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I always worry about being a bad feminist because I want gender equality (for all genders) but then I also really love dom/sub relationships of which I think I could only really be in if it was a man dominating me. I dont want to perpetuate gender stereotypes but like... a woman dominating me just wouldnt be the same imo

There’s this misconception of what being a feminist is that is enforced by society and certain feminist. But it’s suppose to be equality and letting women decide what’s best for themselves as individuals. A woman might want to be a stay at home and heed to ‘traditional’ gender roles and that’s cool. Or maybe they want to be a doctor and not have kids, awesome!

It doesn’t matter, a real feminist would look at both of these women and be like YOU GO GIRL.

So if you want to get dom by a man because you don’t feel like a women could do it right for you, then YOU GO GIRL. Sounds hot as fuck. And that’s your right! That’s your feminist right!

And people who shun either of these type of women are assholes and aren’t real feminist.

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helvonasche

CANNOT EXPRESS HOW MANY TIMES I HAVE SAID SIMILAR THINGS. LIKE. BRUH. WHERE THE FUCK ELSE IS IT GONNA BE?

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dopenmind

Reblogging this once more because my mom and I legitimately laughed to tears.

this is my favorite video on the internet

mental health tip: save this video. watch it when you’re sad. it’s the best goddamn thing on the internet

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dopenmind

Reblogging this once more because my mom and I legitimately laughed to tears.

this is my favorite video on the internet

mental health tip: save this video. watch it when you’re sad. it’s the best goddamn thing on the internet

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This is all just so heartbreaking and horrific...

I’m honestly struggling to comprehend the world we live in. Where it’s not even safe to enjoy and appreciate your favourite artist, favourite events.

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DO NOT DO THIS.

This makes me so angry.

If you work in a movie theater and you do this I have no respect for you.

My younger brother is Type 1 Diabetic.

When we go to a movie theater, we always get him diet soda. If he were to get regular when we asked for diet, we would not give him the insulin he would need for it. If that happens, his blood sugar level could go so high he could go into a coma, go blind, or even die.

If somebody gave him regular soda instead of diet without telling us, that person could be responsible for a nine-year-old being killed or blinded.

Just thinking about that makes me so angry. I get scared every time we take him to a movie in case the people working there saw this picture and decide to do the same thing.

Please signal boost this so people know.

This also applies to baristas

Fun story about the baristas doing this kind of shit. 

I am very sensitive to lactose, not Lactose intolerant but because of stomach ulcers that are still healing. A couple years ago I went to Starbucks right after my classes with some friends and asked for a green tea latte with soy milk. The barista, for some reason out of malice and/or hate for her life so she took it out on me, gave me whole milk in my latte.

5 minutes after my first sip of latte, my stomach cramped BAD. Not the “Oh! time to poop!” kind of cramp but it felt like someone had stabbed me with a knife and twisted it. Now I’ve had this happen before so I knew the cause of it. I went up to the barista clutching my gut screaming at her that she put dairy in my latte rather than soy LIKE I REQUESTED. She denied it and called me a “pretentious white girl for wanting soy”and so my friends got the manager. I had to explain that I had stomach ulcers that were still healing and if I were to go to the hospital for this incident, they would be responsible for it.

Manager flipped his shit and the barista was terrified out of her mind. Pretty sure both thought i was gonna sue. Manager actually fired her on the spot because of the negligence. My friends managed to get me home in one piece while I stayed home for 3 days in absolute agony and missed my midterm.

So remember kiddies, if someone is asking for Diet or “Skinny” or “soy” or anything that is not regular, give them what they requested because it may not be them being healthy, but a dietary need that can possibly be life or death

also if they ARE trying to be healthy you should give it to them to!! Its not your decision to police or question others food choices!!! 

also im lactose intolerant AND ive had stomach infections/ulcers so i feel this. 

I have Celiac Disease, so I’m very gluten intolerant. When I go out to eat at restaurants a lot of people just assume that I asked for my food gluten free because of the gluten free diet fad (which is usually a bullshit diet btw). 

Last month I went out to dinner with a friend at an italian restaurant that had a small gluten free menu. I had been there once before and had their gluten free pasta and it was great! I think one of the managers had been there and was super helpful when taking my order to make sure that everything was gluten free for me. When I ordered the gluten free pasta again this time though, the waitress who took my order all but rolled her eyes at me. I didn’t think much of it at the time, because the restaurant was so accommodating before, I just assumed it would be the same this time.

But sure enough, they brought out my pasta, I ate it, and about an hour later I had extreme stomach pains and was throwing up (in a movie theater no less).

