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irondad & spiderson gala or formal events fanfic rec list please? I LOVE YOU

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Galas

MIT Gala by AlissaShawWrites Peter receives a strange series of texts from Tony Stark asking about colleges and his future at Stark Industries. Suddenly he and Ned are getting suits and preparing for an important meet and greet at MIT. Tony needs everything to go smoothly, but also needs to find a way to tell Peter something very important.

Two Vodka Martinis: Extra Dry, Extra Olives, Extra Fast by PinkEasterEggs Tony takes his son, Peter, to the Stark Industries' Annual Benefit for the Firefighter's Family Fund where they run into a face Tony would rather forget.

An Unfortunate Stark Gala by wherermysocks When Peter Parker, biological son of Tony Stark, gets kidnapped alongside his father, some bonding is overdue.

The Gala by taylor_tut Tony gets a chest infection but doesn't want that to keep him from hosting the one event he never misses: the Maria Stark Gala. The Avengers help him out.

I Will Keep You Safe by Ashleyparker2815 Tony Stark has invited Peter Parker to a Met Gala and at first Peter was looking forward to it but then things go wrong and Tony is there to protect Peter.

To Tie a Bond by prolixology What he absolutely didn’t expect was for Peter to be looking at him with wide eyes, as if he had been caught red-handed, standing in front of his full length mirror with his phone propped up and displaying youtube video, white shirt collar popped up, and hands gripping a blue tie haphazardly thrown around his neck.

Peter Parker: Genius, Depressed, Orphan and Hero. by The_Mishamigo Peter Parker’s parents die in a plane crash that he was also in. When he’s invited to the ten year gala to honour those who died, he reluctantly goes. He meets Tony Stark there who tries to hire him.

The Tummy Ache by happyaspie Peter is supposed to be going to the biggest Stark Industries Gala event of the year as Tony guest and for some reason, he's really nervous about. He doesn't even know why... but his stomach hurts, he's legs feel heavy and he just can't seem to stop shivering.

Your Injuries Belong to Me by duskblue Peter is hurt on patrol, and while he usually heals up quickly, this time… not so much. Unfortunately, he’s scheduled to attend a Stark Industries Gala the following night, so he’s just going to have to grin and bear it. He’ll do anything to get through the evening without disappointing Mr Stark. Even if it means hiding what could be a serious injury.

always on duty by parkrstark Peter manages to convince Tony to take him to a gala, but when Tony is hurt, he realizes that it's just as dangerous to be Tony Stark as it is to be Iron Man.

An Intern's Ordeal by ephemeralstark Peter gets invited to the Annual Stark Charity Gala, only he thinks he's attending as an intern and panics because he doesn't even know how to make coffee so how can he manage an actual event. 

ace of hearts by a_matter_of_loyalty Aunt May’s (nice) boyfriend and a jealous Tony, Peter as the most precious kid known to man, a stuffy gala and a queerphobic investor and a protective mentor.

Not quite a Dad, but pretty damn close by marvels_blue_phoenix Tony invites Peter to a Stark gala only to find out the kid doesn’t have a suit. Cue Tony’s Dad instincts kicking in.

Galas Are Not Fun by BlueKappa Peter goes to a gala with Tony and Pepper. He gets overwhelmed, and Tony can't help him out.

looks like we’re gonna have to take matters into our own hands by mjscorner peter and rhodey get taken hostage at a gala.

Unadulterated Love by BrownShades_StyledGoatee Peter and Tony go to a Stark Foundation gala and midway through it, Peter notices that something is wrong with his mentor. With a pang in his heart, Peter notices that Tony is getting another one of his migraines. Peter steps up and takes care of his IronDad.

Come back don’t leave me (i still need you) by ScarletPotter Peter goes to a gala with his dad, Tony. Peter gets poisoned.

Appreciate What You Have (Or Else) by josywbu Peter and Tony get ready to attend a gala and they’re being cute about their matching outfits.

Events

A Stark Contrast To The Expected by Buckets_Of_Stars When Peter and Tony leave the Annual Stark Charity Event, they are expecting to have a relatively quiet night in the Tower, away from the demanding crowds and invasive News Reporters. But when they become the target of one man's drunken hatred, things quickly take a turn for the worst.

Where You Even Listening To Me? by happyaspie In which Tony has Peter accompany him to a charity event but gets so caught up in his business-forward persona that he might accidentally stop paying attention to his kid... Oops?

Glory by Captain_John_Holmes Peter does a charity event with the Avengers as Spider-Man. The Avengers all sing songs and Spider-Man is the last one up, he sings Glory by John Legend and reveals something at the end of the song.

Who Doesn't Want a Hot Lunch? by itsreallylaterightnow Peter looked up to see Rhodey staring him down. The man was across the crowded room, but Peter could tell he knew. The Colonel gave Peter a firm shake of his head, but Peter just shrugged his shoulders before turning and rushing down the hallway.

Grabbing Coffee and Filing Paperwork by inkinmyheartandonthepage Peter goes to an SI event with Tony and Pepper, as Tony's personal intern. During the evening Pepper feels unwell and Tony suggests they leave. In his worry about Pepper, Tony forgot that he was Peter's ride home.

gucci by babochu In which Tony wears a Spider-Man shirt to an event and chaos ensues.

Hope this helps!