.
+ Bonus, the incredible (incredibly adorable) husband in question:
#they are so silly
eddie diaz in every episode ↳ 7.01 - abandon ships
Do you like Jell-O?
PERCY JACKSON AND THE OLYMPIANS | S01E03
“I am impertinent,” I said.
"Slow progress also counts!!!"
"You don't have to be better than anyone but your past self!!!"
"You just have to do better than you did yesterday!!!"
"You don't have to make big progress, any progress counts!!!"
No actually you don't have to stay on a completely linear upwards journey towards consistent greatness to succeed at recovery. It's great when you can take steps forward and it's great when you realize you're more capable than you were in the past, but every single day of your recovery doesn't have to come with a new, visible milestone because improving isn't a linear journey. So the only thing you HAVE to do to "stay on track" with your recovery is to stay alive
Dealing With Executive Dysfunction - A Masterpost
- The “getting it done in an unconventional way” method.
- The “it’s not cheating to do it the easy way” method.
- The “fuck what you’re supposed to do” method.
- The “get stuff done while you wait” method.
- The “you don’t have to do everything at once” method.
- The “it doesn’t have to be permanent to be helpful” method.
- The “break the task into smaller steps” method.
- The “treat yourself like a pet” method.
- The “it doesn’t have to be all or nothing” method.
- The “put on a persona” method.
- The “act like you’re filming a tutorial” method.
- The “you don’t have to do it perfectly” method.
- The “wait for a trigger” method.
- The “do it for your future self” method.
- The “might as well” method.
- The “when self discipline doesn’t cut it” method.
- The “taking care of yourself to take care of your pet” method.
- The “make it easy” method.
- The “junebugging” method.
- The “just show up” method.
- The “accept when you need help” method.
- The “make it into a game” method.
- The “everything worth doing is worth doing poorly” method.
- The “trick yourself” method.
- The “break it into even smaller steps” method.
- The “let go of should” method.
- The “your body is an animal you have to take care of” method.
- The “fork theory” method.
- The “effectivity over aesthetics” method.
No point in moving slow We’ll run through the fire Keep climbing higher up
Listen to me: You get good at things by being bad at them. You learn by failing. You gain competency and a sense of mastery by failing at something many times and in many interesting ways.
The sooner you are able to laugh at your own failures, to enjoy the process of messing up, the easier life will be. Because you'll no longer be afraid of learning.
And once you're no longer afraid of failing, you can learn anything.
i wish it were as easy as it sounds
And that's the thing of it, isn't it? Failing and accepting a failure is itself a skill.
And it can be very hard to learn, especially if you come from a family where a failure is a sign that you are a failure instead of a sign that you are learning.
You're going to fail at failing well. There are going to be times when it hurts, times when your brain is telling you that you should just give up and you'll never get it. Times when a failure is going to frustrate you to no end.
And you can still learn to fail well. You can learn to see it as a sign that you're learning, you can learn to give a little chuckle and say to yourself, well, everyone screws up sometimes, I'm just learning.
It is not easy, but it is important.