Barfing and agonizing pain aside, eating gluten when you have celiac causes a lot of internal damage that’s hard to notice. The biggest thing is that it damages your intestines, preventing your body from absorbing nutrients properly, which can take months to heal.

So PLEASE, if you work at a restaurant or anything with food and someone asks for something a certain way, please listen to them and don’t just disregard someone’s order. It’s not funny and it can have serious consequences.

I will reblog this with every single story about someone getting sick because of an asshole giving them the opposite of what they ordered until it sinks in for everyone.

Recently on the news a 16 year old boy with a dairy allergy had gone to eat at IHOP with his family. The specifically asked if they could make dairy free pancakes and they said yes. Not too long after he had a reaction and was rushed to the hospital. This kid died because the was dairy in his pancakes that they asked for no dairy. His epi pen that his mother had wasn’t enough to help him. I know working in fast food or any job that’s serves food and beverage sucks but not as much as causing someone to get sick over negligence.

My youngest cousin – who is now five, he just started kindergarten – has Celiac’s disease. You would not BELEIVE the amount of times I’ve heard my aunt say she’s ordered something gluten free, only to watch the waiter or waitress’s eyes go huge when she gives it to my cousin – my cousin with the medical id band on his tiny five year old wrist proclaiming I HAVE CELIACS and have to take it back. Shit like this could kill my cousin. Knock it the fuck off.

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iopele

I cannot tolerate caffeine–it makes me have chest pain and a racing pulse, and also gives me horrible body pain, so I always ask for decaf if I order coffee when I’m out, and doublecheck with the waiter/ress when they bring it. but instead of saying “is this decaf like I asked for?” I always say “oh, did I remember to order decaf?” I shouldn’t have to act like I’m the forgetful one (because I know damn well I asked for decaf) but it seems to work better than implying that they screwed up when I take the blame on myself like that. and if there’s any hesitation when they answer, I tell them, “if there’s any doubt, please get another one, or just give me water–if this is regular, it’ll mess up my heart” and lots of times when I say that, they look alarmed and go change it or get another one. 

but I shouldn’t HAVE to share my personal medical history with strangers just to get my order right! no one should! how is it their business? it makes me really uncomfortable to have to do that. JUST GIVE PEOPLE WHAT THEY ORDER!

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minnigem

I’ve reblogged this maaaany times before but there’s a few new stories on here so i’m doing it again.

cut this shit out

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willowfae82

don’t be that kind of asshole.

As a diabetic, this would make me so beyond angry. Skinny doesn’t mean they don’t have a life threatening illness. Skinny doesn’t mean they can process sugar the way you do. People that do this are the worst kinds of people. DO NOT DO THIS!

Me and my family went to a restaurant a few years back and one of the dishes we ordered was made with wine vinegar, which I am allergic to, so we asked the waiter to skip it, and he said sure, no problem, that’s fine. So my food gets to the table, and I start eating and then my throat closes and I can’t breathe and then I start coughing and throwing up right there in the middle of the restaurant and it was very fortunate that I was with my family and they knew what was happening to me. I had to be rushed to the hospital, and admitted, and I came damn near close to having my throat cut open so I could breathe through a whole on my neck. Because they put wine vinegar in my food when I explicitly told them not to, because they were assholes, and I could have died. They probably didn’t mean to hurt me but they did. I missed class, and work, and, again, I COULD HAVE DIED.

i have cyclic vomiting syndrome and can’t tolerate dairy or red meat. violating my dietary restrictions triggers an acute episode, and i have to be hospitalized and given iv saline, ativan, and anti-emetics to stop the (extremely painful and incapacitating) vomiting. if somebody put regular milk instead of soy milk in my latte and i didn’t notice the taste immediately, i could wind up in the er and then spend several days in bed recovering, eating nothing but saltines and dry toast and clear liquids until my body was able to tolerate food again, unable to work or go out or do anything besides rest. whenever i go to starbucks, i WATCH them make my drink. cvs episodes are horrible and i hate them, and i can prevent them if i do everything right, but that means my damn barista has to cooperate. if somebody decided i was a stuck up white girl and gave me whole milk instead of soy they could put me in the hospital and cost me days of income. give ppl the food they fuckin order. it’s not that hard.

Reblogging because it’s so important. I’m “lucky” I don’t have any food allergies or intolerence, but it makes me mad when people take them not seriously, think you are picky or just following a “white girl diet fad”.

90% of people don’t take my cats and dog allergies seriously when I tell them I’m allergic and wondering if a cat or a dog is present at X place. They think it’s just watery eyes. Nope. Well yeah, watery and itchy eyes, but I start wo wheeze and have trouble breathing. They don’t give epi-pen for those (anyway you have to go to the hospital after) just inhaler. It’s no miracle, specially if I didn’t take other meds before.

