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mystery solved. anyway leave this blog and its corpse im not even gonna check here again for who knows how long

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I love not wearing makeup!! I love coming in from the sun and being able to splash water on my face to cool down!! I love being able to rub my eyes if they’re itchy!! I love seeing my bare face so often that I’m used to it and it looks normal and good!! I love being able to hug people tight without worrying that I’m gonna get foundation on their shirt!! I love being able to just exist without having to be constantly aware of gunk on my face!!

I!! love!! Not!! Wearing!! Makeup!!

sorry i was on mobile so i didn’t see shinigamieyes warning me op was a terf

This just in, we need an app made by a pedo who raped a 14 year old to decide whether we can agree with posts!

This is so cultish

oh nvm fellas anon was a terf lmao that explains it

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I cannot stress enough that I fundamentally distrust callout posts, and I will distrust you if you send them to me.

Don't get me wrong: I investigate warnings, and I act on them if they're true and relevant. But callout posts are, on a very fundamental level, not about what people say they're about. There are exceptions, but generally speaking they're made for one or more of the following reasons:

  1. OP didn't like the subject to begin with (often for bigoted reasons), and they wanted a reason, and a following, to justify and validate that.
  2. OP wanted to gain popularity, so they made themselves look like either a victim, a hero, or both.
  3. OP wanted to claim victim status in a private falling-out in order to preserve good standing with their own friends/their community.
  4. OP didn't like what the subject was saying, and wanted to silence them (often for bigoted reasons).
  5. OP genuinely just wants "revenge" on the subject, or otherwise wants to ruin their reputation and have them sent harassment.

Again, there are exceptions: there are "callouts" that just unravel a subject's lies, or point out problems in already public actions. If OP is claiming to have been personally victimized in a legitimately serious way, and especially one that indicates the subject might be a danger to others, I'm definitely more willing to believe it- one obvious example being sexual violence.

But oftentimes, callouts are incredibly personal, misleading, emotionally manipulative, blatantly untrue, or all of the above.

This person came to me on anon; I have absolutely no way of knowing what their motives are or how trustworthy they are. There is no credibility or accountability here.

And I did read the post. Lo and behold, it's riddled with emotionally manipulative language, false accusations, and the biggest reaches I've ever seen:

  • "DON'T READ THIS CALLOUT, IT'S SO TRIGGERING TO EVERYONE, JUST TAKE MY WORD FOR IT. But the proof is here if you REALLY don't believe me"
  • "Proof" is a scarce handful of screenshots taken out of context that contain emotionally evocative language, but do not support the accusations at all.
  • Some accusations are genuinely just weird logic leaps with no support, others are matters of personal opinion obviously driven by bigoted motives.
  • OP themselves expresses very publicly that they believe people who are marginalized in the ways the subject are, who speak on that marginalization, should be silenced.

I try to assume good faith here, and I want to believe this anon was just guilt-tripped and manipulated by the post in question. I don't hold any ill will here.

But anon, I want you to ask yourself:

Are the accusations you're making something you have personally investigated and found to be true?

Does this person deserve the harassment and ostracization they will likely receive as a result of your accusations?

Will you hold yourself accountable for the damage you've caused if you're wrong?

And if you're absolutely certain you're right, come off anon and talk to me as a human being; because I can't believe you're ready to be accountable for these accusations if you won't even put your Tumblr blog behind them.

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alright, it’s time

8 whole years of this blog. and more importantly, 100k posts– that is a LOT of posts, what the fuck. this blog has literally been with me literally a third of my life, but now it’s time to move on to newer, fresher spaces

now! how to follow my FRESH NEW BLOG! given past experiences of being stalked and harassed, i’d rather not chuck it out into the open; instead, you’re gonna have to DM me for it, and thankfully, i don’t bite. if you’re too shy or just wanna make the bare minimum message, just say “new blog pls” and i’ll slide you the url. you’ll only be refused if your blog is like, brand fuckin new, or you seem suspiciously like you’re in contact with a certain someone. and if you don’t know who that someone may be, then you’re probably good lol

(idk how well this method is going to work too so bare with me if i take a while to get back to you BFHJDBHD)

but yeah! i’ve been dragging my feet on this for a while, actually, and there’s a LOT of stuff i still hafta clean out and carry with. this blog will be staying up permanently as an archive, and i’ll be checking regularly for follower DMs the next month or so, and less regularly after that. it aches! it burns! and i hate to part with this at all. but for my peace of mind as well as “oh god the clutter”? we’re movin on, folks

if you’ve been following me for years, thank you. if you’ve been following me for just some days, thank you. and if you don’t even plan on joining along the ride for my new blog? i’m glad you stopped by even for a little bit! to my long-time friends and mutuals who plan to follow me still, oh god i love you

see you on the other side!!

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!!!! IMPORTANT UPDATE!!!! (9/5)

i’m all moved in and having a nice chill time in my new space, woohoo. still checking back in here occasionally to let people in, but-

note that i am not handing out my url to people who have not already been following this blog. if you’re wanting to follow cuz you’ve found me through some of my original posts or something, sorry :( maybe you’ll catch me in some other corner of tumblr, but alas. given some past circumstances (as mentioned above), i’m not really taking any chances with my new blog being found

only exception to the not-following me rule! is for people who i’ve still known long before and have lost touch with, but want to follow me around again. otherwise!! catch me out in the wild :)

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alright, it’s time

8 whole years of this blog. and more importantly, 100k posts-- that is a LOT of posts, what the fuck. this blog has literally been with me literally a third of my life, but now it’s time to move on to newer, fresher spaces

now! how to follow my FRESH NEW BLOG! given past experiences of being stalked and harassed, i’d rather not chuck it out into the open; instead, you’re gonna have to DM me for it, and thankfully, i don’t bite. if you’re too shy or just wanna make the bare minimum message, just say “new blog pls” and i’ll slide you the url. you’ll only be refused if your blog is like, brand fuckin new, or you seem suspiciously like you’re in contact with a certain someone. and if you don’t know who that someone may be, then you’re probably good lol

(idk how well this method is going to work too so bare with me if i take a while to get back to you BFHJDBHD)

but yeah! i’ve been dragging my feet on this for a while, actually, and there’s a LOT of stuff i still hafta clean out and carry with. this blog will be staying up permanently as an archive, and i’ll be checking regularly for follower DMs the next month or so, and less regularly after that. it aches! it burns! and i hate to part with this at all. but for my peace of mind as well as “oh god the clutter”? we’re movin on, folks

if you’ve been following me for years, thank you. if you’ve been following me for just some days, thank you. and if you don’t even plan on joining along the ride for my new blog? i’m glad you stopped by even for a little bit! to my long-time friends and mutuals who plan to follow me still, oh god i love you

see you on the other side!!

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when i was 13 i was reading a sasuke uchiha/oc fic on quizilla.com that repeatedly referenced heating up apples covered in tin foil in microwaves, to the point where eating a tin-foil covered apple fresh from the microwave was a multi-chapter occurence & that’s the story of how i lit my first microwave on fire

casual reminder that sasuke uchiha personally set my microwave ablaze

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