@alwaysteatime3 / alwaysteatime3.tumblr.com
You deserve love now. Not once you lose weight. Not once you accomplish that thing. Not once you move. Not once you get on medication. Not once you start therapy. Not once you get that job. Not once you're more like them. Now. You don't have to earn the right to be loved. You deserve it right now, and always have.
Disability will have you thinking shit like “I’m not even that disabled. I can manage as long as I limit myself to very specific careers, never go shopping for more than an hour or two at a time, keep my plans open so I can cancel and stay in if need be, and only go out a few nights per week at the most”
"Self insert characters are cringe"
Bro I'm trying to survive capitalism with maladaptive daydreaming. Leave me alone.
Writing a self insert helped me unpack more trauma than twenty years of therapy. Do it.
DO EET.
Segnbora is a self-insert. (And so obvious. Is there anyone west of the Prime Meridian who read the book who didn't pick up on it? Surely not.)
(Checklist: dark twisted backstory: check. Magical powers (seriously broken): check. "Pet falcon or something"? Well, is "gigantic alien silicon-based dragonlike fuckbuddy-cum-spouse" okay? Check.)
My most interesting moment after finishing the book that helped me for the first time deal anything like successfully with my own sexual assault (in my own house, in my own bedroom, while grieving my mother's death, by a "friend" of the family) at the age of 16:
Being accused by a critic of "sexually fridging" my working-it-through character "for cheap drama." (We'd say "clickbait" now.)
And you know what?
The issue was still dealt with. After the fact, the reviewer was still nothing but a poorly-clued-in person. (Projection of putative motivation can be so revealing.) And I was still free.
So, advice: (Self-)Insert where and when and how you please. Break down your prison walls in whatever way works for you. Get out of jail, (mostly) free. And before, or after, invite the would-be jailers to go fuck themselves... while, in the light, you continue going forward.
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So much respect,even the silly crocs match the outfit
yes true: platforms like that reduce your sense of pressure and how quickly you can shift pedals! it’s even better to drive in socks or barefoot (check your local laws, this is illegal some places)
would you put a discarded fruit sticker on my forehead in whimsical jest yes or no
reblog to put a discarded fruit sticker on the forehead of the person you reblogged from in whimsical jest
Anyone: Hey (asks about a special interest of mine)? Me: Becomes an unskippable cutscene
The charming Captain Echo belongs to the awesome @alwaysteatime3!
Phew! We made it through another year’s Art Fight. I had an absolute blast! If you would like to browse all the amazing art I received of my OCs while we wait for the final results, come check it out! Go Team Vamp 🧛
it's been a MINUTE since i posted on here...have an oc!!
my life has been consumed by an oc rp group that's been SO fun (unnatural disasters) so have some more doodles. this is mateus, he's a superhero, he can talk to ghosts, and he has a heart full of LOVE !!!!
im obsessed with oc portraits and drawing ocs and ocs who are hot and evil <3
a portrait i painted of an oc (what else is new!) a few weeks ago. i'm most proud of this one to date! :D
Contemporary fantasy about reclaiming your life from divinity threatening to destroy it.
🕯️Soft cinnamon roll MC 📷Protective & supportive LI 🌆Fleeting end of summer ☕️Cozy vibes 💀Dead & Memories 🌈Queer cast ✨Escaping your divinity
As Divine, Morgan’s sacred job is to send souls into the afterlife. Except Morgan can’t handle it when memories of the dead replace his own until he fears one day he won’t even remember himself. All he wants is escape and gets his chance when the familiar Fin falls into his life.
Escape turns into an end of summer road trip with Fin to replace his lost memories, and there, Morgan must decide if never returning and living his life as himself—not the Divine—is worth more than the souls he’s leaving behind.
🌻🌻🌻
Tidal wave 🌊
how do draw good
this fucking post
i finally found it
When you drink a hot beverage and you feel the heat spilling and blooming in your chest… There is nothing like it!
This is Pokémon NPC dialogue
love getting invested in other ppl's oc lore like tell me more about your original guy
nearly 30 years I’ve lived and I’ll constantly be surprised by the moon when it’s night. I just caught it really large and yellow through the trees and went “good god is that the moon”