When people tell you about their allergies or restriction, trust them!

Reblogging for all the stories here because this is sooo important! 

I have a severe allergy to gluten and relate to MANY of the stories above. My daughter has a severe allergy to milk fat, and I have had to hold her hair many times while she vomits on the side of the road because we couldn’t even make it home from the “accidental” whole milk instead of skim. 

greenteamoon

I’m super lactose intolerant so accidental milk is always fun. Severe diarrhea, stomach cramps, bloating, and gas like you wouldn’t believe. Better than death you might say but, I have other medical conditions, so that diarrhea could lead to vomiting(it’s so bad the vomit comes out my mouth AND nose) and dehydration that in turn becomes low cortisol and adrenal crisis. A bitchy barista can land me in the hospital with an intramuscular shot and saline iv. Hun, it takes no time to listen and follow my order. It takes me at least 24 hours to get out of the hospital. Be nice.

I’m allergic to pork. Legit allergic. I can’t count how many times I’ve had to ask it off my food only to receive it with bacon or ham or something on it.

Please respect peoples food requests. It costs 0.00$ to not be a dick.

I actually have customers who say they’ll only eat at my restaurant when I’m there, because they know I require all policy to be followed, as in “I will kick you the fuck off your shift if you skimp,” if someone says the words “I have an allergy.” I developed our allergy policies, for that matter, because what we had in place before was “I guess you shouldn’t change your gloves … . ?” On my shifts your gloves get changed, that line gets wiped down with a new cloth, paper under EVERY ITEM for the person with the allergy, bag their food separately to prevent contact. If there’s a risk of cross-contamination with an allergen, like tomatoes in the guac because stuff spills when you’re moving as fast as we do, I’ll open a new bag of food. I learned the ingredients in every item we serve so I could advise people on hidden allergens (e.g., there’s a small amount of wheat in our beef as a thickener; we fry with safflower oil). We have a grease pencil to mark special builds and I use it liberally on allergy orders. If all of this sounds like overkill, you’ve never watched a child suffer from anaphylaxis. I don’t play around.

Like, I bitch about my job a lot, but food allergies and special needs are not something I will ever bitch about. Even if you’re a complete asshole I won’t risk contaminating your food. (Although people with allergies seem to be way nicer than the general population, I gotta say.) Don’t do it. If someone’s a petty asshole to you, give them too much ice in their drink. Don’t play with their health.

DO NOT FUCKING SCROLL PAST THIS P L E A S E

Reblogging this again because it is important. Doing the right thing has no cost but doing the wrong thing can cost a person’s life. Don’t be a dick, give the person what they ordered

I’ve gotten the wrong drink at Starbs sometimes, and so far I’ve always just shrugged it off as “well, okay, I guess I’ll try something new.” This post makes me so grateful that I don’t have food allergies or other disorders that require a special diet.

I feel so bad for people who have to deal with asshole customers all day, but ffs, you don’t know why they’re ordering what they’re ordering. These stories are terrifying.

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Chapters: 13/? Fandom: Supernatural Rating: Teen And Up Audiences Warnings: Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings Relationships: Gabriel/Sam Winchester Characters: Sam Winchester, Dean Winchester, Gabriel (Supernatural), Bobby Singer Additional Tags: Canon Divergence, Grieving, Loss, Sam’s emotional state confuses him, SET AFTER GABRIEL V LUCIFER, Moving through grief, Family, Big brothers who wish they could help, Bobby being there for his boys even if it’s only over the phone, Gabriel - Freeform, Trickster moments, remembering, Angst, Tears, Realisation, Regrets, Wishing there had been another “other way”, Back up Plan - Freeform, Inspired by a YouTube video, Will link in Summary, Sabriel - Freeform, Guys I guarantee a happy ending, Promise, Angst with a Happy Ending, There will likely be some fluff too, Angels, looking out for each other, What is with them and trying to be “strong”, Emotional constipation more like, possibly some Destiel, Or mentions at least, Sam misses Gabriel, Is Gabriel really dead?, Grief, cases, Hunting, Hunting getting in the way again, roadtrip, baby the impala, Bars, Drinking, Brothers being irritated, Sam is so done with drunk Dean, Commersials, Secrets, Using the “Trust Me” card, Hollywood, security guards - Freeform, Hurt/Comfort, Emotional Hurt/Comfort, Oh my Gods where did all this sweetness come from, OH SUGAR THERE’S SWEARING GUYS, Winchester bro mo’s, teasing each other, Fun and Games, I LOVE THE WINCHESTER BROTHERS BEING BROTHERS GODDAMN IT, Dean is so obviously hung up on Castiel, FLUFFY FLUFF COMING UP Summary:

A grieving Sam misses a certain Archangel. Dean just hopes he’s right about this.

