Okay, well, to prevent everyone from despairing at a long-ass self-involved tract on my anti-social fic, I'll start with Stan/Kyle in general. I imagine I've talked about this somehow over the last 80 years in this fandom? So, sorry to old people, this might be boring to you.
There is a 90s song by a band called the Refreshments called "Banditos." It is about a heist. This is no band I'd ever heard of and and no song I'd ever listened to until a guy made me a mix with this song on it in college. This was around the time I was getting into S/K and I think the lyrics are very Stan/Kyle, broadly construed: "you can look deep into my eyes like I was a supermodel," it goes. "Well, it's you and me, baby, no one else we can trust," on a crime spree that I guess involves using a fake ID bearing the name "Captain Jean-Luc Picard of the United Federation of Planets." Yes, Stan and Kyle would. But then I think the main selling point is:
Everybody knows that the world is full of stupid people
And I think, well, isn't that just the thesis of South Park? Justified or not. Stan and Kyle learn the world is full of stupid people, over and over again, starting with their parents and all the authority figures around them. You have to figure this would expand pretty rapidly to "everyone" once they were old enough to get out of the house. It's also the show's curdled ethos.
The song rampages along in a spirit of camaraderie, unclear what the relationship is between the singer and the person being sung to. There's just a lot of just "you," classic "this could be gay" territory, but then there's the "look deep into my eyes like I was a supermodel" -- also gay? Why would you look deeply into a supermodel's eyes? These two people are close, though. This whole song is about mutual trust. It also paints a picture of fleeing from a small town ("slash the deputy's tires") and invokes the West ("Banditos," "I'll keep the pesos"), which captures the expansive, rural mood I get from both Stan/Kyle and the show's earlier seasons.
Uhhhh what else about Stanky generally? We all love Sufjan’s “Predatory Wasp of the Palisades,” like I guess this is a fandom playlist standard, but it’s easy to liken this to S/K: stuff about brothers, stuff about hats, stuff about being cold in bed (as you would be in the mountains) and swimming (as you would in Stark’s Pond) and loving your best friend, all very small-town middle-American childhood-adjacent. Kissing? Breakups? Can’t be. Of course, as the King of Illinois, I am the only person who is allowed to claim this album at all, so, I’m right. I-L-L-I-N-O-I-S, ring the bell and call or write us! O, great river, green with envy! O, Jane Addams, spirit send thee!
There’s Grouplove’s “Tongue Tied,” which is about just kinda like, bumming around the suburbs, “take me to your best friend’s house, I loved you then, I love you now” which I don’t think is implying it’s the best friend the singer is in love with, but IDK, at the time this felt very S/K fic-core, just kind of rolling around the void in a small little town with your buddy, maybe touching his dick experimentally, growing up and loving someone, that kinda thing. Everyone always partying in SP fic, some kissing amidst. I’ve written my share.
The Thermals, “St. Rosa and the Swallows.” Very much about being united against a hostile world, maybe existential threats, possibly in a post-apocalyptic situation, or maybe just, again, in noplaceness (”the flat days and the static nights”). Could be rural Colorado (”the cold days and the frozen nights”). Some stuff about depression ("all the days I switched to auto mode, days for which I have nothing to show”). Mirrors the plot of the fic (such as it is, being unfinished) in that Stan and Kyle are just trying to get by and out together, but they find themselves tripped up by their surrounds and, ultimately in this fic, Cartman (”passing our enemies, passing our friends, passing the means we used to tell the difference between -- it’s subtle”). I think this song is supposed to be about religion, as is a lot of this album (The Body, The Blood, The Machine -- “Here’s Your Future” on this album not S/K but also great), but there’s very much a cooperative “hold you tight” teamwork vibe here, which is my go-to for them, I think.
MGMT, “Time to Pretend.” About growing up, which is the Stan/Kyle aesthetic at its core. Being creatively successful, I guess, not that I think Stan and Kyle will get wives and move to Paris and do heroin. But this is very potent for the pairing for me:
“I’ll miss the playgrounds and the animals and digging up worms. I’ll miss the comfort of my mother and the weight of the world. I’ll miss my sister, miss my father, miss my dog, and my home. I’ll miss the boredom, and the freedom, and time spent alone. But there is really nothing, nothing we can do -- love must be forgotten, life can always start up new.”
I mean, if there is a more “Stan Marsh grows up” sentiment, I’d like to hear it.
Similar affect to many of these, by the way, in Arcade Fire’s “The Suburbs,” although I believe Arcade Fire is (or should be? hard to say) off the table now, ya know, out of favor. But I mention because, if you care to listen or just remember, it’s not even particularly a love song; it uses first person plural and second person singular (“grab your mother’s keys, we’re leaving”) to evoke a big empty rural (or ... suburban) void where a kind of aimless coming-of-age detachment is rebounded in the humanity of personal attachment to one unnamed person the song is kind of being sung at. Also apocalyptic or eschatological edges, calamity haunting the song’s periphery.
Well, that’s always happening to Stan and Kyle on South Park! “In my dreams we’re still screaming” -- I know I write a lot of fic that is about 47-year-old Stan and Kyle politely being asked by the manager of a gay bar to leave the drag show because Kyle got into a fight with the waiter over only tipping 17 percent because an errant piece of ice fell in his basket of wings and kind of melted in there and got sauce everywhere, but, when I think about general Stan and Kyle feelings, I still kind of picture them rooted in the messed-up climate of the show as I imagine them growing up in that grody little town hating everything, including themselves, except each other. And I think these songs mostly speak to that.
Anyway I’ll reblog this later with some RIAT songz for whoever wants em.