Yeah clichés are wrong and hurt communities but it's also a bad thing to condamn everyone who fits these clichés. This aroace character is cold and don't care about anyone? This other one is unattractive by society's standard? This non-binary character is autistic? This gay character is effeminated? This bisexual character make-out left and right with everyone? Ok. Ok that's awful to represent all the time as in "all of people in X categorie are like that", but demonizing any representation of the sort also demonize people who ARE like this, because yes they exist. It isn't useful to reject them or make them feel bad. It is useful however to continue to educate people, "not everyone is like this, must of us aren't like this even, but some are and they deserve respect too". There is bad representation but there isn't a bad way to be queer, and how you talk about representations reflects on people who see themselves in them. A lot of us forget that nowadays.