(A/N): Hey Guys! So, welcome to the new story! It’s an idea I’m having a lot of fun exploring considering most of my other SPN fics (unposted as of yet) are very AU/Reverse Verse’ oriented. This is based in our known Supernatural Universe, but diverges from Canon a fair amount, naturally. It was inspired by a video I watched on youtube the other day while indulging my Richard Speight Jnr. obsession a little. (Or a lot. Sshh.) I would highly recommend you give it a watch, particularly if you’re a Sabriel fan, because it’s really freaking good. I watched it, added it to a playlist I’ve got on loop right now, and realised I honestly have to write this. It’s probably inspired fics before mine, but I had to explore it just the same.

Welcome to the ride. I look forward to hearing your thoughts! (Rated T because swearing and grief and stuff.)

Happy Reading!

If you want the video (And I strongly suggest you should!): TV Land: Gabriel’s Plan B (Sabriel) by sakuri 69

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Chapters: 7/? Fandom: Supernatural Rating: Not Rated Warnings: Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings Relationships: Castiel/Dean Winchester, Gabriel/Sam Winchester, Adam Milligan/Samandriel, Lucifer/Michael (Supernatural) Characters: Sam Winchester, Dean Winchester, Castiel, Gabriel (Supernatural), Lucifer (Supernatural), Michael (Supernatural), Adam Milligan, Mary Winchester, John Winchester, Samandriel (Supernatural), Anna Milton, Charlie Bradbury, Kevin Tran, Chuck Shurley, Balthazar (Supernatural), Benny Lafitte, Jo Harvelle, Ellen Harvelle, Jody Mills, Bobby Singer, Karen Singer, Probably More People - Character Additional Tags: Alternate Universe - High School, Selectively Mute Sam, Alternate Universe - Soulmates, Soulmate-Identifying Marks Series: Part 1 of Something Less Summary:

Soulmates exist but aren’t easy to find. The first words that you hear from them appear on your skin and it’s a painful process that happens at random.

Hot, popular, and doesn’t believe in soulmates. That’s Dean Winchester. So he wasn’t exacly happy when the words ‘it can’t be him’ burned into his ankle at 11 years old. Castiel Novak, however, loves the idea of having a soulmate but the 16 year old is left heartbroken when he finds the words 'I just think the whole soulmate thing is stupid’ written on his arm.

Sam Winchester was thrilled to get his words because to just have a soulmate was enough. He knew it was unlikely he’d be able to ever speak to his soulmate due to being selectively mute for most of his life. All of Gabriel Shurley’s siblings have their words but he’s still wondering if he’ll ever get them.

Michael Singer is as straight as they come, at least that’s what he tells himself. Well, until he meets his soulmate.

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Chapters: 7/? Fandom: Supernatural Rating: Not Rated Warnings: Creator Chose Not To Use Archive Warnings Relationships: Castiel/Dean Winchester, Gabriel/Sam Winchester, Adam Milligan/Samandriel, Lucifer/Michael (Supernatural) Characters: Sam Winchester, Dean Winchester, Castiel, Gabriel (Supernatural), Lucifer (Supernatural), Michael (Supernatural), Adam Milligan, Mary Winchester, John Winchester, Samandriel (Supernatural), Anna Milton, Charlie Bradbury, Kevin Tran, Chuck Shurley, Balthazar (Supernatural), Benny Lafitte, Jo Harvelle, Ellen Harvelle, Jody Mills, Bobby Singer, Karen Singer, Probably More People - Character Additional Tags: Alternate Universe - High School, Selectively Mute Sam, Alternate Universe - Soulmates, Soulmate-Identifying Marks Series: Part 1 of Something Less Summary:

Soulmates exist but aren’t easy to find. The first words that you hear from them appear on your skin and it’s a painful process that happens at random.

Hot, popular, and doesn’t believe in soulmates. That’s Dean Winchester. So he wasn’t exacly happy when the words ‘it can’t be him’ burned into his ankle at 11 years old. Castiel Novak, however, loves the idea of having a soulmate but the 16 year old is left heartbroken when he finds the words 'I just think the whole soulmate thing is stupid’ written on his arm.

Sam Winchester was thrilled to get his words because to just have a soulmate was enough. He knew it was unlikely he’d be able to ever speak to his soulmate due to being selectively mute for most of his life. All of Gabriel Shurley’s siblings have their words but he’s still wondering if he’ll ever get them.

Michael Singer is as straight as they come, at least that’s what he tells himself. Well, until he meets his soulmate.

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